Why do women want what they can't have???
One of the world's greatest mysteries.
Just let the guy live his philia in peace.
If the guy likes the physical attributes of foreign girls... and that's the only thing that he sees before getting to know them.. you can't change the fact that he wants blonde hair, western eyelids and for example blue eyes. Western girls also tend to be more curvy if that's what he prefers.
For Chinese men, in their perspective, having a blonde foreign girlfriend (even not that good looking) is huge status symbol as not so many western girls date chinese men as western men dating chinese girls... maybe he is just superficial wanting to have something to drag around that gives him face. If he is more deep as a person maybe he likes the way of western girls' thinking and that may also be very hard to change for people grown in environment that discourages independent thinking, individualism and has other totally different values, demands and what's considered the way to show and receive affection.
Ain't seduction just about figuring out what it is the people want and giving it to them? If his preference is derived from the belief popular with many Chinese guys--that Western girls are more sexually liberal and willing to exchange casual sex--then you probably already know what to do. Carpe scrotum. The extent to which his beliefs re: Western sexuality reflect reality or simply reflect popular stereotypes is not all that important.
On the other hand, he could be an actually cool dude whose preference is due to his interests in a particular academic pursuit, type of music, or subculture. This is a best case scenario, but even then your chances are slim unless you share that particular interest.
BROTIP: Being a fan of The Big Bang Theory does not mean you can relate to geeks.
But maybe he just really doesn't like Asian girls because he believes they are 装B. In that case, you probably aren't going to 装 your way into making him like you.
Hahahahaha ... as much as this is another MI, the old Chinese saying is:
So ... there is much sacrifice to be made, while the result cannot be guaranteed, and plenty of disappointment is to be expected ... how far is she willing to go, and/or lose?
Hahahahaha ... as they say, the plot thickens ... so he is a Shandong guy living in Japan, and he does not like Asian girls? The poor guy must be in a crisis ...
Where is your GF now?
He is in Japan but only date western girls? He is not yet to know what he has missed.
only date westen girls for a long time,he likes their appearance
What a wonderful person
and hes not in china hes in japan
That was for OP, ingerling.
Do Men Find Dumb-Looking Women More Attractive? A new study says yes. By Jesse Bering (link)
Ask a straight man, “How do you like your women?” and it’s unlikely he’ll answer, “Dumb and sleepy.” But according to new findings, these characteristics—and any other traits suggesting that the lady isn’t particularly alert—are precisely what the human male has evolved to look for in a one-night-stand.
In an article soon to be published in Evolution and Human Behavior, University of Texas–Austin graduate student Cari Goetz and her colleagues explored what they called the sexual exploitability hypothesis. The hypothesis is based on the differences between male and female reproductive strategies as humans evolved. For ancestral women, casual intercourse with an emotionally unattached man who had no clear intention of sticking around to raise any resulting offspring constituted a massive genetic gamble. By contrast, for a man with somewhere around 85 million sperm cells churned out every day—per testicle—the frivolous expenditure of gametes was far less detrimental to his genetic interests. Goetz and her team began with the assumption that—because our brains evolved long before prophylactics entered the picture—female cognition is still sensitive to the pregnancy-related consequences of uncommitted sex and women remain more reluctant than men to engage in it. They set out to test the idea that any indication that a woman’s guard is lowered—that she’s “sexually exploitable”—is a turn-on for your average man. “[T]he assessment of a woman’s immediate vulnerability,” surmise the authors, “may be central to the activation of psychological mechanisms related to sexual exploitation.”
carpe scrotum: this. Pｒｅｓｕｍｉｎｇ ｔｈｅ ｇｉｒｌ ｉｓ ｈｏｔ, I can't imagine any straight guy would care about her racial background. But there are cultural factors that might be relevant. For the most part though, aren't looks the deciding factor behind whether we want to get to know someone. If he's gotten to know her and isn't interested, then they're not compatable. If he hasn't gotten to know her, she's not attractive and she should exercise more. Problem resolved?
The bestest of the bestest of Western chicks are emasculating bitches like my mother, my maternal grandmother, and Hillary Clinton.