Hahahahaha ... Kodi ... you skipped to mention whether this girl is Chinese or not!
If she is not Chinese, then she might be a bit big in size, and/or if she is also indeed somewhere at the top of the pyramid in Hong Kong, then most people might be worried about going near her due to some inferior issue, except those who only wanted her
for fun ...actually, more or less like some of the guys on this site :)
And in general, whether she is Chinese or not, maybe, just maybe, she has this "self abuse complex" (someone once criticised me badly that I dont know psychology, so I just made it up as I go along) and like to be treated like so, however, she met you (or
your friend) whom she does not need to feel that way?
... and, perhaps a very minor issue, although you said "you", did the girl actually say it to you in the face, or call you the next day, or text it to you, or email it to you? or did you hear that from someone else, who is a genuinely nice person?