Discussion » Film & TV » If you want to be depressed, go see this movie-

  • A.w
    A.w wrote:
    <p>&ldquo;Here is a film that watches pretty well itself. Derek Cianfrance, the film's writer and director, observes with great exactitude the birth and decay of a relationship. This film is alive in its details. Toward the end of the six years, when Cindy is hardly able to remember why she wanted to marry Dean, Cianfrance observes the physical and mental exhaustion that has overcome her. And the way that Dean seems hardly to care &mdash; just so long as Cindy remains his wife and his watcher, which in his mind was the deal. Dean thinks marriage is the station. Cindy thought it was the train.&rdquo;</p> <p>最痛苦的分开并不是对方有外遇,或者可以说出理由的不爱。因为当你知道问题,&ldquo;痛点&rdquo;在哪里,至少可以去change or fight。就算今日分开,也终有原谅的一天。</p> <p>最痛苦的分开就是向这部电影里描写的一样。当曾经所有的爱恋,快乐回忆都被时间,现实生活扼杀的一点不留的时候,选择分开是无法反抗的也是无能为力的。当某一天的清晨,睁开睡眠不足的眼,看着自己和枕边人,发现自己的身体已经臃肿不堪,思想已经懈怠,问自己生活怎么 会一步一步走到这里,不是两个人应该更快乐,却如何变成这样忙碌的绝望。这样的情绪比&ldquo;恨&rdquo;更可怕。因为你无法原谅自己或者身边的那个他/她。</p> <p>Cindy不是不爱Dean的,但绝对不是今时今日的他。曾经他所有的优点,浪漫不羁,唱歌,跳舞,但今日都成为Cindy要改变他的理由,也都成为扼杀他们幸福的刽子手。当Dean 哭着问Cindy, &ldquo;What did I do wrong? I love you and I can do everything that you ask for.&rdquo; Cindy 只是说 &ldquo;I don&rsquo;t know, and give me space!&rdquo;</p> <p>不知道是最可怕的答案,不知道当时为什么要嫁他,不知道为什么今日要改变他,不知道为什么生活到了这样的地步,不知道为什么要选择离婚。但所有的一切都这样都发生了!如何到了这里,不是不爱,却已经无法在继续,因为生活本身总是高于爱情,而我们总是本想的选择让自己好好的活着。</p> <p><img src="http://chud.com/articles/content_images/173/BlueValentineLargePoster.jpg" alt="" width="1521" height="2250" /></p>
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    。。。

    Hahahaha ... Ami ... see if this might fit better ...

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    Ami, I love you.

    我正无聊不知道看啥呢!!!

    现在就开看!!!

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    。。。

    哈哈哈哈,我曾经在“风行”的那个帖提到过,刚才也看了十多分钟,但,嘻嘻,觉得故事很慢,看的我很困!

    http://www.funshion.com/media/95512/

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    DD,我的mac看不了风行。。。5555。。。 I missed the old days watching movies via funshion...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    。。。

    Hahaha, we both know that's not true ... off to bed now ... good night all, and happy new year :)

  • Yasir A.J
    Yasir A.J wrote:

    i watched it last week

    good movie!!  8 out of 10 maybe!

    not depressed after waching!

  • Webslave
    Webslave wrote:

    just watched this film by accidence, it is really damn good. it's not that depressing, it makes me think about me and my future.

  • Minger
    Minger wrote:

    Movies that are too realistic just make me think about reality...

  • CC
    CC wrote:

    噢,看了剧情简介,这是"痒"了吧. . 呵呵

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:

    这片儿太SLOW了,看的我困得不行了。。。。

    但是影评都很好,我很纠结。。

  • R-R
    R-R wrote:

    爱情本来就没有天长地久,激情也有燃尽的一天!还没有看,但是会看!只是想说在面对一段感情,一段婚姻之前,我们必须要明白的是本来就没有天长地久,没有永远的火花,爱情慢慢变成亲情,爱人慢慢变成家人,浪漫慢慢变成习惯!所以说当你决定要和这个人在一起之前请先确定你们有一定的共鸣,有相同的爱好。帕斯卡说我们爱一个只不过是爱他的属性罢了,那么就请确定你是爱他的这些属性!而不是把他变成你想象中的那个“他”!

  • High Priest
    High Priest wrote:

    Y would someone going to get depressed in watching such a movie?

  • Miffy Xue
    Miffy Xue wrote:

    DD...

  • Monica Jakobsen

    interesting..... especially the name of this thread.

  • Mikky
    Mikky wrote:

    me too,正好最近有点小郁闷

  • Tina
    Tina's猫 wrote:

    看完之后哭的是稀里哗啦,整个人就像傻了似的

  • Undermoonlight

    Why the hell a man wanna be depressed?~~

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