Discussion » Dating & Romance » i guarantee to get responses here

  • The_beijing_situation
    The_beijing_situation wrote:
    <p>im a decent guy, 34, 182, 80kg. im pretty humble, but love to joke around. Recently i totally stopped dating altogether because i couldnt find what im looking for. In america, the women were not as naturally beautiful as in beijing (at least in chicago they werent), however, i easily found a girlfriend in america because she was smart, sexy, tall, loved movies, music, house music, and to be crazy in bed and funny outside it, etc etc. </p> <p>in china, im finding it hard to find a girl that speaks decent english, let alone the rest of the personality traits i desire in a relationship. i date alot here, well not anymore, i did date alot. maybe around 30 girls in ayear, which is insane, 3 a month? toooo much. but honestly i dont want that, i want to date 1, 1 , 1 , 1 awesome girl. someone who is awesome to me has a spark plug of a personality. shes funny, shes loud, crazy, demur, caring, and outstandingly social. you know, thailand has much of this, but unfortunately there are no careers in thailand. my career and my life is in china. i dont like the american women here, they resemble the common chicagoan, a bit ugly and fat, i truly love the asian looks, but the personality im having trouble matching. and honestly ive dated toooo many girls that can speak as good english as i can speak chinese (简单的说)。 so community, can you offer advice? where to go, how to meet cool people? i dont care for bars or clubs, i will go, but not to meet a girl there.........</p> <p>by the way, i have a masters in business from Univ Chicago, booth. a bachelors from Northwestern, and a CFA, so i dont think of myself as a stupid laowai</p> <p>best,</p>
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  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    。。。

    Hahahahahaha ... dont you guys and gal ever stop ... party on ...

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  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahahaha ... ration?

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahahaha ... that's not "ration", nor even "logical" ...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahahaha ... another lazy-typo ...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahaha ... and you actually took the time to ask me if the people here are "ruthless" ...

  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:

    that i have to say u r not smart in CFA area. what a shame!

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    (continued) ... Scottie ... got get a cold one, then come back, you have an unusually short fuse today, and it does not help you ...

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  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    。。。

    Hahahahaha ... I noticed, and I skipped to mention that you, and your rationally chidlish behavior, fit right in ... your GF was being nice to you, or she would have suggested you go to more classy place such as Beijinger ...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahaha ... going home already? You surely have it easy ... till later ...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahahaha ...

    you're still butt-hurt about that comment I made the other day

    You said something to me? I cant say that I remember ... care to refresh my memory?

  • Alex ^∞
    Alex ^∞ wrote:

    We'll get you talking like a civilized person in no time

    sure thing teach.

  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:

    9/10

    Neck tie is too Catholic.

  • Alex ^∞
    Alex ^∞ wrote:

    lolz. twat.

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahahaha ... but the use of "teacher" is common in Chinese ...

  • Alex ^∞
    Alex ^∞ wrote:

    Calling someone a "teacher" as an insult in China is the last resort of the dim. you did kind of ask for it by implying that you going to get the OP "civilized".

    How a jobless queen like yourself (a gimp whos number one hobby is a mixture of trolling webforums and looking for kiddy p with uncle dd on 4chan) could manage this is beyond me. Youre about as far from civilized as a troglodite.

    Anyway, I addressed you as teach, not teacher. didnt deserve the effort of the er....and hopefully you wont the next time you get run over.

  • Alex ^∞
    Alex ^∞ wrote:

    Steven - i know you only "come out" for me, which I am touched by....denial? I mean Daniel.

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahahahaha ... you boys should always use proper protection ...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    (continued) ... happy tears or sad tears?

  • Alex ^∞
    Alex ^∞ wrote:

    shut up Daniel.

  • Alex ^∞
    Alex ^∞ wrote:

    Lol. Not enough butthurt to have to delete my fake account, like you Steven, I mean inferior Alex F, I mean DANIEL.

  • Mari Vidste
    Mari Vidste wrote:

    MYFACEWHEN any of you cock sockets RESPONDED to an "I guarantee to get responses here" thread. You have insulted yourselves and your families. But I? I feel pretty, and witty, and bright.

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  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:

    I actually had a guy tell me that foreigners are not as intelligent as Chinese people.

    This is not a winning thread because some people are jealous of you for being white, angry about you dating so many Chinese girls, thing you are an asshole for not speaking Chinese in China, want to know why you would not simply go home if you don't like it here, etc..... ( I can see their point)

    I can understand your post frankly as a call for advice, but I can see how easily it can be mistaken for something else.

    Honesty is sometimes taken for arrogance and disrespect here.

    Cool girls are out there, but maybe you are not ready to meet them.

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