First, I get it. Women get horrible treatment when it comes to sexuality. If you're not a prude, then you're a whore. It's unfair and has no place in society.
However, I am really tired of reading this board and talking to people in real life and hearing things like all guys are players, as though women don't do exactly the same thing.
I don't know if it's my personality, my race, or just happenstance, but I cannot get a woman to look at me as relationship material. This is despite having a good job, a very good education, etc. If a woman looks at me, it's usually only for the one "good" black stereotype. I have been played so many times in the last year, I don't know where to start.
It may not play into all-too-convenient gender stereotypes, but women use men too. Hell, people use people. I really wish all of this women-as-fairer-sex-men-as-players talk would just die. In my experience it is far from that simple.