Discussion » Dating & Romance » Sex and Love with Nationality, not with person..

  • Jack
    Jack wrote:
    Here most of the people make relations on the basis of nationality... for example, if you are American, UK person or someone from Europe then its easy to get someone, but for African and Asian, its hard... do you agree?
    This is not my thought, one of my friend is student of social sciences and her research topic is this...
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Good research topic. Needs people to get on a dating rampage to come to a clear conclusion.
  • anita sønsterud
    agree
    I prefer europe and asian...I can't have sex with African,it's not racism...cause there have too many rumour about black guys,like too big too strong and many else.and a factor from aesthetic standard ..I'm only being honestly.

    I don't like USA guys..cause most of them are over pride.I have never interesting in Americans.

  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Be specific about the "too big, too strong..." en?
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    @ Virgo: But some of African guys really funny and nice hearted.
  • Nixul
    Nixul wrote:
    Phillip.....haha.
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    haha I am American.... Also big and also strong and not so prideful. Or so I have been told. I am happy that I can hide behind the disguise in order not to seem like such a threat muhahaha!
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    @ Poet: ?
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    Haha.. Ok, Virgo, no comment for u...
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    I have one comment. Why hear say. Go for it!!!
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    haha thats funny! Ok we should repeat everything we hear no matter how ridiculous it sounds. The end of the world is in 2012 haha!
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    J. Phillip, you just think that because you're European :-p. Well, I don't know any African or Asian guys who have any trouble meeting girls here either though. At least, not unless they're the sort of guys who you wouldn't expect to be able to get girlfriends, regardless of their race.

    Virgo, Really? I'm half American, I think you like me a little...... :-p
  • anita sønsterud
    I might like you as a friend..but trust me not BF or like this topic the one to have sex compare with asian and european...
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    @ Kodi: come on man, do you believe on 2012?
    @ 莫明: firstly, I am not European, secondly, its not my thought. thirdly, you can't control the thoughts of people.
  • anita sønsterud
    I truely believe 2012!and i had a nightmare yesterday about 2012...and yuki was in the dream!how weird it is!
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    Tell us more. What did the two of you do with each other when you realized the world was ending?
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
  • C.Chaud
    C.Chaud wrote:
    Phillip your friend should have told you this:

    Here most of the people make relations on the basis of nationality... for example, if you are American, UK person or someone from Europe then its easy to get someone: Because they think we r fucking rich so that it'll be an opportunity for them to use our money suck us like vampire suckin someone's blood
    But for African: In order to satisfy their sexual desires and mess around with'em because they think that African got the biggest and the strongest one and hard some girls saying " when u go black u'll never get back"
    For Asian: Because they know that sooner or later they will go back to a normal life and settle down with an Asian "Chinese" so they use to say 玩儿够了, its hard... do you agree?
    This is not my thought, one of my friend is student of social sciences and her research topic is this...
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahahahaha ... Dando ... what have you been smoking or drinking? COOL, ghet Dando a six-pack of whatever you drink ..
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    I can give anything but not my Guinness man. I am just waiting for what happened in the dream too.
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    @ Chaud: we all want satisfaction of desires for ourselves, so no need to mention all those stuff. can you spend your life with a blind, ugly and limb girl whose family also needs your care? if you are trying to be realistic then be REALISTIC in real.
  • anita sønsterud
    everyone needs to get into the ship..but it's not made in China that one in the movie...everyone have to own one by himself...

    well.everything is being swamped by the oceans...there's no land to get in,but i lost yuki i have to get her back..and that day is 3 or 5days before the last day!i told myself i only can back to my ship till the last hour if i can;t find her

    it's terrible...the oceans is really monstrous..I live in 16th floor,and everymorning you wake up and check the dangerous situation..the water line is rising with the speed of one floor each night.so it's submerged till the 5th floor..
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahahaha ... I should go home to make dinner now, and then come back later :)
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    @Virgo
    You are now a gone case. Say your last prayers.
  • anita sønsterud
    haha...we'll see
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @Virgo:
    That was not as exciting as what I was thinking.
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    Virgo, that's only because you've only seen my naked that one time, and it was really cold that day...
  • anita sønsterud
    @my apologize...Mr.Z

    @莫名:I can't remenber!
  • Mathew Abisai
    Mathew Abisai wrote:
    Whats the difference between Americans and Europeans? and can u please tell us more about Asian Guys...Virgo....One Thing u should know as well Homosexuality is not Appreciated in Africa...Gay Guys get killed, but nice and kind hearted African Men still exist..... are u preferring european and asian guys for ONS sex or relationship Sex? Virgo
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @Virgo: I should apologize. My joke might've messed up your hair when it went over your head.

    ...

    I have to admit, even when I was in America, I was inexplicably attracted to Asian women on a purely physical level. I don't know why. But I would never say that being Asian is a prerequisite, because the stereotypical Asian woman is supposedly quiet, submissive, deferential, traditional, and gentle--not qualities that I desire at all. I like straightforwardly mean bitches.

    Fortunately, the ones I've met in China are exceptional in every way. After all, only weird and crazy chicks would dare to give me any of their time. Doesn't matter which continent I'm on; I only pick up freaks. I like it that way.

