I'm sure all of you have the met the extremes. The completely superficial gold digger type thriving on the new millionaire culture radically developing since the Deng XiaoPing era- to the country born, less out going type (works day in day out, maybe watches a DVD here and there, goes hiking and saves money).
Is there a balanced Chinese girl? Do they exist? OF COURSE, but in what proportion to the said extremes?
Another thing I've been considering is a value system or lack thereof . It seems China in the early days had a strict moral order (filial piety, huge emphasis on education, family unit importance, you know....values... )
China being religious-less also can also in turn mean a loose sense of values, especially today since the opening of China to the world in the late 70s (78?). Maybe I should focus on large cities like Beijing since I've noticed in the country areas and out west, folks tend to be a bit more traditional, which is nice.
Money seems to be the culture of today, and is huge pull factor for women when meeting their man. granted, money and stability is vastly important when considering marriage and the like, but in simple romantic relationships in our 20s, it seems more difficult to attract those beautiful girls (specifically beautiful, like p1 beautiful) out there if you can't provide what every high roller fat cat chinese guy spoils her with.
<<Side note. You rich Chinese guys are screwing up the game for everyone.>>
I've definitely said a lot more about this topic than what I'm writing. Meaning I include a number of curses and what not.
Anyhow I'm just trying to say i think its difficult to find that balanced Chinese girl who is beautiful, intelligent, outgoing and with a good set of values. Is this really that rare? Think back to your home countries. These type of women (beau,intell,outgoin,values) were attainable in our respective homelands, but here, it seems like a far fetched idea. Why?
Comments. (Gosh, I'm sticking myself in the back with this post)