Discussion » Dating & Romance » You call this "Destiny"

  • Chaton Du Nounours
    Chaton Du Nounours wrote:
    世界这么大,却偏偏遇见你
    世界这么小,却还是失去你
    The world is so huge, but I still met you
    The world is so small, but I still lost you
  • Børge Notkevich
  • pommie
    pommie wrote:
    Every night in my dreams
    I see you, I feel you
    That is how I know you go on

    Far across the distance
    And spaces between us
    You have come to show you go on

    Near, far, wherever you are
    I believe that the heart does go on
    Once more you open the door
    And you're here in my heart
    And my heart will go on and on

    Love can touch us one time
    And last for a lifetime
    And never let go till we're gone

    Love was when I loved you
    One true time I hold to
    In my life we'll always go on

    Near, far, wherever you are
    I believe that the heart does go on
    Once more you open the door
    And you're here in my heart
    And my heart will go on and on

    You're here, there's nothing I fear
    And I know that my heart will go on
    We'll stay forever this way
    You are safe in my heart
    And my heart will go on and on
  • Synne Syverstad
    你还笑啊……阿拉是用很悲伤的语气写的……
  • Børge Notkevich
    不是笑,只是觉得很美,很真。
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    阿拉?那里的称呼?
  • Synne Syverstad
    my heart will go on... good song.. but like many people said before, if Jack didn't die, he maybe just cant get that position in Rose's heart....
    love.. if really love someone enough.. maybe nothing beside death can separate them ...
    "destiny" is just an excuse sometimes, or I should say most time ...
  • Synne Syverstad
    阿拉是上海话的“我”... 我不是上海人,只是最近想换一个除了“我”以外的词自称一下~ 也可以说朕啊,哀家啊什么的……
  • Rebecca Arnesen
    I don't care who you are
    where you're from
    what you do
    as long as you love me
    who you are
    where you're from...
    what you do
    as long as you love me
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    Sparky, what's up with all the poetry? You sad about something?
  • Synne Syverstad
    Jon, u got the point... I said this word to sb yesterday, sadly...
  • ❤Pinkbubble❤
    一生至少该有一次,为了某个人而忘了自己,不求有结果,不求同行,不求曾经拥有,甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里,遇到你。
    In your life, there will at least one time that you forget yourself forsomeone, asking for no result, no company, no ownership nor love. Justask for meeting you in my most beautiful years.

    我知道这世上有人在等我,尽管我不知道我在等谁。但是因为这样,我每天都非常快乐。
    I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    I've got a poem for you.

    Don't be sad, be glad!


    hahahaha
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    I see you
    I see you
    Walking through a dream
    I see you
    My light in darkness breathing hope of new life
    Now I live through you and you through me
    Enchanting
    I pray in my heart that this dream never ends
    I see me through your eyes

    Living through life flying high
    Your life shines the way into paradise
    So I offer my life as a sacrifice
    I live through your love
    You teach me how to see

    All that’s beautiful
    My senses touch your word I never pictured
    Now I give my hope to you
    I surrender
    I pray in my heart that this world never ends
    I see me through your eyes

    Living through life flying high

    Your love shines the way into paradise
    So I offer my life
    I offer my love, for you
    When my heart was never open
    (and my spirit never free)
    To the world that you have shown me
    But my eyes could not division
    All the colours of love and of life ever more

    Evermore
    (I see me through your eyes)
    I see me through your eyes
    (Living through life flying high)
    Flying high

    Your love shines the way into paradise
    So I offer my life as a sacrifice
    And live through your love
    And live through your life
    I see you
    I see you
  • pommie
    pommie wrote:
    Which foreigner is best at yuanfen??

    ?
  • Rebecca Arnesen
    有没有人曾告诉你我很爱你?
    有没有人曾在你日记里哭泣?
    哦-哦哦哦-哦-哦哦哦哦
  • Synne Syverstad
    @pink,
    我知道这世上有人在等我,尽管我不知道我在等谁。但是因为这样,我每天都非常快乐。
    I know someone in the world is waiting for me, although I've no idea of who he is. But I feel happy every day for this.

    this reminds me sth~ when I was in Wuzhen, I post a note on a "messages wall", wrote "I m here, where r u"
    yes, there is someone for me, and in some moments, I just stop the things in hand and think, where is he, what is he doing, when will we meet each other...
  • Synne Syverstad
    Jon, thanks~ haha~ perfect poem~ : )
  • Synne Syverstad
    @cool, That's a cool song~I was really touched by the word "I see u" when I saw the movie~

    @那个“哦-哦哦哦-哦-哦哦哦哦 “ 跟你的狼头像很配……
  • 微笑的Min
    微笑的Min wrote:
    一生只有一次,为了某个人而忘了自己,不求有结果,不求同行,不求曾经拥有,甚至不求你爱我。只求在我最美的年华里,遇到你。