    I haven't dated any non-Chinese girls since I came to China, but that's because... I'm in China, fer chrissakes.

    If you wouldn't consider dating someone just because they're from a particular country or race, then you've got some fucked up priorities. Unless you're a sinologist who understands China better than most Chinese people, there's no way you could know enough about Chinese culture to make any valid generalizations about Chinese people's personalities.

    If you're pursuing someone because of the color of their skin or the shape of their nose or because you think you know something about their culture from watching a couple of movies, then I suppose that's your business and your right. There's nothing wrong with liking something because it's different and exotic.

    But if you're putting all of that trivial bullshit before personality, then you're probably gonna die alone.

    Just sayin'.
  • Saina
    Saina wrote:
    I never think European or US ppl here r fucking rich, maybe a bit richer comparing to the locals but would a really rich Chinese man choose to live in Vietnam?

    And agian, being rich does not mean willing to spend his own money to buy u luxuries like many Chinese guys do.

    I admit freely that I like talking with Europeans as they r comparatively more open-minded and polite to women. Some of African guys r friendly and funny but many r just so sensative about the race topics which make the conversation harder, I once attended a party where most ppl r white and got stalked by the only black guy there who kept asking why I like talking with those white ppl, I don't really feel the need to start a talk with him just to prove that I'm not a racist.

    Asians guys r fine but they usually they don't have good woman skill and won't bother to explore a girl's mind.

    A common problem of American and Asian men is that they r too obssesed with the sexual part...Once they meet an attractive girl they want more to conquest and own her, sometimes it could make the girl feel very stressful, European guys r more relaxed and easier to make only friends with.

    No matter where u r from, being relaxed, polite, open minded would make it easier for u to get a girl friend who becomes girlfriend later.

    But yeah I know girls that r obssesed with American/ English/ French guys...for them the nationality is more important than anything, but I believe that as time goes by they will see what is most important. I think is just a stage that one needs to experience, 2 or 3 years ago I wanted badly a German boyfriend, but didn't even get to know a German guy (for crying out loud ). Now I think I was pretty childish to believe that German guys r better than men from any other nation.....don't even know where I get that cute idea.



  • anita sønsterud
    well
    the old case:looking catch eyes.personality catch heart

    @Dando Z:i though you are Chinese!
  • anita sønsterud
    we are talking about sex....huh??but i feel it becoming another seriously topic
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @Virgo,
    lol wut
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Dando ... as a general rule, western folks tend to be taller and bigger, and having lived among tall blondes most of their lives, the petite size of Asian (in general)appeal to some western men ... not sure if it applies to you though ...

    Dinner time :)
  • pommie
    pommie wrote:
    > Here most of the people make relations on the basis of nationality... for example, if
    > you are American, UK person or someone from Europe then its easy to get
    > someone, but for African and Asian, its hard... do you agree?

    I do not agree because that is clearly untrue.

    1. Most people "make relations" based on what is available. Here (in Beijing) 90 percent of what is available is Chinese so 90 percent of people date Chinese.

    A: Why do foreign guys who live in China date Chinese girls?
    B: Because they live in China. Could you ask me a more challenging question, please?

    2. There is a major logical flaw in that statement. Maybe if you are American it is easy to "get someone" because you are so damned good looking, or charming or whatever. That's not about the decision to date someone being "on the basis of nationality" it's "on the basis of character" (which may be related to nationality).

    Why does anyone date anyone?

    Based on:

    1. What is available.
    2. The character of their chosen one.
    3. Their own personal preferences (completely and totally different for everyone).

    Mystery solved.
  • anita sønsterud
    @dando:what wut means?
  • Malin Aaker
    Malin Aaker wrote:
    wut means what!
  • pommie
    pommie wrote:
    Wut, wut
    In the ...
  • Simen Wangberg
  • anita sønsterud
    if only one doesn't like you
    maybe it's his problem
    but if many ppl don't like you

    .............
    find it out by youself
  • anita sønsterud
    @abisai:what's your point,man??ONS and Relationship...well,the topic is about sex race choice,not about in which way
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    Dando Z: "I haven't dated any non-Chinese girls since I came to China, but that's because... I'm in China, fer chrissakes."

    Ah hell. This almost sounds like a challenge to me. I'm gonna dedicate one month (maybe October or November?) as Dando Month, where I'm only gonna try to date expat girls and report back on it. Not sure how this is gonna work though as I don't really like white women, despite being surrounded by them in America.

    For some reason I just find Asian girls more attractive. I believe that overall, Caucasians have more potential to be attractive (the hottest western actress/model is hotter than the hottest Asian one) but in the realm of averageness, an average Asian girl is infinitely more attractive to me than an average white girl. Being the average person that I am and not really in much of a position to fuck top actresses/singers/super models, Asian girls thus appeal to me more. Then again, I do love gingers...


    Sai Na: "Asians guys r fine but they usually they don't have good woman skill and won't bother to explore a girl's mind."

    hah, this is too funny... Are you talking about the guy who passes out business cards at night clubs hoping that girl will think his impressive sounding title is a good enough reason to date him?

    Or are you referring to the guys who worship their women because of their beauty and treat them as puppies or pets to be spoiled and never really worry about what her deeper thoughts contain?

