well... I think control maybe good for him if you are spending his $$$ on yourself.... "very rich and successful" dose not necessary be generous babe..
so, think about how much you love this Mr. charming first.
i'd like to be in control of my own life, thanks!
and JZ's daughter will marry that boy :)
qouted from a tv drama: 女わね、うかうかすると、一生だれかの寄生になって生きる
But I am not very sure if I made the dictation 100% correctly. It seems a little hard to me to translate it into English. While, the chinese version is: 女人的一生，漫不经心的依附个男人也能过下去。社会就是这样子的。不能被金钱指使。如果不能成为出钱的那一方，就算有钱，也不能帮你实现梦想。自己做自己 的主人。
I am still not sure if I translateed it correctly. But I think it is good enough to answer ur question.
no,he even doesnt respect you..
why does money matter in this?
if u r someones lover doesnt that mean the other persons got a wife or gf
so all u do would be just see him and do the nasty with him right?
or r u sayin lover like u want to be his gf.....
As for the control part, a real man never lacks control over his lady.
But, for generousity, if he's not generous to you and yet wealthy
it means he doesn't really care.
You could as well flee.
straight question to those NO answers....why???....please tell something valid....(null)x