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  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:
    <p>this is ture</p> <p>i can clearly feel the problem getting bigger around and include me.</p> <p>now i am a 30 years old man.</p> <p>i have played 8 years.</p> <p>by my feeling&nbsp;</p> <p>10 years ago the society doesn`t like this.</p> <p>the problem is about the seriously relationship and belief.</p> <p>--------------------------------------------------------------</p> <p>10 ago , our society was so pure.</p> <p>people like eachother , people fall in love . people get married.</p> <p>but in this 10 years ,&nbsp;</p> <p>chinese people`s mind got change a lot.</p> <p>more and more westren mind came.</p> <p>and people`s mind from pure change to mix.</p> <p>some of them lost , i am one of them.</p> <p>fast food , cheap drink , easy sex.</p> <p>the fast easy mind getting popular.</p> <p>to be honestly</p> <p>i had a lot this `fast easy` things in those year.</p> <p>and now ,&nbsp;</p> <p>i feel so lost.so hard to trust girls ,</p> <p>i think the girl`s situation are even worse.</p> <p>`hey, girls ! do you still believe in guys in general ?"</p> <p>----------------------------------------------------------------</p> <p>i know it is not right way to life.</p> <p>without trust , the only thing left is palying life.</p> <p>----------------------------------------------------------------</p> <p>i need find out a way.</p> <p>i need........</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>
  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    if a guy told me he has fucked 200 girls already 10 years before,

    i would think that guy is crazy.

    but if now.

    maybe i will think like so so.

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    @ lovely Evalyn L. Evalyn L. 

    i wanna do actions ! for sure.

    i want some real life!!!

    but , haha 

    you are going to HK soon.

     

  • Amalie Sæverud

    yeah Kevin, you need to stop playing first, and then, maybe you will get lucky!

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    Lao Lee

    the lost means ,

    if you get use to the `fast easy`

    then so hard to go back,and think thing in the old way

    -----------------------------------

    there is only one way can help me , i think.

    a really nice girl , and loves me soooo much .

    take care me soooo nice.

    then i can go back.

    --------------------------------

    where is the girl!

    please show out.

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:
  • Amalie Sæverud

    kevin

    不是我骂你 你真的逻辑很混乱!

    或者说就是在做白日梦

    凭什么你胡玩,姑娘们就总得先付出呀?

    你现在想好好找个姑娘,你自己先做好了再说!

  • Stine Ekren
    Stine Ekren wrote:

    let's go back to stone age...that's ideal.

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    Evalyn L.

    good idea!

    you would make me famous.

    but noone knows me...

    so i think that thread will be very lonly.

    a lony girls can be famous , but no guys.

    like furong sister, feng sister. 

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    Olivier 

    you know any good place in beijing ?

    i can try tonight 

  • Amalie Sæverud

    God will help those who help themselves!

    我知道你自己知道应该怎么做!但是你就是在这里胡玩,找骂!又无聊了吧!

    你说你不想玩了,谁信呀!说出来的话还是这么幼稚!lol

  • Stine Ekren
    Stine Ekren wrote:

    Kevin, am sure u've already famous here.don't worry~ u will get more PM from girls for sure.good luck~ huh.

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    @ lao

    actually i ever had a GF who was DONGBEI BLACK MAFIA boss` s sister.

    that was not good feeling haha.

    don`t want to go back.

    thank you anyway.

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    @ beth!

    thanks , your words sounds so warm. you must be a very nice girl.

    Dumb 

    you wrong me!

    i works on my project very hard everyday!

    i didn`t hang out almost 2 weeks!

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    Lizzie Salmon Lizzie Salmon 

    哇咧!

    编程有闷骚男你都知道!

    你该不是中关村 电脑女 吧

  • Kevin Chen
    Kevin Chen wrote:

    Lizzie Salmon Lizzie Salmon 

    How to break up with your girlfriend

    is so funny!

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    ugh~ .....

  • Simen Wangberg

    "actually i ever had a GF who was DONGBEI BLACK MAFIA boss` s sister."

    What? Why'd you guys split? That sounds awesome.

  • Ejdnzlaj
    Ejdnzlaj wrote:

    Dongbei black society aint got shit on Shenzhen though.

  • A豆腐
    A豆腐 wrote:

    @Kevin, If you are really trying to get a perspective on this, you can try with this book: Liquid love: on the frailty of human bonds  written by Zygmunt Bauman

    is a sociology book not a self-help book....

    Take a look, and if you like it, get one


    http://books.google.com/books?id=m92EUEp5BrYC&printsec=frontcover&hl=es&source=gbs_ge_summary_r&cad=0#v=onepage&q&f=false

  • 陶冶
    陶冶 wrote:

    there will be a right girl waiting for you !

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    这个社会最大的问题是,大家的观点太单一,潮流太单调。共产主义的时候大家都又红又专,集体犬儒的时候大家都犬儒,蒙昧无知的时候大家都无知,土鳖的时候大家都土鳖,土鳖们面对新鲜事物开始“去真存伪”而变得傻逼的时候,大家依然如旧,一起变得傻逼。

    合理的社会,并不排斥傻逼,而是既有傻逼,又有土鳖,还有蠢货,又有犬儒,且有愤青,再由赤色分子,最后再加上百分之15点儿几的脑子正常的人。这样的社会,才算是真正和谐了~

  • Winnie
    Winnie wrote:

    Kevin, i think you need to rebuild your trust in the society in general. if you find it hard to trust girls, best thing you can do now is to put yourself in a different social circle and meet those you dont really hang out. find out what you really want

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