"...except the ones who say things like "fuck me!" How am I supposed to respond to that? 'I already am!'"
Hahaha. Seriously, this has always puzzled me. Although any kind of verbalization is better than none...
"You don't need to tell the guy you didn't have an orgasm; that should be obvious to him, right?"
See Jon's comment about those chicks that have stealth orgasms. It does happen, and it is frustrating as hell. Seriously ladies, don't be shy about speaking up. Dudes are not psychic.
"let me tell you sth, bringing girls to orgasm doesnt depend on if guys' penuts big or small. it depends on if guys do it with their care, hearts and love."\
Sorry, but I've never (ever) met a girl that gets off on care, hearts or love. For the record, I have a huge peanuts. She accidentally the whole peanuts. Sorry, I'm in rare form this morning.
Glad to see that most of the gals (and dudes) here are into communicating their needs. I've never understood women (or men) that are quiet in the bedroom - for fuck's sake, you're both already naked and swapping multiple body fluids. Would it kill you to
talk a little? I understand some folks are just naturally quiet, but still. Ask and ye shall receive...don't ask, and ye...shall...be...sad. Fuck.