Push her down a flight of stairs. She'll thank me later.
abortion maybe the best way,even not really nice to do it...
my this friend wanna get marry with her i think， but such kind marrige and last for long time？
emotion and love can be growing with the marriage sometimes...
if they both single,why don't try it?also think they had emotions for each other the girl could be pregnant...
girl love him， but he dont love that woman
that woman wanna get marrige with him very much
who knows， but she old enough ， if “流产”，in future will not easy pregnant i think。
if they both want,also the better way they get married with each other...because of the child or children...
i also wanna know， if chinese man have such kind situation what they will do， if west man have such kind situation what they will do？the atttitude for such kind situation。
she loves him wanna get married might not easily get pregnant in the future
could be that she wanted this but a shotgunmarriage is never good however the guy might want to take responsibility for the kid without getting married
m mmmm，life never always perfect。。。。。。。。。。
Responsibility of what? a future unhappy kid? And the guy may tell his child someday like, look, kiddo, I never loved your mother, but because of you, I had to marry her, It's your fault!
nowadays people are more open minded,but in another words marriage without love could be the disaster,but for the lady sometimes having kid is important,they would find the solution best for both of them...
i hope they can find best solution。
This thread is an abortion.
Spare the poor foetus a more miserable existence of being born a human being, to parents who do not love one another. That lady needs to get that potential person sucked out of her cooter pronto.
Mooney, disagreed! Just because they became famous afterwards, doesn't mean they really turned out just fine. If you were a foster child, you would have a different view. Btw, there's no baby, just some cells.
@Rockstar, Agree with you ;) ... wait no !!!!! we are talking about Adoption in China?!?!?!?!?!? and have a baby without marry in China?!?!? Lose face, gossips and those things..... that baby is doomed
A pity ( *pitty) born in a society where blood bonds are too important, I suppose that tribal features are not always cool....
So, given they are chinese and they live in china, there is no choice in this, abortion
Hahahahaha ... in this case, I opt for "abortion" ...
Though Mooney has stated a few "positive" cases, these happened fairly much by chance, and they are in the minority, and we all know that there are many "negative" ones, perhaps in the millions, often due to "bad marriages" (what Cipherie said), or, in some cases, being raised by a mother (or guardian in general) who might not otherwise approve the existence of the child (no one mentioned it?) ...
[5 min later] I nearly forgot that there is a hukou issue ... a child born without a father can be permanently scarred, because hukou is still a "prerequisite" for schooling, medical, social security etc ...
why is everyone trying to kill the innocent baby
A fetus isn't a baby. Not biologically. Not psychologically. Not morally.
Giving birth is not easy (it wasn't too long ago that women frequently died from it, and even now it's more dangerous than an abortion), and putting a baby up for adoption is risky, especially in developing countries which do not have well-developed child protection services, orphanages, and foster care institutions.
just do the goddamn abortion, the baby is innocent it's true, but how many kids want to be born without a dad, or live with adopted parents?
You have been so merciful
One thing I DO NOT miss about America is opposition to a woman's right to choose. If y'all think I'm passionate about certain political issues, you ain't seen nothing yet.
One thing I DO miss about America is that very few cafes in China can properly prepare my chicken abortions sunny side up.
Jesus Creamy Christ on a Communion Cracker, @A Tofu, that was tasteless. I like it, but I guess I won't be putting ketchup on my eggs this morning.
哈哈哈哈，姥姥，那是三个字，就算，把重复的 cheap 算一个，也算是两个了！难怪，你说英文不重要，因为你根本没有学会！
It ought to be noted that the eggs you eat have not actually been fertilized, so equating them with abortions is not an accurate analogy.
The scenario the OP mentions has happened to me, more than once I'm sad and shamed to say. Knowing what to do is difficult.
I have always told the woman that if she wants to, she should go ahead with the pregnancy and that I would support her. Though it is difficult for me to say how sincere I was being. I felt very uneasy and at times like I was playing a game of psychological brinkmanship.
marry her the first year & divorce the second year . but i won't be such a stupid guy to touch a girl who i do not even in loved. coz i'll be a rational guy ...
Babies are stupid.