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  • Wayne
    Wayne wrote:
    <p>I see many posts offering free Chinese lessons by girls. I guess most want something else. Is there anyone who really benefit from those girls who provide free Chinese lessons. If you really want to learn something, you'd better pay someone to do the proper job.</p>
  • Krister Thonerud

    十分感谢您说出这个!!我的意思不是说我对那些留学生想一边练中文一边泡妞有意见。根据自己的什么方式。其实我以前的一个西班牙语教授对学生说最好的地方学习任何外语就是在枕头上。我的意思就是说我觉得带洋味的普通话可难听。如果一个留学生会去找一个真能干的对外汉语老师,很负责地纠音,教学生很使用的中文,那就会好一些。

  • Daniel
    Daniel wrote:

    English-practice with native English speakers in China can be expensive. Chinese-practice with native Chinese speakers in China is easy to come by.

    I'd say that the girls who put up advertisements for language exchange or teaching Chinese care more about finding a cheaper way to practice English than to find a foreign guy to sleep with: as this website has proven time and time again, you don't need to do anything half so complicated if you're a Chinese woman who is aiming to find foreign man to sleep with.

  • Mengmeng
    Mengmeng wrote:

    That's funny, if GIRLS offer Chinese lessons for free, what else do you think they want, Wayne? It takes two to tango.

    When I was at school, I did help a friend from South Africa with Chinese, grammar, pronunciation... we have been friends for more than 5 years and still corresponding every now and then. I think everthing is simple, it's just we human beings like to make it complicated.

  • Krister Thonerud

    Mengmeng -

    I too have had language exchanges that were platonic and quite useful. A few have since blossomed into great, lasting friendships and we still communicate quite regularly. I agree with Wayne though that you get what you pay for. While I have had a few useful exchanges most have been not too useful for learning language. By far the best thing one can do for learning language is to hire a qualified teacher with experience. You get out what you invest, if it is money or effort or whatever.

    酒豆 -

    你说的对,泡妞不是学习的时间。我的意思是如果一个留学生能够找到一个男女友,没有别的事情像爱情会激励让人学习。

  • Mengmeng
    Mengmeng wrote:

    Hmm, mine was not language exchange though. It began as two persons having similar interest and I just offered my help, I didn't want to learn other languages at that time. I agree if one wants to do academic study, it's better to turn to professional for help or study on one's own. What I disagree here is one trying to guess what is in others mind which most of time is distorted by his own thought. Even if the free class is an excuse, it won't take a wise person long to know that unless he pretends to be a fool but enjoys it secretly.

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