that is for sure a tough situation, no matter which one you are in, it is difficult. Cuz, i had them both.
I do feel, sex could get better and more exciting, tough it would still not be the perfact, however to a girl, the enjoyment is enough from that relationship.
However even though the sex is really awesome, without love, that is nothing, and that hurts.
On point 2, I would agree with Minimy. That's called a "fuck-buddy". It would be nice to have one.
On point 1, if you don't have a sexual attraction I think that's what you call a "good friend", or maybe a sibling. If the two of you have a sexual attraction, but it's just bad sex... practice makes better!
as 莫明 says if you are serious kind of person, focus on the second case by parcticing, pratice make better... i do remember when i was 16 years old , my girlfriend had her first orgasm 8 months after we started having sex, and then after she became expert on it...
playing the fuck buddy have some disadvantages, what if you really like it in point that you fall in love for the FB.? by experience no love good sex ends with dramas
well, the worst dilemma i can think of is that i was looking for love, wouldnt matter if sex with her rocks or sucks but she'd be only into a sexuell get-togehter and start avoiding me because of the idea of love. So i guess i'd suck both in love and sex.
Keep both guys around and hang out with each one every other night. You'll be emotionally satisfied on Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and sexually satisfied on Tuesday, Thursday, and Saturday. You can alternate Sundays.
Problem solved. No need to thank me.
@ Shadow, if you wanna be more evil, try more harder:) You can't be unfortunate
@ Some of our ladies in here are talking like teenagers, that's my observation.
I would like to say that, the way boys and girls react to a relationship is too much different. The more a girl spend intimate time with a man, the more she is falling for him and she might not know how to get up.When a girl get makes loves with a man, the more she makes, the more she falls for the man. For boys, once he makes love to a girl, the desire and the affection goes and he wants to find another girl.
I wanna stress again here, girls like to seduce, boys like mystery, once the mystery is no longer there, it takes energy to carry on with the same lady.
That's why in China and other culture, since the dawn of time it's normal for a man to go out with mistresses, but women no. And if a woman goes out with a man, it's hard got her to get bk to her orginal man. But men, they go out with other ladies, they still love their wives:)
Ladies are too emotional, once they get touched, the more emotion they get for that guy, unlike men, they are rational, many like NSA
U can correct me if I'm wrong, I don't have much experience in this area:)
make option 1 as good friend
leave option 2 as potential BF and find a chance to ask him if he likes to be your BF. If he is only enjoy the sex as you, then go to find option 3.
I do believe love makes good sex... otherwise it won't last long
haha...thanks for your kindly approval... qiqi...