Discussion » Dating & Romance » Why do women moan during sex?

  • Death
    Death wrote:
    <blockquote> <p>“Ohhh. Mmmm. Baaaaaaby!” are the noises we often associate with women getting it on. But do these noises actually come, heh, as a result of pleasure or expectation? After all, various forms of media usually depict our reaction to sex as loud and dramatic. Well, the verdict is in. Scientists at the University of Leeds have recently discovered that women are usually making their moans during sex to please their partners.</p> <p>The study asked 71 women, ages 18-48, about their noisy sex habits, and while researchers found that many women did make noise, it was usually not due to some incredible orgasmic feat. Sixty-six percent of the ladies said they moaned to “speed up their partner’s climax” and 87 percent said theysimply wanted to “boost his self-esteem.” Even more disturbingly, some women also reported making noise because they were bored, tired or uncomfortable during the act!</p> <p>I suppose this comes as no surprise, considering 80 percent of women have faked an orgasm at one time or another. Us ladies sure know how to do ourselves a disservice. “Ooooing and ahhhing” while you are uncomfortable may make him “feel better,” but what is it doing to your sex life together in the long run? Let the porn stars do the fake moaning — they get paid for it. I’m sure your neighbors will be happier too! [CNN]</p> </blockquote> <p>There was a research of 71 sexual active heterosexual women researched, between the ages of 18 to 48, asking them general questions about sex. It came up with some interesting results:</p> <p><strong>Why Women Moan?</strong></p> <p>66% To speed up partner's climax</p> <p>87% To boost partner's self esteem</p>
  • pommie
    pommie wrote:

    They do it to attract the attention of other males.

    I read that a couple of weeks but can't remember where, I'm afraid.

  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:

    Porn noises are goofy even when they're meant to be earnest feedback.

    But the sympathetic response of the pelvic floor caused by the tensing of the abdominal muscles and the diaphragm during full-on murderous screaming, however? That's more than just a mere ego stroke. That's more like an ego death-grip. 'Gnawmean?

  • Silje Linnerud

    I seriously doubt the reliability and accuracy of such type of sexologic survey. It's pretty much subjective and most times the interviewees may have not really thought about the questions they were asked before.

    As a female, I feel moaning in sex is simply a natural, unconscious behavior. Some females may do it in an exaggerating way, let's say, performing, on purpose. But in general, women moan, is not because they are intentionally pleasing their sex partners by moaning, but more like a basic instinct.

    Think about it, guys. How would you feel, if your girl doesn't make any sound during sex intercourse? That would be super awkward.

  • pommie
    pommie wrote:

    http://cltampa.com/dailyloaf/archives/2012/03/15/study-vocal-displays-during-sex-may-boost-social-status-for-chimps-but-what-about-humans

    "a female's auditory display may have developed as a way of calling over other males in order to maximize her chance of becoming pregnant during ovulation. This theory is backed by such evidence as the fact that women can have multiple orgasms, the penis is shaped to scoop out a rival's semen from a vagina, and the overwhelming popularity of erotica for men depicting group sex."

  • Ajantha Manohar

    "How about we go back to my place, and I scoop the sperm off your inner vagina which the previous guy may have left behind?"

    That describes perfectly how relations work among us, ask Vanessa Cheung

  • Mari Vidste
    Mari Vidste wrote:

    @Diana,

    Oh I know all about it. After being told by my first girlfriends that I was quiet, I turned into a lion roarer. It's for her, to let her know how much pleasure she is giving me, but it is also for myself. My voice turns me on.

  • pommie
    pommie wrote:

    I'm like 90% sure I will end up a grumpy old man living with many cats...

  • Chai Chu
    Chai Chu wrote:

    It's simply awkward to have sex in a silent mode... like it's awkward to dance in a club without Music on. it's not sex & moaning, it's moaning ∈ sex.

  • Jay
    Jay wrote:

    Is this really worth all the attention ????

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    至少表示起码的尊重吧。不然我们也可以看报纸啊,看电视啥的,你们受得了吗请问?

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    faked orgasm is stupid.... It is even stupid when a guy can't tell....

  • pommie
    pommie wrote:

    Who is this?

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  • A豆腐
    A豆腐 wrote:

    Pomeh you did not have any rights to copy and post a pic of anyone in this forum !

    wo cao! look at that (!)

    uff!! that denotes a lot of virtual-anger

    new drama coming

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    。。。

    Hahahahaha ... thanks, 豆腐, I was about to think that, I have nothing interesting to say here ...

    WWoE ... so, what made you think that Her Evil Highness has that right?

    And while I am still talking to, or about, a fake person ... I will throw in a general question here ...

    What is more stupd? A fake orgasm, or a fake person?

  • A豆腐
    A豆腐 wrote:

    So Ayiela is not a super fine babe?

    Damn. that sucks

    Pete, look on the bright side, the real woman in that pic probably is not lesbian, so you can hit on her (if you find her)

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    ...

    (continued) ... she does look a bit like one of the WLIB girls on this site though ... Mia or Gia ...

  • Ola Sande
    Ola Sande wrote:

    so u perfer ur girl just texting her friends that she is having sex with u and feel NOTHING~~hmmm...i got ya dude..i got ya..dick-less-man..~oohhoo~~

  • High Priest
    High Priest wrote:

    Mourning isn't always all about expressing pain and sadness. It can be an expression of joy and excitement.Mourning can be melodious and symphonic those times.

    Well, that being said, mourning is not all about sounds. People mourn differently, some mourn in quietness, I mean like a lamb being slaughtered, just mimicking.

    Some, like one of my friends, when slaughtering his chick and himself will be screaming as if a goat was shedding blood. It's like domestic violence but in deed it was about game.

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    。。。

    Hahahahaha ... like I have always said, the animal trio make good entertainment ...

  • A豆腐
    A豆腐 wrote:

    Mourning isn't always all about expressing pain and sadness.

    HP, when your anal virginity died by a brutal fisting it was a time to rejoice, right?

  • pommie
    pommie wrote:

    Sorry, Ayiela, I was unaware of my rights.

    If you could just give me contact details, I would like to apologise to the young lady in question in person.

    Perhaps over a coffee.

  • pommie
    pommie wrote:

    Or even something stronger.

  • pommie
    pommie wrote:

    You know what, that's cool. I'm cutting down myself.

    The guy who teaches me pilates says that alcohol is just a way of tricking the brain into reaching a high that can be achieved naturally.

    Uh-huh, for a few months now, it's great for toning. You should see my abs! Haha! You! No, with all these people here, I couldn't. No, they really aren't that impressive. Buy me another drink and maybe! Haha! You're naughty!

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    ...

    Hahahahaha ... Pomy ... you should cut down your sugar intake from 稻香村 ...

    ... and Snake ... before I forgot ... your advice was ...

    if u don't know anything, better keep ur mouth shut

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