Dude, where are these weird topics coming from? You have a weird go of it last night or somesuch?
And maybe it's your phraseology, but asking *how* to control someone is pretty fucked-up. I'm not even gonna go funny with it this time, I'm just gonna straight-up tell you that that's fucked.
Posed as a question, as in the actual thread title, not so much. But I don't think anyone here is going to tell you *how* to be a righteous prick. Well, maybe.
So you're at the bottom of the food chain and dont enjoy it because it hurts your ego? bail. There's no hope. just bail.
Hahahahaha ... I am too lazy to make decision, other than clothes and food ...
PS. fellows, loosen up, "power" does not have to be a evil thing ...
Hahahahaha ... if there is anything that I had learnt over the years ... it is DONT ASSUME ... and sometimes, as you might have noticed, most people here are too up-tight and careful about thread topics ...
Hahahahaha ... it is not a sin to loosen up, right?
i have a deep understanding about the topic if i didn't appreciate it in a wrong way:it doesn't have to be a planned control over the partner to maintain the relationship,but somehow during the progressing,we confront each other with different opinions that brings up trouble-causing issues,we tend to convince the counterpart to believe what we believe,to act the way we act.it gradually goes towards a controlling war.
i believe it's really sth to handle this subtle bastard.
subconsciously inclines more to my point i think :)
abuse her or him!
hahaha nice topic Jia. All women do or try in some degree to control or change some things about their partner. It is just in their nature.
just to keep your cool, it is so cliche, at the end of the day human being wants to feel acomplished, so if you dont give into feeding their ego at once but dish it out slowly. not sure how ones gonna carry one after the initial games and head fuck, god forbid, it may just beome real!?
"So you're at the bottom of the food chain and dont enjoy it because it hurts your ego? bail. There's no hope. just bail."
But there is the possibility that he is the power-bottom of the food chain. Maybe he could control the relationship that way. Anyway, this is China. What about soft power? Or the tower of power?
"My girlfriend told me you're always on the charge if you totally blow the guys' minds in the bed..."
Some girls blow minds for a living.