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  • A.w
    A.w wrote:
    <p>&ldquo;Here is a film that watches pretty well itself. Derek Cianfrance, the film's writer and director, observes with great exactitude the birth and decay of a relationship. This film is alive in its details. Toward the end of the six years, when Cindy is hardly able to remember why she wanted to marry Dean, Cianfrance observes the physical and mental exhaustion that has overcome her. And the way that Dean seems hardly to care &mdash; just so long as Cindy remains his wife and his watcher, which in his mind was the deal. Dean thinks marriage is the station. Cindy thought it was the train.&rdquo;</p> <p>最痛苦的分开并不是对方有外遇,或者可以说出理由的不爱。因为当你知道问题,&ldquo;痛点&rdquo;在哪里,至少可以去change or fight。就算今日分开,也终有原谅的一天。</p> <p>最痛苦的分开就是向这部电影里描写的一样。当曾经所有的爱恋,快乐回忆都被时间,现实生活扼杀的一点不留的时候,选择分开是无法反抗的也是无能为力的。当某一天的清晨,睁开睡眠不足的眼,看着自己和枕边人,发现自己的身体已经臃肿不堪,思想已经懈怠,问自己生活怎么 会一步一步走到这里,不是两个人应该更快乐,却如何变成这样忙碌的绝望。这样的情绪比&ldquo;恨&rdquo;更可怕。因为你无法原谅自己或者身边的那个他/她。</p> <p>Cindy不是不爱Dean的,但绝对不是今时今日的他。曾经他所有的优点,浪漫不羁,唱歌,跳舞,但今日都成为Cindy要改变他的理由,也都成为扼杀他们幸福的刽子手。当Dean 哭着问Cindy, &ldquo;What did I do wrong? I love you and I can do everything that you ask for.&rdquo; Cindy 只是说 &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know, and give me space!&rdquo;</p> <p>不知道是最可怕的答案,不知道当时为什么要嫁他,不知道为什么今日要改变他,不知道为什么生活到了这样的地步,不知道为什么要选择离婚。但所有的一切都这样都发生了!如何到了这里,不是不爱,却已经无法在继续,因为生活本身总是高于爱情,而我们总是本想的选择让自己好好的活着。</p> <p><img src="http://chud.com/articles/content_images/173/BlueValentineLargePoster.jpg" alt="" width="1521" height="2250" /></p>
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)


    Hahahaha ... Ami ... see if this might fit better ...

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    Ami, I love you.



  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)




  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    DD,我的mac看不了风行。。。5555。。。 I missed the old days watching movies via funshion...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)


    Hahaha, we both know that's not true ... off to bed now ... good night all, and happy new year :)

  • Yasir A.J
    Yasir A.J wrote:

    i watched it last week

    good movie!!  8 out of 10 maybe!

    not depressed after waching!

  • Webslave
    Webslave wrote:

    just watched this film by accidence, it is really damn good. it's not that depressing, it makes me think about me and my future.

  • Minger
    Minger wrote:

    Movies that are too realistic just make me think about reality...

  • CC
    CC wrote:

    噢,看了剧情简介,这是"痒"了吧. . 呵呵

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:



  • R-R
    R-R wrote:


  • High Priest
    High Priest wrote:

    Y would someone going to get depressed in watching such a movie?

  • Miffy Xue
    Miffy Xue wrote:


  • Monica Jakobsen

    interesting..... especially the name of this thread.

  • Mikky
    Mikky wrote:

    me too,正好最近有点小郁闷

  • Tina
    Tina's猫 wrote:


  • Undermoonlight

    Why the hell a man wanna be depressed?~~

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