i think without anything being said formally,let there be sparks like lightning for the both of them but without them actually speaking out they are just friends.secret lovers as it would end up being.
its weird for me if i ve been my " friend's " girlfriend
Dude, I don't think there's a certain way, what you should/shouldnt do totally depends on the girl's natures.
I really agree Fish.
But some guy just want to feeling at the first, if no feeling in the first, they will give up to make friends.
it is a little problem, if i want to be friend first, but he doesnt want!
By my reckoning, romantic meals and compliments are the epitome of playing it straight.
i think that , it will depend on the situation and the girl, in my particular opinion i know if i would like more since the first time that i hang out with a guy, and well if i let the friendship starts is hard that becomes more than just a friendship afterwards
i like to play STRAIGHT, right to the point
I agree with Judy and Fish:
If you can't become good friends then I don't see any reason all to date.
I've got long-term female friends with whom I've slept and with whom I haven't slept, and among both groups there are a few who would trust me enough to let me sleep on the sofa if I needed a place to crash for a night or two. Of course, I'm talking about people who are even more intimately familiar with my peculiar brand of androgynous perversity than you folks.
Again, I wouldn't claim that any of these friendships are totally pure, but to call it unreal or impossible? Maybe for y'all sheeple.
because I just dont make friends very well with females. I have a few but they are married so that doesn't give me a chance to begin with ;)
And how do you define date?
If i take a girl out to dinner and her and I are not "dating" yet, does this not equate a date to begin with?
I've heard many girls say "i want to be your friend". Well that is very interesting because I do not really believe I have much in common with a Chinese girl.
How many people do you know who enjoy staying up all night to watch the stars?
Or will ride 70km on their bikes outside of Beijing?
I guess I am being single minded, but fuck, its early and I haven't had more than a dash of coffee. so forgiveme.
But honestly, if there is a girl I like and I ask her out to dinner, it means that I want more than friendship.
I won't ask a girl out to dinner if there is no potential. its called "a waste of time"
and I still do not believe that men and women can be good friends.
maybe pao you.