Sex education can definitly be a part of the solution! Then, for sure i m agree! that s better to bring a child in what we could call a "classical environment", with a mother and a father. But, do we have to kill someone, because he won t be in this environment?
It s really hard to answer, it s case by case, nobody is in the same situation. But, in all the situations, please, just have a heart! Instead of bannish differences, try to help them, to give and to be generous. Beatles said all u need is love, and love is
all u need...
then i can share with u my experience. I stayed 10 years with my 1st real GF, from 20 years old to 30. She had a child at 18, accident, it happens. I didn t think that she was a bitch or whatever, she has a high level education, she s doctor, and at this
moment i loved her. it was only the point, so i took her and the children who was not mine, but i did my best to give him education and happiness. This child now is 18 years old, he seems to be well, no school problem, he has a social life, friends, and seem
to be happy. The mother have an another BF who seems to be a good father for the kid.
oh and for sure, i never married her, a lot of people of my generation think that wedding is an old "has been" tradition, the important thing is "love".
different cultures, different way of seeing the things.
i can add, that when i talk with my mama about these things, she said that in the 50's if u were mother without having a husband, everybody said bad words about u! things changed a lot around the 60's, and thanks god, we re more able to accept the differences,
hope it will happens in china. Just let the people live as they want and don t judge them. There s no perfect model, but many models.
what do u think?