    "European guys r more relaxed and easier to make only friends with."

    Maybe you should start hanging out with more heterosexuals to see if this is actually true or not... Just sayin'. Over there it's OK to take it in the butt, or so I've heard.
  • Erik Aleksander Aas
    Dando Z wrote;
    @Virgo,
    lol wut
    Virgo Gyllenhaal wrote;
    @dando:what wut means?
    Saibo wrote;
    wut means what!

    And the prize for the funniest shit EVER on a thread goes to.....WTF??
  • anita sønsterud
    hahaha.than you for clean it up~~!!haha
  • Hans Christian Eriksson
    Virgo, i am sure if i invite u right now to come to my house u will come. I already did it with u. so do not come here to say that u do not like africans
  • anita sønsterud
    what r u talking about???
    your house??
    where is your house??
    do i even know you?

    what's wrong with you?we are talking about< Sex and Love with Nationality>....not party not going to your house

    ...you already did what with me???
    in 2010.I only have been old friend's house,Chinese and white..one guy is half africa...!??
  • Simen Stensvoll
    this topic is worthless for a research
    maybe girls in wlib ,or other English forums, prefer western guys
    but it doesn't mean all asian girls are crazy on white guys
    again,a huge dick and a handsome face doesn't mean ur sexy
    people love u because of ur nationality? it is not love

  • anita sønsterud
    @above:hahaha..I love you...the huge dick..oh my...is anybody think a man with with a huge dick is sexy??hahaha
  • Mathew Abisai
    Mathew Abisai wrote:
    i just see a bunch of stupid senseless people here
  • Alexander Mostue
    i can't agree more with you
  • Bing
    Bing wrote:
    .........................................................

    because of some people's thought are abnormal...
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    I'm going to bang the next person who posts something in this thread. Not in a good way either.
  • Synne Syverstad
    I share Pomegranate 's idea~

    and about the "fucking rich", many may think so dacades ago, but now we all know so many foriegn people just come here for they can easily find a job here~ esp if his mother tongue is English, then he can just be an English teacher~ some of them r just cant make a good life in their country~

    and social majors r really... I never trust them or their so called theories!
  • anita sønsterud
    @abisai:this time i'm agree with you
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    @ Virgo. you r so amazing girl that you are replying all the guys alone here :)
  • Mathew Abisai
    Mathew Abisai wrote:
    Virgo is Maximizing her Options...
  • anita sønsterud
    @phillip:hey..I'm not alone...Sai na/victoria/sparky..they are my comrades
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    @ Virgo: yes of course, but you are dominant :) I am just admiring you nothing more. :)
  • anita sønsterud
    @phillip:ok...whatever =)
  • Bing
    Bing wrote:
    ....................
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    @Victoria, I'm a little surprised you volunteered since we haven't talked before... Perhaps you found the stupidity of this thread personally offensive and felt it necessary to voice your opinion? I feel it's only appropriate to give you another chance to let this turd-pile drop to the bottom of the thread list.

    Actually, a quick review of the threadmaster's profile reveals that he is a douchebag. I hope he responds next so I have an excuse to force-bang him.
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
  • anita sønsterud
    YEAH!! nuts
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    @ 莫明: Thanks baby boy :)
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    For those who wish to understand the workings of my inner mind, please observe at what point below the name in bold (played by a single character) transforms from J. Phillip into Douchebag.

    J. Phillip: what do u do? student or working?
    Girl: sophemore in beijing foreign studies university
    J. Phillip: ohhh.. I see.. major?
    Girl: in vietnamese,and i study some french and spanish by myself
    Douchebag: hey sexy. how's going? ;)
    Girl: fine...
    Douchebag: whats plan for weekend?
    Girl: no plan....feel bored
    Douchebag: lets meet and have fun? ;)
    Girl: i dont even know u
    Douchebag: how about to know face to face ;)
    Girl: not interested
    Douchebag: why? ;( ok chat with me, you will know me well.
    Girl: i will take a nap...excuse me
    Douchebag: ok
  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:
    @ 莫明 : haha.. I like that. what she to you baby?
    If you are wise then you can understand my meanings. mind your words and language, ok?
  • Joakim Madsen
    Joakim Madsen wrote:
    @ Virgo,

    Personal preferences on topics will never be negotiated, but it's immature take a homeless rumor as a tool to validate a stance that u deem rather subjective...

    Your arguments show U are intellectually unsufficient to handle a complex topic like this.....THE FORUM IS KINDA RING , BE READY FIRST BEFORE U JUMP IN

    You'd better keep ya cute p..sy for the prefered d.cks and avoid getting your holes public...

