no idea toooooo
but we can plan
Kro's Nest (The real one near LiDu) for pub quiz night, pizza, and beer buckets.
nothing for tonight,go out walking around,my husband is leaving tomorrow morning and i will be alone again during the weekend......
wish i was in Beijing could meet some friends there
do muh no-pants dance.
work overtime until i fall asleep or DIE
seems that someone is using a fishing rod, huh? XD
tonight will start with this get-together with this group i am a member of and then heading to Sanlitun & hit teh dance floor
yes,kind of,it is the only place here in this site i could "talk",life is very boring here where i live,and i've got very difficult situation,hopefully the future will be brighter.
gloomy weekend again
@ Yanni, stay possitive lol everything will be fine, my life is also pretty shitty right now and not because of that i am gonna stop living it he he he, CHIN UP
thank you,Giggly,i am now in the cross road,something quite serious i can't take it easy,i know i have other options and maybe it gonna be working out,but it's like changing the blood all my body afterward and i don't know i will still can survive this or not,i have to rethink it again and insist the way i am going to go.
i wish i am in Beijing could meet some people there to be more relaxed
@ Yanni, lol i am dealing with lots of sh*** myself trust me thanks God i have good friends and Slt clubs to relax 7 stop thinkign for a minute & have sime fun he he he
Giggly,you know what,i would feel much better if i am still in Beijing,i am now living in the city without any people i know except my husband the one makes me upset all the time,and it's dead city here in the night all streets are empty before 0 am.you will can't imagine how boring it is,so,i wish i was in Beijing at least i could meet some people there.
Moonriver,we are from different country and had different opinion about somethings,but now i feel really hard talking something with him,maybe it's different thinking between a chinese and german,living differences i could easily accept,but hardly we handle with the communication problem.
@Yanni, why not "just" say what you want? .............. it will make things easy for us and some guys here that are looking for the same chances
Micky,i blocked all my options and chances after i married to my husband as if you have read my profile already,i just wanted to feel that i am still existing by talking to the people here.
i made a lot of communications with him and tried a lot to let him to know my feelings about our bad talks,and yes,it is different between the people both countries,but,i found it is really hard to make him to know and understand except to listen
Yanni has gone off somewhere now, so I will leave most of these questions for her when she comes back, if she is comfortable to talk about it here ... FYI, they have only married very recently, and it is NOT as simple as you might have guessed :)
Moonriver,i didn't mean i want to block any chance to make my own part of business and friends,marriage is not that nice as what i thought,it's complicated and hard to tell,i hope i will busy with something else soon jumping out of this circle.
Lao Lee,i quit any alcohol since 2 months ago,envy of you could meet people and drink with them,i know it makes good feeling,enjoy and have fun!
@ Yanni my dear i lived in thsi small town called Qiaotou and it was the same i was the only foreigner around there, i didn't go clubbing for like 4 months, so i know yoru feeling...MOVEEEEEEEEEEEEE we re waiting for u in Beijing he he he
Hahahahaha ... did we just, somehow, bring "tonight plan" to the discussion of marriage?
All,i just wanted a simple life with my husband before we married and i would really to be a good wife and good mother and daughter for the family,i tried to be the bridge for the all people here to get the homany in the house,the social life of course is important as well,but for me family comes first,i have to work on it no matter how hard the situation is.
by the way,we are in Anshan in Liaoning proviince,it's both our second marriage after we married,i need to cherish the life what i have now.
(continued) ... at the bottom of it all, it is about communication ... but not about "what I want" ...
Lao Lee,it would be easier to resolve my problem if it's like what you wrote,for me there is nothing forbbiden,basic on the feelings and trusts couples could do whatever they like and want to satisfy each other.
but the deeper problems are the issue of understanding
(continued) ... Lee ... I am on the bottom of the pyramid, so you will always look better than me :)
Yanni ... as I was saying before ... remember how the two of you started long before getting married, and how the two of you had spent time to discuss and argue and resolve conflicts, and then do the same thing when he comes back from his trip ...
Lao Lee,we are talking about the one thing by two different ways,you wrote the facts and i wrote the way to do it,both have nothing to against each other,i am still insist the topic of communication,because i am now facing this with my husband,we need to understand each other more by talk,so,i didn't mean the general problems like what you said which are true,i am just one facing them the way i am.
@Asano Coral, I am sure this topic has gone off the hook for you and I guess you have got something to do tonight--------- reading.
@Yanni, Its really complicated but handle it with care as the popular sayings goes: "Marriages may be made in heaven, but they sure have to be managed right here on earth". and "Marriage is like a phone call in the night: first the ring, and then you wake up"
GodFather,you are right it's our second marriage as we married couple months ago,my english is what you saw here,also it's not his first language and i can't speak german,we knew each other not very long time but in very special and difficult situation before got married,it was the feelings of love,trust,and reliability both of us,we had very good and deep memories together,these made us to be together to got married.
but none one is perfect,the days went away as we had to face the reality,we both supprised what life brought to us from each other,most of the time couldn't fullfill our expectation,so,the troubles occured,i am now trying to resolve them but it needs time.
thanks to Lao Lee and Micky,i hope so too and the advices help,i wish we both will have the good luck in the future!
DD,i accept your suggestion,i've found the mistakes i made and changed myself a lot for him,the only thing i want now that he will see and really know what's the meaning of marriage not only for chinese.
and yes,communication is also important for both of us,i am trying to be relax and talk to him again in the right moment,it will be really the paradise when we can really talk.
Lizzie,i also believe love someone should accept everything from him or her,that's pure love,but how many people could love others like this now?i am not perfect as well,i would accept everything from him even it takes time to know and understand,i don't know if it's called change,but some habits i already have changed he didn't like them,i try to understand and know of him,this is the way i love him,but i can't expect others would do the same.
dear all,thanks for the warm suggestions,and i feel more better that i finally told the problems in my mind,wish you all have the good luck with or without partner.
B. regards to you all
那 UNCLE KEVIN 怎么办
i dont care。。。。。凉拌会比较嫩一点。