Hahahahaha ... Mark? from Holland? ... similar to what Lee said, you claim to be gay, and yet, you make it sound like it is a bad thing? Stop watching (or absorbing from) TV series, there is a much more colorful thing out there, and it is called the real world ...
By the way, I like Dean and Olivia too ...
I think that the first two comments got this thread off to a bad start. You're right, being gay in Beijing is hard, there is not exactly the culture or scene for it that there is in other major cities. However, I know that there is a website dedicated to the gay scene in Shanghai (but the name escapes me, sorry) and it would suprise me greatly if there wasn't some equivalent for Beijing. Get yourself out there, go to some dating events. They have to be going on somewhere in the city.
Best of luck to you.
(continued) ... by the way, assuming this thread might evolve into "gay in China", I have noticed many times that some (Chinese) guys actually hold hands when walking among the crowd, and I have always wondered in the past, whether they are gay or not ... anyone?
Can we get this thread off the "me very man" caveman talk? This thread shouldn't be about insulting someone you don't know, there's nothing productive in that. Instead of saying: "Man up", why not say: "You can do it". One is something positive and affiriming, the other does nothing but makes a person feel worse.
tl:dr, what's the need in being an asswipe?
mike,life is short and we wont be here forever so make every moment count.
the greatest regret comes with words like "could have,should have and would have" .
the world keeps spinning round every second and it wont wait for u to get the confidence u are looking for to be strong.
so sit down and ask urself what u want in life then get up and go make it happen.
in the end,the things we regret the most are the things we didnt do,the things we didnt try to do and the things we didnt finish doing.
besides its far better to try and fail than to not even try at all.
whining about your issues wont solve them. it has little to do with being gay.
get off your ass and do something about it.
I'm just here to express my solidarity with the LZ and tell the haters they can go play in traffic.
I'm not gay, but I'm queer as a three dollar bill in practically every other aspect. Discussing this in public and opening yourself to ridicule from these clowns demonstrates that you've got more balls than some quasi-literate bloated buffoons who only remain here as beneficiaries of laowai privilege. These sacks of shit wouldn't know what struggle meant if they accidentally wandered in the bondage dungeon of a leatherman convention.
"You're right, being gay in Beijing is hard, there is not exactly the culture or scene for it that there is in other major cities"
I have never seen anywhere else more gay than in Beijing or china in general. Seems to me that every other chinese is guy... But thats a good thing: there are anyway more male than female... :)
SUPPORT GAY FOREVER ... ... WE SHOULD OVERCOME ANY DIFFICULTY!!! COME ON
if a girl not as ''sarah lucas'' or ''celine sciamma'' or'' beatriz preciado'' or ''Katherine Moennig''. i won't date ... i'm so tough ^___^
but as u know , the actrice is actrice... that's all
and if seen '' the lovely bones'' the cute young girl, she 's so wondeful in the film but in the interview, she totaly sb else and terrible. so the person can be formed a nice figure due to the need of the audiance . but it's not that person who she was .
Too many bi girls are just munching rug to pull more dick; the only completely trustworthy class of human being left on this planet are raging dikes.
@Mark: be careful with .rOkOlOkO., she is now evil ^^
Nobody can be more cooler than Omar (The Wire)
(continued) ... I am sure I texted you when I arrived home last night, right? I woke up around 5 this morning, and I am too tired to go out tonight ...
By the way, I think you looked really "hungry" last night ... but I have to admit, Jojo looked very sexy last night :)
(continued) ... the girl sitting next to you was Jojo, and the girl sitting next to me was Irene ... guess I did not do the introduction properly ... heehee ...
... about your depression ... do you want to do this here, or offline?
I always wanna make some guy friends.. but I never get any chance..
OP.. I need your post more things until I think you can be my first cool guy friends..
We can do shopping together... It would be fucking awesome ...:)
Gay... I.. I.. think I've been drinking too much tonight.. +.+
Man.You must understand everyone has sometime when they feel every low and disappointed. This problem is not unique to you ,nor to any certain group.I pity you for blaming your lifestyle ,because it is not the perpetrator.However I admit they are troubles come only to this certain choice, which is sad and regretable to this world.
But trust me,when there is hardship,there is something pays off.Few get views most people don't.
LOve is a hard battle to win. That 's equally ture to anyone.