    @ Phillip : IS WHAT 莫明 SAID TRUE?
  • anita sønsterud
    @above:oh..asshole..this is what you can do??anything new??show me more in real,not swear in forum!if you are not a idiot you maight have noticed my words:cause there have too many rumour about black guys!and i guess you do understand what rumor means

    did i say anything bad about black here??you fuck off ,dickhead!you know what,it's a simple topic!everyone can join ...You are trying to pick holes on my sentence,just go ahead....this is not a academic research,of course i can share my opinion here......anything else?
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    Not that I necessarily believe it, but I heard these rumors about Chinese girls having sideways vaginas...
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    PROVE ME WRONG
  • anita sønsterud
    going to watch football now
    @dando:go to find one tonight.then prove it
  • Aurélien
    Aurélien wrote:
    >My face when every post in this forum makes me facepalm so much near me
    idontevenhaveaface.jpg.gif.rar.exe.7zip.tgz.dll
  • ?
    ? wrote:
    @Virgo: you should at least spend 1 or 2 seconds before share this amount of sh*t here. As someone posted before, you have no maturity to discuss that kind of subject...you probably are the typical and hallucinated girl who dreams with a white bf that will take you away from this hell and take care of you and your family.
  • Mathew Abisai
    Mathew Abisai wrote:
    mmmpffffffffff!!!! sorry about that.. i just couldnt hold it in.....Katy....Thumbs up for u
  • Peter S 李贝勒
    so! tastes are tastes... I m a Caucasian guy (french), and i m not attracted by white or black girls, only by Asian girls. I m not racism, it s just a question of taste...
    Then, US or europeen people can maybe easily get someone? U mean western guys can get chinese girls easily? by observation, i could say that the percentage of single Chinese guys is more important than the percentage of single western guys here... maybe it s an answer...
    So, i wonder if for the girls it s the same situation? is it more easy for a western girl to find someone here?
  • anita sønsterud
    @Katy:what's wrong with you??dreams of a white boyfriend??can you just get a life...you can not bear Chinese girl take your man away?if i need to think about a few seconds before I comment...so plz open your eye and read carefully what i wrote!!also the post's topic!invisible woman in beijing......I just discussed with pp here and said i can't have sex with african guy.don't you know most chinese girl don't!!!it's my taste...can you force me to say something that can makes you happy??you getting mad only because i'm being honestly? and logically ...anything wrong if i like caucasian??and yes hell I do!so what you wanna makes me change my taste??oh that doesn't work

    thank you for your greeting about myself and my family..yeah my family will be here tomorrow!we will have a great holiday in beijing!

    read my comment again!do not piss off so weirdly...and making some meaningless fight...waste each other's time!and take care of your words!
  • ?
    ? wrote:
    Always the same empty and useless "blablabla"
    Go pee ur bad girl.
  • anita sønsterud
    if you can not understand me ....
    then do not twist my words

    bingo..very nice from you to use this word:the same

    calm down!Katy
  • Anastacia Aklin
    yes, yes....have to agree with Virgo, you Katy is just bitching around....
  • Anastacia Aklin
    ps: Brazilian guys make the best sex....: )
  • anita sønsterud
    have no clue about that....

    you change your face very quickly,don't you?

  • Bing
    Bing wrote:
    oh yeah baby........Sex and Love with Nationality, not with person........stupid topic....
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Sideways what? Holly shit!! This is nuts. I take a drink. Anyone seen Nikkybaby?
  • Yuki Inés
    Yuki Inés wrote:
    As scientific research, it won't be a good topic, I am afraid.
    It is oriented by a really strong pre-assumption. and this assumption based on race stereotype is fragile and cliche.

    And sampling is not easy for this topic.
    interview on foreigners? or chinese? in this case, different variales lead to totally different conclusions. Coz getting laid is largely based on too many physical and psychologic factors!
    Males or female(I assumed about that it would lead to totally different results! )

    In short, it is a pseudo-proposition. either means she is not a good socia science reseacher, or simply show an ignorance on human emotion.
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @Virgo,
    Oh, so you mean I shouldn't base my judgements on rumors and hearsay, and instead rely on experience and observation? Great advice! Thank you!

    ...

    @all,
    So I heard that Chinese girls have sideways vaginas. I tried to verify this, like Virgo said, but since Chinese girls don't shave, I couldn't see through the pubic hair.

    Can someone clear this up for me?

    @Yuki,
    +1

    Not even porn stars and prostitutes could boast a random sample of international crotch.
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Hahahahahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa, Ohhhh I go back to the jungle.
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Next time go with a lawn mower.
  • Tor Martin Simonsen
    @ Virgo

    I join Dando and Katy, Rasta..
    U don't have to be so activated about fighting with yells on forum, this topic is a scientific research subject matter. Since you decided to be so affirmative , a statement like yours should be stipulated based on Research/Experiment: Observation- Analysis - Findings.
    It's true that you are just being " talkative with an empty skull" this topic starts being different from your regular gossip with fellows yellow chicks when you decide to put your ideas into the forum you still got a lot to learn Missy..
    Am american BTW and I can swear you are not attractive to me at all.
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Now this is getting hot in here aha!!!
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Where do ebonies fall?
  • Anastacia Aklin
    scientific topic?

    just another excuse for us to talk about sex, something that so tabu that people really do need fake reasons for be talking about it...
    and yes, Virgo was honest enough to say what makes her attracted at, and its not back guys. There is a social, cultural definition of beauty intimately related with personal choices, so whats the problem if she shares?

  • Tor Martin Simonsen
    uh uuh, Yawn ! Birds of same feather, flock together ..
  • Anastacia Aklin
    yes elvis, "Don’t criticize what you don’t understand, son. You never walked in that man’s shoes."
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    Topic: "Sex and Love with Nationality, not with person..."

