Discussion » Nonsense » lazy and money hungry

  • Jimi
    Jimi wrote:

    i just spent the day talking to someone whom i thought was kind and smart.


    a bit later i learned that she was nothing more than someone out for a free meal.

    i dont understand why women cry for equal rights but at the same time, many of them will trade love for money.


    maybe im wrong but im sure if some guy came along with lots of cash and proposed to you, you would be very tempted.



    call me what you will


    the facts don't lie.


    another thing, if you want equal rights, when there is a war, go fight and die like men have since time began or go to work everyday(many women do)


    or ...?


    hope someone gets pissed off

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)


    Hahahaha ... I cannot wait to see the comment from the ladies :)

  • Amber
    Amber wrote:

     a stupid woman asked a poor man for money.

  • StrawberryIceCream

    when you eat together and you only focus on 'who will pay'

    I don't think you can find anything good between each other

  • StrawberryIceCream

    To be honest, I just invited a man to eat because I delegated him to do sth. for me but finally he did nothing because my plan is cancelled

  • Minger
    Minger wrote:

    That's normal in feudalistic society, which is where we live. At least the females have the option to trade love / sex / company for money. Guys only get to sell body parts and internal organs.

  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Equality between men and women can never happen. It is by nature and we can not force it. Just remember the first day you did it, the lady went down instinctively before even telling her to do so. However, i think they are meant to be on the receiving side. They always receive, not so? And you always give. Just give her that dime. What do you think.
  • Simen Wangberg

    Wow, news flash, people are materialistic. It's just more blatant here, nouveau riche and all that good stuff.

    Chinese folks are always splashing out on name brands and whatnot and putting pictures of all their flaming shit on BBS's and in their profiles on social networking sites (like this one!).


  • Peter Baird
    Peter Baird wrote:

    It happens. You have to understand, Asteroth, that many women (not just Chinese either-this is universal) have this sort of stuff drilled into their heads by their mothers from a very early age. It's survival of the fittest, nothing more. Don't take it personally.

  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:


    If you're talking about who I think you're talking about, I should say you left out some very pertinent details. Didn't she have a job before the two of you got together?

  • 事与愿违
    事与愿违 wrote:

    I think not all of women are like that.Sometimes,we'd like to go Dutch,but guys always think it's their turn...So what can we do?

    Yeah,we cry for equal rights all the time,but it seems that it's impossible forever,not fair to woman.BTW,I'd love to go fight actually : )

  • Simen Stensvoll

    equal rights ?

    i think if man can give birth,then women will stop crying

  • A豆腐
    A豆腐 wrote:

    @Peter Baird, i think that is not issue of mums, if not of daddis :P


    A daddy´s daughter is a little girl that her father educates in this way: 


    if you want this toy, this candy, first give a kiss or huge to your daddy. 


    later the little girl learns and understands that when she wants something only must to go with daddy and practise the ¨charms¨ that before daddy´s taught her. 


    ohh, come on  daddy, really i like this toy (plus) kisses, huges, to pout, ojitos de corderito


    summarizing, daddy´s love is a conditional love, if x then y

    Later with the pass of the years, when the nature changes the girl into woman, she discovers that now she has more power in this negotiation with men, and also with the past of the years, now she doesn´t wants toys or candies, maybe she wants entertaiment or experiences, and....well in the modern society if you have money you can buy this things. For a daddy´s girl understands the relations between men and women like a negotiation is a nature way in her mind, because maybe she never has felt other way. how can they fall in love if their behaviour in their relations is the contrary path to love one person? for them love is only a word


    About “The White Haired Girl should marry Huang Shiren” which is fashionable among young people.... maybe popular between the chinese middle class and up class, that they can go to the universities and listen to this kind of speechs. I don´t live in chaoyang or in wudaokou, is in a no-laowai-place, and from this place i can observe all days how the middle class and the other ¨classes¨ under this educate their sons and daughters, and the ways are very very differents. there are many daddy´s daughters in middle class and up (---there are some persons--- is not the same ----all persons---, ok????).

    Maybe this touchs the topic of the harmony in the chinese society, but harmony is concordance of contraries, when there isn´t differents, only uniformity, harmony is something innecesary. 

    in any case, if you are laowai here and you are looking for love, not only be a dick, two advices: 

    a) develop chinese

    b) develop chinese male friends, they can detect the chinese bitches better than us.

    c) don´t trust in women that they give the first step, there are good reasons for the men always should do this (give the first step) first. 

    d) don´t go vics 

    Fin de mi paranoia



  • Simen Wangberg

    "who set up these fucked rules in the first place? a guy!"

    As long as dudes are willing to buy women purses in exchange for the "privilege" of fucking them, women will continue to do so. Hell, I would, if I was a chick. Gimme all yr Prada. Ugh, I feel like a twat for even typing that.

  • Simen Stensvoll
  • Simen Wangberg

    "again i can't wait to move."

    Keep your chin up man, they're not all like that. Many, maybe even most...but not all.

    Plus, take into consideration what Peter said - women of all nationalities get into this mindset, and at a fairly early age. Chinese women are just more blatant about it, ya know? Chicks dig gold in lands far and wide.

  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:

    "As long as dudes are willing to buy women purses in exchange for the "privilege" of fucking them, women will continue to do so"

    Word. Chicks only get away with this shit because they know there are plenty of guys dumb enough to indulge them. This is why I only date nasty sluts, because it's impossible to use sex as a weapon of manipulation if it's something you actually enjoy.


    "but for sure its time someone said something because now its about man's rights"

    You have the right to die alone with a plastic bag over your face before a computer with a hard drive full of tranny porn.

    In all honesty, though, I think we ought to give special consideration to women's rights because they've traditionally borne the greater share of the burdens for childbirth and domestic responsibilities, neither of which are economically valuable but are nonetheless of prime social value.

    The notion that men deserve special rights beyond what they already enjoy (sexual double-standard, benefiting from still existing prejudices against women) is a bit harder for me to wrap my head around.

  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:

    No, dude. Tranny porn.

  • Minger
    Minger wrote:

    Astaroth, If you date poor women in a feudal society, you should expect that it's your willingness and ability to produce money that attracts them.

    If you're sick of it, try dating women who are financially successful, and maybe even working in a non-materialistic industry. I don't think they'll expect you to pay for anything more than they do. I've certainly never foudn it necessary to buy my gf a pair of shoes...

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