@Peter Baird, i think that is not issue of mums, if not of daddis :P
A daddy´s daughter is a little girl that her father educates in this way:
if you want this toy, this candy, first give a kiss or huge to your daddy.
later the little girl learns and understands that when she wants something only must to go with daddy and practise the ¨charms¨ that before daddy´s taught her.
ohh, come on daddy, really i like this toy (plus) kisses, huges, to pout, ojitos de corderito
summarizing, daddy´s love is a conditional love, if x then y
Later with the pass of the years, when the nature changes the girl into woman, she discovers that now she has more power in this negotiation with men, and also with the past of the years, now she doesn´t wants toys or candies, maybe she wants entertaiment
or experiences, and....well in the modern society if you have money you can buy this things. For a
daddy´s girl understands the relations between men and women like a negotiation is a nature way in her mind, because maybe she never has felt other way. how can they fall in love if their behaviour in their relations is the contrary path to love one
person? for them love is only a word
About “The White Haired Girl should marry Huang Shiren” which is fashionable
among young people.... maybe popular between the chinese middle class and up class, that they can go to the universities and listen to this kind of speechs. I don´t live in chaoyang or in wudaokou, is in a
no-laowai-place, and from this place i can observe all days how the middle class and the other ¨classes¨ under this educate their sons and daughters, and the ways are very very differents. there are many daddy´s daughters in middle class and up (---there
are some persons--- is not the same ----all persons---, ok????).
Maybe this touchs the topic of the harmony in the chinese society, but harmony is concordance of contraries, when there isn´t differents, only uniformity, harmony is something innecesary.
in any case, if you are laowai here and you are looking for love, not only be a dick, two advices:
a) develop chinese
b) develop chinese male friends, they can detect the chinese bitches better than us.
c) don´t trust in women that they give the first step, there are good reasons for the men always should do this (give the first step) first.
d) don´t go vics
Fin de mi paranoia