During the redesign of this site appeared a box on everyone's profile called "stats" that let's everyone know how much messages were written in your guestbook and how much you wrote back (which was already visible in the guestbook anyway), but does the same thing for "private" messages, which then became a little less private.
It would be great when this site rolls out new features or redesigns that:
1. they could make an announcement about it and tell the users (especially when things that used to be private are now public to everyone).
2. roll out features that are actually interesting and engaging to the users rather than promoting voyeurism... (but this is only personal preference).
Well basically I would love to have an idea of what you guys intend to do with this website. Did you suddenly realize you had more to win into enforcing the "dating" aspect here or is there a profound reflexion on how knowing how many messages people have sent actually encourages social behaviors in here? Or is it just to help people spot fake profiles?