    OP: "Here most of the people make relations on the basis of nationality... for example, if you are American, UK person or someone from Europe then its easy to get someone, but for African and Asian, its hard... do you agree? This is not my thought, one of my friend is student ofsocial sciences and her research topic is this..."

    Italics added for emphasis, because some people seem to have a selective reading problem.

    Here's another crass observation: airheads don't know how to fuck. They just get drunk and lay there and take it and expect the man to do all the work.
  • Saina
    Saina wrote:
    Oh I see it's sex and love with nationality. Sorry for going too deep.

    But how to have sex with nationality?

    U could easily find in the authropopogy books that men of different natioanlities behave quite alike in terms of sex. So I guess he meant race, that's complitely a matter of different tastes then.

    Talk only about sex, my first choice would be Asian men, they have hairless silky skin, and I'm satisfied of the size of most ones I slept with. I have the same concern as Virgo about the size of black guys...I see sometimes very handsome and nicely shaped black guy but would never dare to go home with them heh.

    Talk only about love, I won't say I know exactly what it is but the only one that made me feel love and being loved stupidly and crazily was a European, we were so sweet being with each other that we even forgot to have sex..= = but I don't think I fell for him because of his nationality although he has a very loveable one. Nationality and person are as different. as love and sex. I would love to trade my nationality with a freer one so maybe u could say I could fall in love with nationality,

    so, I'm a chinese girl, I can love a person, I can love a nationality, I can have sex with a person, but I can't have sex with a nationality.....
  • Joakim Madsen
    Joakim Madsen wrote:
    She (Virgo) got trapped in an experimental failure of learning to be naughty , which shows her verbal awkwardness... This a kinda girl that wants to be in the saddle by any means necessary, an amateur on exotic reveries.....
    I 've just discovered she is touring around the forum to discharge brain waste.
    And I ain't need to use hard lexical strikes against U, cuz am sure you getting ya Ass cooled already.
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @Sai Na:
    "U could easily find in the authropopogy books that men of different natioanlities behave quite alike in terms of sex."

    No. Just no.

    Differences within each group are greater than differences between the groups.

    But please. Prove me wrong. Those articles can be found so easily, right?
  • Saina
    Saina wrote:
    Their bed manners might be different but once u start doing it, the physical and mental procedures and so on r quite alike.

    Of course there will be some difference in bed skills, depends on the oppertunities u get to learn and practice it, that varies according to the culture/system of each nation and one's personal experience.



  • A Winona
    A Winona wrote:
    is that the point about Asian girls love white guys ?
    what about American Black?
    do they only want sex or they want going to get married?
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @Sai Na,
    "and one's personal experience."
    Why, of all things, would you mention this last?
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    Dando, I swear I heard an analysis before from a girl who had sex with at least 500 guys, and she quite clearly did make general distinctions based on race. Since I don't have the source to quote I won't put what I remember from the results either, for fear of Japanese and American men getting furious with me.
  • Amalie Sæverud
    莫明: you ruined everything! i was going to say ,the research only have reference meannings , if you plan to have a lot lot lot of sex ! because you met one, and you have sex with him, then you got the size whatever he has! It's impossible that you meet with 3 black peoles and they all get the biggest size, that will be wrong, beecause the biggest supposed to be one! So the research is not usaful at individual level! you got what you got! As i'm a person with little ambition with relationship and sex, so the problem never bothers me!
    but this girl!!!! OMG, she is my new idol! could you kindly give me her analysis? Although i don't have big ambition as hers, but it doesn't harm to guide by the master's experience!
  • Fazio
    Fazio wrote:
    Actually,I have some thing to share with you.

    1.Foreigner ≠ Rich.

    In my mind,There is alot of Foreigners in the bar of "Free to in".There were one boy and two girls just share on cup of drink.The boy dont even wannapay the drink

    2.Some bitches ≠ Chines girl.

    As we know,There is alot Women wanna live without working or have a job.So,Foreigners,Clean your eyes.The girls wanna be with Just cause you seem like A lively ATM.
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @莫明:
    I never denied that there were differences. Americans and Jews are circumcised, black dudes don't eat pussy, and let's not get started on the Japanese. But it's still hearsay.

    All I'm saying is they're exaggerated by rumors and that the differences between individuals within each ethnic group are greater than the aggregate differences between the groups themselves. Ergo, personality is more important than nationality.

    Besides, you think any of these girls have fucked five hundred dudes?

    ...

    @all:
    I suspect that the ladies of this forum are too classy to back up their half-baked assertions with actual specifics.

    Have no fear. Your friendly neighborhood White Guy is here.

    Maybe some of you ladies actually have enough experience to give a reason for preferring one nationality over another, but you don't want to brag or invite a scandal. Send a PM to me or CC.

    However, I don't think any of you have the balls eggs for it.
  • Fazio
    Fazio wrote:
    Actually,I have some thing to share with you.

    1.Foreigner ≠ Rich.

    In my mind,There is alot of Foreigners in the bar of "Free to in".And much fewer in the bar you need to pay the ticket.

    I saw myself.There were one boy and two girls just share on cup of drink.The boy didnt even wanna pay the drink.They are all white.

    2.Some bitches ≠ Chines girl.

