I've seen a lot of porn movies, and in society it's always about sex, not about making love.
But it makes me think:
sex is enjoyable for both. why is there such a big emphasis on the man fucking the girl, and only the man enjoying it? he cums, and the girl goes out of sight, as if she is just an object. i really don't like that!
i like to consider my girl's feelings. in making love, we are ONE. not two. we are two, but the act of making love makes us as ONE.
so, i want to pleasure my girl. of course, i want to be pleasured also. but the main thing for me, is to make my girl feel good. that way, also feel good. she gives that feeling to me, and together we make love.
i don't like selfish sex. i mean, i like romance and erotic. i like a long foreplay. i can't do sex with someone if there is no chemistry.
what do u think of it?