Waooo, a new look here? -- looks really nice.. but there's still some old wine in the new bottle. suggestion
(1) Seperate the men and women online -- women up men down
(2) Remove those old stories and pictures on the front page replace them with new things / photos
(3) Creat a new colum for stories -- whereby people could write their feelings or articles not just forum
.. But most of all.. the new page looks really nice. More grease to your elbows..