    As we know,There is alot Women wanna live without working or have a job.So,Foreigners,Clean your eyes.The girls wanna be with Just cause you seem like A lively ATM.

    Yes,there is alot bicthes seeking to foreigner for money.But it doesnt mean all the Chinese girls.
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    It all depends on what crowd you are searching in.

    You want to find true love in a bar?

    You want to find a one night stand at the library?

    You want to find a reliable guy on the street slangin drugs in the hood?

    You must look in the right places........

    Look in the right places for what you want and you shall be successful.

  • Fazio
    Fazio wrote:
    @Kodi :

    you got the point
  • 外交猫
    外交猫 wrote:
    Nearly 40% of Americans are NOT white. 15% of us are latino, 14% of us are black, 5% asian, etc.etc. Within 20 years or so white people will be the minority in the US.

    So it's interesting to me that so many people on this forum can determine exactly how "Americans" act, look, sound, and behave in bed. What are we really talking about here? I'd like to think that all Americans, regardless of race, have more in common with each other than we do with any of you crazy people. But is it true? I'm not sure.

    Am I more similar to an American black guy than I am to some white French dude? Actually, yes, I think so. But would a Chinese girl ever recognize that fact? Probably not.

    Conversations about nationality always end up being conversations about race. This topic started with a question about nationality, and it took about two seconds before everyone started talking about racial issues.

    Interesting...
  • Hans Christian Eriksson
    Virgo, do u remember the second time, in the washing room, around 2 am. still it was with an african.
  • StrawberryIceCream
    that is true.

    But recently I found all the people on the earth are all pretty boring.
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    I know love beats all prejudice. We at times say so many things on the outside when we really know deep within our souls that we can do otherwise. There is no thing as to love depending on nationality. Such differences happen in animals that a cat can not hump a dog. But humans are different. True love at times comes from the one we least expect and from a place we least think it can happen. Our hearts are prone to temptations what so ever. One might have a feeling against a particular race, but end up finding true and meaningful love blended with understanding, passion and happiness from a person of that same race. I believe we say such things like love for nationality out of arrogance and naivety. Love is never judged by nationality, color or size. It knows nothing like that. It is an open feeling that leads to a world beyond other than the world that is, creating a passion stronger that the chains that anchor a ship, and heavier than the universe. many people have found love beyond their races and have worked it out. I am a mixed donkey though both parents are blacks, but from different continents. If you fall in love because of nationality, you can never get love. It can only be got from people that know what love is. Many have found it from people of different tribes and colors and sizes.

    You can have a look at some of the most famous people we think.















    It does not matter what size.
    <img src="http://2leep.com/img/5617-140.jpg'/>
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    No I do not believe in 2012.....

    And I only date women I find attractive.... It could be their mind or personality that attracts me, it could be their good looks (however if they have no personality or are not interesting in any other way that never lasts long, or it could be some character trait other than the above.) either way it is not based on race for me... although I am more physically attracted to Asian and Eastern European women than any others.... Or so I have found.

  • Amalie Sæverud
    Heidi rocks !lol ! people find exotic people attractive, it's normal!
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

    ...

    Just a short video ... not sure about its relevance to the title of this thread ...

    The moral of the story for typical Chinese ... dont just look at the ass of the girl ...

    The moral of the story for everyone who can afford it ... get a smart looking hand-held device that can buy you a can of coke at the Expo, and then look for a girl who just had a fight with her BF ...

    Original title: [生活] 世博园内老外泡妞--结尾是亮点

    http://v.ku6.com/show/v8cNJX0JjmE8vG40.html

     

  • Petter Meisfjordskar

    At Victory ohh sorry Victoria, that is me with a brown hat. Sorry for your name. Just taken three Guinness bottles.

     

     

    Hurray for WLIB. Now we can make font etc changes.

  • Petter Meisfjordskar

    Is that being cheap?

  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:

    I liked it better when I could feel superior for knowing HTML.

  • Amalie Sæverud

    世博会那个是那个视频网站恶搞 要点击率的吧!?咋可能那么巧呀!现在什么都不能相信!

  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:

    sage for viral marketing

  • Petter Meisfjordskar

    @Victory, sorry, Victoria, it is good you have put it in italics and bold. So you mean the opposite. 

  • Hanna Amalie Martinsen
    Some idiot hens are just commending ,but what they are saying is so useless! it seems like they are looking for more attention through this thread or something, especially those who repeatedly mouth opened... don't lie yourself that you know better than everybody here, just shut up and listen others!!! i love this thread but they are making too useless with their unwanted comments. ""if you feel offended by this, just cool down coz ITS NOT a personal attack"" lets go commend nicely and straight to facts!!!
  • Marte Joahansen

    i obviously had to guess my racial sense was retarded...goooffff..

     

    ha ha...

  • Petter Meisfjordskar

    Did you understand what he said?

  • Kristian Svoren
    ," 马克" don't worry that was the pc's little problem which caused the grammatical mistakes you are talking about, its alright.....and thats why the commend repeated itself 3 times...
  • SOSA Dewayne Stackz

    chinese ppl generally lik ppl wit lighter skin/white ppl fo some reason

  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:

    Thanks for all you people, It was interesting for me to listen you all....Cheers   :)

  • Eleven
    Eleven wrote:

    那视频 太丢中国人的脸了

  • Minger
    Minger wrote:

    去死吧

  • Hanne Jensen
    Hanne Jensen wrote:

    haha... come on girls and guys, that video seems fake, don't u think so?

