Lots of good advice here. This should be required reading.
I do think that condoms should be a man's responsibility, though. Abortions and birth control pills would be hers. On the other hand, it certainly doesn't hurt for a woman to have a supply of condoms at hand, especially if she gets allergic reactions to some brands.
condoms should be used...keep ladies away from coleitis...
the writer definitely is a man...just focus on his pleasure but forget responsibility...
but still some advices are useful..
thx, Ami :)
"the writer definitely is a man...just focus on his pleasure but forget responsibility..."
Well, yeah, obviously it's a dude. One could surmise as much from the title. A woman would phrase it with less hostility. And I do agree that much of this is very cock-centric and implies that sex without orgasm is an indication failure, with which I don't agree. But several of these pieces of advice suggest women to communicate what they want so that they can have more fun, as well. So it's not strictly focused on his pleasure, but hers, too.
What do you mean about responsibility? When I hear this used without qualification, I assume they haven't read #14. While sex should always be about love and becoming closer to another person, it doesn't necessarily indicate that a person has obligations beyond being a sensitive lover.
Sex happens outside of commited life-long relationships sometimes. It's normal. It's been happening for millions of years.
Perhaps I am reading too deeply into your statement, however. Please clarify if I am mistaken.
BTW Sylvia, thank you for teaching me a new word for vaginal inflammation. At first I thought you misspelled colitis, and I thought, "Wrong hole!"
"Wrong hole"...that's not what i meant..heihei
those advices are for two ppls having sex but not in a serious relationship. If he wanna marry her in the future, he might think about something else but not just for fun...
Such as vaginal inflammation...if woman has it, she cant brith unless cure. BTW, vaginal inflammation is just a piece of cake than human papilloma virus...
That's why i insist use condom..If the one loves me, he shall understand and offer himself
Though am a Priest, I do thing that each work should yield an outcome. Good sex ends up with reaching the G point.
Condom isn't only used for contraception, but also against STD.
oh no... I didn't see this before starting that... makes a little sense
Clint, which side or talking about? Left or right?:)
ha ha ha, he is handyman then, he got wide range of skills:)
@Sylvia, You are right. HPV is a nasty bitch, and most people don't even know they carry it. The strain that causes cervical cancer cannot be detected without regular pap smear exams, and there is NO way to test for HPV in men. There are vaccines being developed, but they're expensive and ineffective. The safest thing to do is to assume you already have HPV if you're sexually active, even with just one partner.
I know what you meant! It's just that I've got bad eyes and a sick mind.
@Hoot, 600 RMB for a vaginal infection? What the fuck? Did her ladybits have some sort of superbacteria that developed an immunity to metronidazole antibiotic ointment? That's over-the-counter medicine. It should be cheap.
@Ami. I'd like to see. please:)