I donno if here is a good place to hear suggestion, but its open enough to know ppl's mind here.. I just wanna see the different ideas of what iam going to tell.. I am a girl 23 and i met a man from Italy he is 33 with very open-minded and good position in his company.. After the first date we keep hanging out and he is really sweet to me and seem very good at taking care of the girl,he said he wants to keep me never want to lose me,he will do anything i want.. even if we actually only met two times, But it was really great time until i felt something was wrong.. felt like he bullshit. On his cellphone i found two girls pictures (ambiguous), actually i would not care caz i was thinkin that is his history.. but later i just found on his cellphone he was talking n meeting with another girl.. I asked why, he said he just didnt want to eat alone ( he is in tianjin ),i spoke to him i was not okay with it and i asked him if its okay that i meet with guys for dinner or lunch. He said as long as not going to the bar that is okay..and he trust me. That was his answer... seriouly i didnt understand how it would works,it sounds just like bullshit.. and then in the morning i didnt really show i was happy instead of i was being cold.. but he seem doesnt know anything or donno it was really a matter to me ( we talked the night before though,nothing special) i left just with exactly polit speake to him without kiss. He also didnt be positive doing something and he was kind angry... I knew i like him and i want this relationship.. but without trying i will be regret.. bt i just cant see him again since i always know he thinks its okay meeting another girl.. is this too openminded..? Or something else.. i told him i thought that was pre-sex warm up bt he denyed.. I feel he bullshits me.. but iam just confused.. Whats your guys idea..?? I really appreciate any of them!