Discussion » Nonsense » how to make a right decision

  • Amber
    Amber wrote:
    <p>i became a woman without any confidence on anything............that influences everything coming up to me .........disturbs my behavior ,so that now i can hardly make any decisions at all ..............how to change.........</p>
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahaha ... frankly, not the same Amber that I remember ... what happened?

    I will start with my silly answer about "decisions", but I am sure others will gladly share their wisdom ...

    Lay out all the pros and cons, draw a "balance sheet", on paper or in your mind, and then choose the "best" option

    After you have made this your habit, it is difficult not to do it ...

  • Amber
    Amber wrote:

    very effective, ........i always know it , but never practically write everthing down, so when i followed ur advice this time, everything is much more clear than they are in my mind.

    not the same amber? what is the amber u remember like?btw

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    (continued) ... I will use the quote from the movie to answer: cool, calm and collective ... something like that anyway ...

    We have to keep in mind that knowing does not mean doing ... anyway, after you use "writing" a few times, you are likely to "build" a system in your head, and you probably dont need to write in future ...

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