Discussion » Dating & Romance » a lover and a friend

  • Inga Ginger
    Inga Ginger wrote:
    once i started dating with a guy i had been friends with for 3 years(he turned to be in love with me for most of that time), i immediately regreted! we managed to stand that for several months, but i realized it was no good at all
    the reason: maybe there was no mistery in him we are in need of when start dating..or maybe since we've been friends for so long there was no passion..

    though i want my boyfriend to be my friend and my lover at the same time, I prefer it started with passion, then friendship and respect..

    Do you have any positive or negative experience of moving from friendship to dating? do you think there can appear real love?

    and a question after: did it happened that chance sex spoiled the friendship)? or didn't influence?

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