  • Saina
    Saina wrote:

    Yeah I agree, it looks too much like acting, more like a bad moblie ad for me, but never know, maybe shanghai girls really do that....

    And I saw this morning a very interesting article that might answer ur questions, and really ,there seems be to nothing to blame except her fatacies about the hansome and polite western guys...but I'm too lazy to translate it into english, help urselves with things like google translater.

    80后女大学生——《偶只嫁外国人哦》

     
    一:中国没有适合我的男人。

    我是一个很出色的女孩子,从学历上讲,我读的是名牌大学,学业优秀,而且我并不是那种戴着厚厚的眼睛,整天低头啃书本的高智商恐龙,不论身材相貌谈吐我都很出色,我是学校足球啦啦队的队长,业余时间参加本地的选美比赛得过名次,对于音乐舞蹈美术也有一定的爱好,还经常在报纸上发表一些小豆腐块,总而言之,各方面都很优秀。
     
    可我能嫁个什么样的男人呢?追我的男生倒是一大堆,身边的女友经常也是成双成对的,可一到毕业大多劳燕双飞,真的要谈婚论嫁,什么户口啊,籍贯啊,家庭负担啊全来了,都是利益的结合,至于婚姻中最重要的内容—感情,反而可以忽略不计。我是一个热爱生活的女孩子,我希望拥有优越的物质生活和美好的精神生活,抱歉,我在中国男人身上找不到,找个同学嫁了,将来到公司做个白领?买的起房吗?
     
    我希望有一个宽大的客厅,大到足够举办一个小型沙龙,我可以和我的好朋友们在一起谈天说地,品尝美酒,甚至卫生间也要足够大,要放的下一个大浴缸,双人的,放上一段轻柔的音乐,和心爱的男人共度浪漫的夜晚。还有,我嫁的男人至少要买得起车吧?难不成每天挤公车上班?冬天像冰柜,夏天像微波炉,要不了几年美少女都变成黄脸婆,再说你们忍心让我这样的白领丽人被那些浑身脏乎乎的农民工挤来挤去?

    中国倒是不缺有钱的男人,可你们看看这些都是什么人?有几个是靠自己的努力、智慧、诚实成功的?不是搬砖的包工头就是挖煤的山西老扣,要不就是贪污腐败的。这些人素质没素质,风度没风度,跟他们有什么共同语言?说实在的,能哼几句流行歌曲在他们就算是有艺术品位了。这些人有钱了就吃喝嫖赌,想过个安稳日子都难,现在就有人到学校找我,一伸手就是名片,什么总经理、董事长、局长处长,个个都财大气粗,不可一世,甚至有人直接就提出来包养我,OH,MY GOD!我虽然不是绝代佳人也算是如花似玉,十年寒窗苦读考进名校,居然只能做二奶?!

    二:西方国家生活条件好。

    就算是钻石王老五风流倜傥又对我一见钟情,哼哼,本姑娘也不太想嫁,说白了,俺就是想嫁到西方去,我从电影电视里看到的西方世界,简直就像是天堂,干净的街道,别致的建筑,纯净的天空,不论是繁华的都市还是寂静的小镇,都显得那么温馨和谐,不论收入学历,每个人都彬彬有礼。

    以本MM的实力,当然可以在中国做个住别墅的女人,那又怎么样?买的起别墅买得到纯净的空气吗?这个国家哪儿不是灰尘满天?乡村好点,我也不想去,你说我要是穿着比基尼躺在游泳池边日光浴的时候,栅栏外来一帮农民挑着粪桶瞪着眼睛看我,岂不是很不爽?西藏倒是空气纯净,拜托,本姑娘怕有高山反应。

    我尤其反感现在的居住环境,家家都是防盗门,几十年住在一个楼里,天天见面都是大眼瞪小眼,很多人连垃圾都不愿意扔到楼下,夏天堆在门口臭死人了,有时候简直怀疑自己是跟一群山顶洞人生活在一起。大米是有毒的,奶粉是大头的,猪肉是注水的,油是地沟的,想起来就心惊胆战。

    Sorry,你要我爱你,给个理由先?没有?爱外国去。美国的home town ,法国的葡萄园,西班牙的海边小镇,英国的古典农庄,随便那都行,我一个同学去加拿大留学,把老爸接去住了半年,回来逢人就发牢骚:“唉,那才是住人的地方。”你别给我扯什么觉悟,要我爱总要给我一个理由吧?

     在中国生活成本太高,消费跟美国人比,收入跟非洲人比,父母辛辛苦苦把我供进大学,总要孝顺他们吧,就算我进公司当个高级白领,收入又能有多高?父母年纪大了,万一生个病住个院,高额的医疗费用怎么办?西方国家可是有全民的医疗福利。尤其是国内的就业环境,真的是不敢恭维,一看到万头攒动的大学生招聘会场,我就心惊肉跳,天呐,这那里是人才招聘会,简直就是二战的奥马哈海滩!我一个文弱女子,怎生挤的过这些臭男人?当个现代女性,第一任务就是生存,读书考大学、找工作、攒钱买房子,攒钱养老,那一样不得拼命?累不累?我的学姐们毕业后不是成了黄脸婆,就是找个大款嫁了,任凭老公在外面吃喝嫖赌,自己就当不知道,何苦呢?

