STDs, for one. But hey, whatever floats your boat.
I think it basically boils down to how important you consider sex to be. To go all armchair-sociologist: I think the high-importance of sex harks back to marriage and it being one of the things reserved for committing yourself to one person.
But I think with more relaxed attitudes towards marriage and divorce, especially in Western cultures, sex has also become less of a mythical/romantic thing, and I think this is where the conflict arises. Some people see sex as being part of that higher-emotional experience, others just don't anymore(culturally, rather individually speaking)
I have no problem with one night stands incidently, but I've also had girlfriends that were so far opposite on that scale that I don't really think it's a compatibility problem. I think attitudes towards sex aren't really that important if there's clear communication and the guy(because, well, it's traditionally the guy that has the casual sex mentality) isn't trying to be misleading.
Life is short, have sex, be safe! (I actually have these words on one of my shirts)
Nothing wrong with one night stand! it's usually hot and steamy.. i like it!
One night stand is the subject of this forum?
First thing i am going to say is Kelsang Metok - i think you will suddenly find many people adding you as a friend here : ) Must be they liked your proflie ! or because of your liberal policy towards one night stands!
Now with regards to my thoughts on one night stands - Its not my business what other people do! And I would not discuss my private life with strangers::P
Oh and Sophie - thats a really cool story about the guy picking up the older woman haha !! thanks for sharing it.. What about the story where the woman is much younger and more beautiful? haha
STDs is the first concern, and ONS if ya think it hurts nothing, well, that's your way of having it as a way-out exercise? Well, I personally agree that ONS is nowadays stress-out routine life products in China it's normal, but in the eyes of a traditional Chinese woman, I can't think it has nothing wrong , cuz ages ago, this would cause a crime of adultery, and be despised by ppl. It's a moral issue for a woman if you slept with someone you don't know, how shall you face the future when you educate your kids not sleeping around? Being a model is important at first in my eyes. Yes, at least in a woman's eyes.
Maybe guys have different way of thinking,and that explains why now this topic is raised by a guy here.
Oh, Sophie gives a good lesson for boys now, lol
John, you mean it doesn't hurt how you educate your children of how to be a good wife and women if your wife have say at least 20 ONS-mates when she's young? How it comes when your child found such a lady is her mother, teaching her daughter to be a good girl? Like a bitch/prostitute teaching how to be a noble lady seriously ever after? Can't think it's a wise EXPERIENCE :)
what really matters is that whether you can REALLY have fun. some people don't feel good afterwards especially girls cause they are more sensitive.
we should be wiser to have fun.
and be wiser to choose sex partner. don't get stds...
Call me crazy, but appears that John is soliciting for a so-called 419.