My sister who is several yrs older than me. She got married last year.
before marriage, she told me she was not satisified with her BF( now hubby), bacause he is very boring, they seldom exchange, he pays too much attention to work, and they do not have anyhing in common, and has no sense of careing bla bla,
I tried to persuade her not to marry in a hurry but she said she didnot want to end the relation, bacause they have spent 7 years together, and the guy has a good job, he has a nice temper bla bla and it is hard to find someone suitable and their parents are pushing them to get married,
And finally, they married, maybe one yr ago.
But now I was told she has fallen in love with someone else. She told me her lover is a foreign divorced guy. he is 8 or 7 yrs older than her, He has a 2-3 yrs old son (mixed-blood kid with a Chinese woman). She told me that guy has many things in common with ther.
She felt happy with him, but she has no idea of how to develop further, coz her hubby is innocent and his parents are nice to her. and she also cannot face to our family and relatives...
She is now suffering and dare not tell this to her friends around.
I am her only relative in Beijing and the only one who could trust on.
Now I am worried about her. I want her to live with Mr right and could be happy. but it is really a big decision, I do not know how to help her make a correct decision.
What do you think? Any useful suggestion?