Hello to all the users
of this site !
A little politeness anyway :)
Well, so I found this site a few months ago through a family member who told me that it was a great site here ...
I did not discover China because I lived two years in Guangzhou where I learned Chinese, then I went to Beijing to study economics at a university.
I know absolutely nobody in Beijing and I admit that it is not easy to become friends with Beijingers ... I met a few weeks ago a native Beijing Girl speaking good French. She lives in this city for over 10 years, but is originally from the region of Hubei (I think it is not far from Beijing).
She has lived in France for one or two years, that's why she has a good level in French. In France, she taught Chinese to French people.
What happened is that we met through this site, and I was very happy to speak French with Chinese because it was the first time!
She told me she shared a small apartment of 30 m2 with 3 other girls, so she is always squatted in my home I live near San Li Tun in a home that the Embassy of my country rents me for a good price. I went to her home, maybe once for two reasons: the first:it is too small, the second is that the word “privacy” does not really exist even if his two friends do not understand French nor English.
is a French teacher in a Language school and earns about 4,000 yuan
RMB / month (you'll understand the reason of this detail). She told
me: "having paid my rent, internet, and a few bills, I can keep
a little money to send to my parents). I thought it would be a limit
to it especially since it was brand new Apple PC, the last I-PHONE,
clothing brands quite expensive for the Chinese and I saw that her
makeup was also brand.
By dint of frequent, it is always filled my house and it was pretty cool because I had someone who spoke and I can cook for others because I love cooking for others.Like this, she can try new cuisine.
We were both happy end of it. We often went to restaurants near San Li Tun, you know these restaurants are Turkish or Arab super good. I was paying bills every time of course because it is the tradition in China, it works like that!
One day she called me to say she had forgotten her handbag at home, I told her "I am on the other side of Beijing" So do not worry, the door is closed. I felt some stress on his part, then she said okay.
At the University one day, I was talking to a Tunisian student who had lived in Canton, and I showed him the photo of the girl and then he told me he knew this girl and he advised me to not talk to her. It seems she was dating several guys at the same time always using them always foreigners. He even told me his name and surname that does not match the name she had originally.
Later, I went home and I knew that I would have before it as to enter the residence, you need a special card and the guardian does not let go the people he does not know. I confess that I thought that my classmate said, so I went to open her purse (I know this is not good) but I wanted to be sure.
already it was true, the names were not the same, she was from Jilin
not Hubei. Then I found a book in which she made her account: she
actually earned 3,000 to 4,000 yuan per month.
Then there was a list of all telephone numbers corresponding to the numbers of foreigners (I have them all recorded and kept for me). I called with a 4 or 5 of them with her I-PHONE and people thinking that she was, some said "hello my love it will" or other "loose me what is good." Talking with these people, we all understood that a good bunch of stupid people.
Turning the pages, I saw that each number corresponds to needs that we finally filled "me was the food," she apparently economized 1000 RMB / month. Another, a Qatari he specialized in clothing and makeup of all kinds "He had paid for about 25,000 yuan" of it, another was French, it was Mr. Makeup with 7000 yuan gifts, it there was an American Mr. Day he brought in big fancy parties with clearly compulsory payment of evening dresses about 20,000 RMB / month.
Then I'd end up with the best of all an Australian who has dropped more than 80,000 yuan for holidays in heavenly places in Asia or other ...
we were all on the ass, I admit it. A Canadian even told me he
quickly discovered his scheme and that it shas not stopped calling
for him to come back and escape, he had to block the internet and
change of apartment . He told me he knew when he had to lgive him
money to buy a new phone and a laptop computer (she never gave back
In the end, all the dummies ( us), we decided to give it go all together in two days in a Turkish restaurant.
But before that, she came back home (I pretend I knew nothing), I deleted all the calls I made and I gave all the objects in their places. She resumed her Louis Vuitton bag (I wonder who is Mr. Louis Vuitton) and she told me she had money for rent and she needed 20,000 RMB, so I told het"no problem I'll lend them," we'll talk in two days. To thank me, she even offered to sleep with me and I refused (I really do) because it seemed like a prostitute and dirty. I told her she ordered a taxi to go home.
A few days later, we met again at home, I told her then that I would give her the cash later in the evening to celebrate but we ate in a nice restaurant. She always said agreement. And then step by step, each stupid man (us) came to ask specific locations of the restaurant. Apparently, she had noticed the "Mr. Travel" and she said "can we go ?," I told her then say "was commissioned for 1000 RMB foods, we can not go." So she went to the bathroom and then came back and all the “boyfriends “ were there. Then she asked, "What the fuck ? " So everyone has ordered for a bill estimated at about 6000 RMB.
After she confessed that she was using the men to be able to save money and have everything she dreams. She had even thought to convince the Canadian back home to Canada because she was tired of China and all this mess. She spoke of marriage for papers lying to Canada than it was for love.
We all crossed at once, one of the guests took over the laptop, another emptied his bag and took the bag and we all crossed. Fortunately, the vigil of the entry was not there and we left.
A few days later, she called me to ask me to pick her up at the police station, that I did not do. Then she said it was our fault, the police told me I had to pay. I said that I had come to the restaurant, but I did not order anything because I had already eaten.
A few days later, I happened reviewed in Canadian street in question, and she was on trial because she did not pay.
My conclusion is simple: I'm not trying to say that all Chinese girls are like that because I would be a liar to say it. But this new form of prostitution greatly shocked me because I lived abroad a bit and I've never seen this. Maybe in the western world, things are different.
I would like to know what you think of this episode and if something similar has happened to you ...
I look forward to your
Again, I say it again and again: all Chinese girls are not like that.