    三:西方男人都很优秀。

    说了这么多,环境也好,物质也罢,这第三点才是我最看重的,我就是喜欢西方男人。我从小就爱看外国片,什么罗马假日,乱世佳人,就爱看里面的西方人,他们脸型都棱角分明,尤其是深陷的有色眼睛,高挺的鼻梁,紧抿的嘴唇,再加上西方人大多身材高大,体型健美,怎么看怎么性感。再看我身边的中国男人,眼睛小不说,还都是疙瘩鼻子,嘴唇厚厚的,皮肤晒黑点特像非洲人,有点学历的差不多都像营养不良,我都担心他们能不能保护我,偶尔有个肌肉男吧,却是光长个头不长脑子。

    大学里的男生很多追求我的,一些社会上的男人也频频约我,可我看的上的却没有几个,一个个要么长的跟绿豆芽似的,要么就象奥特曼,一个个邋里邋遢,起码的个人形象都不注意。很多男人还随地吐痰,我顶讨厌别人这样了,只有小孩子和动物才随地大小便,随地吐痰比随地大小便强不到哪去,他们顶多算个半文明人呗。

    西方男人大多风度翩翩,举止优雅,因为他们从小就受到良好的教育,本市有几家麦当劳肯德基餐厅,我经常和朋友们去吃饭,在餐厅里看到的西方男人都显得很有教养,先推门让别人进。

    中国男人呢,门一掀就急吼吼的往柜台奔,经常和里面出来的人撞上,一看就是饿死鬼投胎,进去老外都排队,中国男人都一拥而上,围着柜台嚷嚷着要吃的,八辈儿没吃过饭似的,也不嫌丢人,吃完包装纸乱扔,可那些老外吃完后都把餐盘里的纸叠起来,方便收拾,吃不完的都自己拿到垃圾桶里倒掉,根本就不是一个层次的人。
     
    还有些中国男人缺乏独立性,就知道围着女孩子转,活像一个超级保姆,感觉他们都没有自我,粘粘乎乎整天心思就在女孩子身上,上车先抢位子,然后忙着给女孩子让,也不管身边还有老人小孩,我都不好意思坐。

    这样的男人我也瞧不起,婚前围着女友转,婚后围着老婆转,上班围着领导转,下班围着厨房转,要思想没思想,要脾气没脾气,偶滴乖乖,跟这样的男人生个儿子都怕像他爸,一看就是独裁国家培养出的好公民。哪个女孩不喜欢有性格有魄力的男人?

    西方男人都是在独立的环境里培养出来的。有独立的思考能力,不像中国男人,人云亦云,比如说我的同学吧,上面说日中亲善,他们就喜欢日本,上面玩民族主义,他们就高呼打倒日本,个个都没脑子,被人家当猴儿耍,还觉得自己多么崇高,整个就是一群猪头男。还有些话生活中不好意思讲,所以只能在网络上说。

    总而言之我就是想嫁个老外,最好是个

  • Saina
    Saina wrote:
    总而言之我就是想嫁个老外,最好是个美国男人,欧洲也不错,条件嘛,我没有过多要求,学历比我低也无所谓,工作什么的也不要求,麦当劳洗个盘子月薪不也上千美金吗?照样买车买房。

    实在不行,就找个二婚的,当后妈都成,反正西方小孩子独立性强,总不至于让我端屎端尿吧跟前跟后吧?要是还不行,日本韩国男人也可以考虑,大不了他们不下厨房,反正我就是想出国想去西方,不为选票也要为钞票。
     
    我承认我很世俗,但我不认为我的想法不对,我又没有伤害别人,我只是想生活的好一些,不论物质生活还是精神生活。我看过一部美国电视剧《绝望的主妇》,那宁静的小镇 ,干净的街道,遍地的草坪,还有举止优雅、彬彬有礼的邻居,我就知道,那就是我要的生活。
  • A M
    A M wrote:

    um,那个女女还真的是……估计刚和男朋友分手吧,哈哈,临时找个发泄的,不过那个老外也太热情了吧?还有,难道他们没有发现有人一直在拍他们吗???

    我怎么就没有朋友过这么人心肠的人馁~~~?

  • Simen Stensvoll

    那个视频显然假的

    演的好假

  • Morten Eriksen

    i'm curious for the white and black guy's size, i don't have any experence with them. they are fat and hard, is it true?

  • Simen Stensvoll

    in general speaking,white and black guy's sizes are bigger

    that means there are small sizes among them too

    just like some asian guys have bigger sizes as well

  • Morten Eriksen

    i c, thanks K

  • Ousama
    Ousama wrote:

    I totally agree...well i'm an arabian, when i first got here 7 years ago it was obvious that chinese girls prefered Americans and Europeans but now it started to change i guess

  • Ms. Stephanie
    Ms. Stephanie wrote:
    This thread is TL and interesting!!! Im gonna go home and read it as a novel.. lol

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