Discussion » Dating & Romance » A Man’s needs Vs. A Woman’s needs

  • A.w
    A.w wrote:
    <p><img src="http://www.psychologytoday.com/files/u329/Mars%20and%20Venus.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="128" /></p> <p>Man and woman are two different beings. Even while living under the same roof and sleeping on the same bed, conversation between a man and a woman is like cross cultural communication.</p> <p><strong>This is true!</strong></p> <p>Women say:</p> <p>Why Men Don't Listen.</p> <p>Why Men never understand what I really want to say.</p> <p>Men say:</p> <p>Why&nbsp;Women Can't Read Maps</p> <p>Why All Women are crazy, and never appear logical enough</p> <p><strong>What do men want? </strong><br />&bull; Good/sexy looks<br />&bull; Warm smiles<br />&bull; Glimpses of flesh<br />&bull; Sexual responsiveness<br />&bull; Suggestion of sexual passion<br />&bull; Admiration</p> <p><br /><strong>What don't men want?</strong><br />&bull; Rejection<br />&bull; Anger<br />&bull; Complaints<br />&bull; Criticism<br />&bull; Coldness</p> <p><strong>Really?</strong></p> <p>What do women want?<br />&bull; Compliments<br />&bull; Affirmations<br />&bull; Affection<br />&bull; 100% Attention<br />&bull; Communication<br />&bull; Adequate financial resources<br />&bull; Polite and respectful<br />&bull; Long-term potential</p> <p>What don't women want?<br />&bull; Inept come-on lines<br />&bull; Sloppy looks<br />&bull; Self centeredness<br />&bull; Arrogance<br />&bull; Slimy, over eagerness<br />&bull; Roughness</p> <p>&nbsp;</p>
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:

    Now I understand why Astaroth is so bitter.

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    I"m giving up to try ...

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    guys can take oxytocin for a while to have some personal experience of the totally-no-make-sense female emotion :D

  • Monica Jakobsen

    well actually this is the fun part. i know it would  be stressful when those things occur but lets close our eyes and imagine, if all the up mentioned factors are missing... i guess it wont make sense then. 


    lol this thread really made me laugh lol

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)


    Hahahahaha ... just addressing those five lines:

    1, We never go out.

    ... that wont happen ... I mean, she does not have time to think about this or even say this... unless, "go out" mean long-distance travel ...

    2, Everyone ignores me.

    ... hahahahaha ... that's impossible ... at her position, and with her kind of responsibility, one is asking for trouble to ignore her (refer to the video I posted after the annual dinner party) ...

    3, No one listens to me anymore.

    ... hahahahaha ... refers to (2) ...

    4, You don’t love me anymore.

    ... hahahaha ... I am (seriously) trying to remember if she had ever said this ... though, lately, I started using the line "as from today (or tomorrow, depending on the mood), I dont love you anymore" ...

    5, You never pay attention on me and listen what I say

    ... refer to (2) ...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)


    Hahahahahahaha ... I am bored ...

    What do women want?
    • Compliments
    • Affirmations
    • Affection
    • 100% Attention
    --- these last 4 are common
    • Communication
    --- this one too, but form of communication varies
    • Adequate financial resources
    --- hahaha, not her, this is more a "nice to have" ---
    • Polite and respectful
    --- hahaha, this also varies, and I dont mean domestic violence ... let's just say that we dont act the usual middle-age couple ...
    • Long-term potential
    --- dont quite know that this means ... but it sounds superficial ...

    What don't women want?
    • Inept come-on lines
    --- huh? this might be difficult for brainless wonder ...
    • Sloppy looks
    --- hahahaha, her or me? Looking back at her Chinese-scholar look on the evening of my proposal, I still sometimes wondered "why" ..
    • Self centeredness
    • Arrogance
    --- hahahaha, for these two, her or me?
    • Slimy, over eagerness
    • Roughness
    --- hahahaha, again, her or me?

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    @Ami, my girl has PreMS, MS, PostMS, PMS, MS, PMS... so basically she has some syndrome everyday! that's woman, a freaky species that bleed every month but never die!

  • Kristian Svoren

    @Ami ...hahahaha.... your thread is funny and nice to read.....i will say more later.!!!

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:


  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    谁先死并不重要,重要的是,等我50多岁仍在乱搞的时候,你已经没有月经了 ;)

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