OP, it is confusion. I mean the whole thread. I tried to read all the posts here, and still haven't got a fucking clue, what your question is. well, let me guess, you are in love this guy, and you want to move onto the next stage, which is marriage, but
the other part doesn't want to. So, you feel hurt and frustrated. Is that so?
In a few posts of yours, you repeatedly said, what about the hurtful feelings, why the girls always got hurt by falling in love with someone, etc, etc. But love is not destined for either happiness or marriage. And Getting hurt is obviously one of possibilities
happened in a relationship. Cuz you become dependent, full of expectation and mostly vulnerable. I won't say, girl, stay strong. It's almost impossible to be strong if you get hurt. But I'd say, fuck it. If you don't think it/he is not the one for you, just
let it go. All the whining here is just meaningless and useless. You wish other people's words could make you feel better? Good luck with that, but I can assure you, it won't work. Only you can make yourself feel better, don't string the hope onto others.
You are the only one who is responsible for your own life. There is no way you can force somebody who doesn't want to marry you to change their mind, even if you really made it, it wouldn't lead you to you ideal happy life.
Christ, I am so damn nagging. Now I am gonna just zip my mouth.