    只有一次
  • 哎呀
    哎呀 wrote:
    微笑的Min, 千万别用那个“一生只有一次” 的理论一遍遍地给自己洗脑。当你这么想的时候,也许你的一生就真的只有一次了。

    爱情其实没有我们想象的那样玄妙,更多的时候是我们自愿封闭自己,不给他人机会。

    也许“一生只有一次” 的爱情更值得祭奠,更值得怀念,更值得书写,但“一生会有多次” 的爱情更让人甜蜜,更让人享受,更让人心驰神往。

    爱是一种能力,是一种我们需要有意识培养的能力。
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    我还是同意Min这么写。只有一次。这一次失去之后人才能开始有正常的感情。
  • Synne Syverstad
    @Maria
    爱是一种能力,是一种我们需要有意识培养的能力。
    +2012 !
    我也一直这么觉得,也在培养自己这个能力~也在寻找有这种能力的人~

    @莫明,我觉得你跟Min说的还不是一个概念,你说的这种感情必须两个人曾一起同行,一起经历很多事情,把彼此伤的头破血流,然后分开,才学会如何爱人,然后有“正常的”感情……
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    Two souls meet in the endless expanse of the universe
    Two beating hearts
    Two minds
    Fade into one

    live for you
    die for you
    breath for you if you need me too
    feel you flowing through me

    yearn for your essence to arouse my senses
    long for you in the dark
    feel your spirit even when there are gaps between us
    Captivated by your everything I am pulled to you by forces I can't control

    There is no escape from physical existence
    Who would want to
    surreal consciousness
    I love you


  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    @Sparky, 不一定需要两个人在一起。只要你爱上过一个人,在你再次爱上另外一个人,你已经知道世界不仅有一个人值得你的爱情。有了第一个经验,再谈恋爱一定有不同的深度。
    @Kodi, that was deep man. I am so hot for you right now...
  • Synne Syverstad
    怎么样才算是爱一个人呢?
    how can we say we love someone? any standard?
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    @ Sparky: haha well.... I'll tell you how you can say you love someone.

    If everyone tells you you are in too deep, but you do not see it.

    If you do things that contradict all aspects of reason, but you think that you are right in doing them and are aware of no problem at all with what you are doing.

    When you feel overwhelmed and helpless at the same time and you act like an idiot without warning and without realizing it.

    When you just have no control over the strong blissful emotion that a person makes you feel.

    Reason and logic does not apply to love. You cannot define it... You can just feel it... It will make you crazy and it is far more dangerous than any drug sold on the streets.

    Be careful : )

  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    @莫明 : You like that sweetheart? I'm happy I could strike a chord.......
  • Synne Syverstad
    hmm... but what if u feel all or some of the things u metioned, but u can also just walk away from such situation within a not so long time? like one get chicken pox, it looks severe, but it also recover soon
    that's also love ? for short term? or of low level ?
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    @ Sparky: Ask yourself how much of walking away has to do with fear. It is rational and commendable, but to deny emotions is sort of robotic in a sense. Although, by denying it you embrace suffering within. I guess it is just in how you look at it. To experience love is like flooring Ferrari and not breaking through the curves. It is irrational, but a hell of a rush!

    Have you ever read Don Juan? Frequency and duration do not determine if it is love or not. The feeling is what counts. It can be for a second or 100 years. It is an emotion. Maybe the smart thing is to escape and not embrace it, but I choose to embrace it and live through it. It sounds insane and it is actually.....

    Don Juan would "Love" many women and he actually claimed to love them all. He would meet opposition wherever he went by men who claimed, "You seduced all of our women and for what reason? So you can have a thrill?" Don Juan replied, "Why do you think that for love to be real it has to fit your definition?" In other words Don Juan experienced love with all his lovers. He gave them what they wanted and he really loved them, but they could not accept the definition of what love was to him. When his lovers found that they were not the only ones they were hurt, but they still loved him and he still loved them. This is an interesting story because it seems to imply that love is not according to time nor frequency. Don Juan embraces love when it comes. He can't help that women can't resist his charms. He makes them love him and then he must move on. To him he lives in love. There are many variations on this that we find in humanity. Some deny all love and some embrace it all. Some are exclusive, but some are not. Some are frequent while others more spread out. Some are short while others are lasting.....

    It all comes down to an emotional reaction. The reality is a chemical reaction. A lovely chemical reaction that is intoxicating and it is probably rational to run the other way. I would rather run into the fire....

    I am the type that embraces the feeling and favors meaningful and lasting connections.

    Which type are you?
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    At the above:

    *furiously scribbles notes in notepad*

    Excellent stuff.
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    HAHA I would not call it excellent, but at least an opinion on the matter supported from one of my literary favorites. : ) Philosophical literature is always the thing that captivates my mind in regard to matters like this one.
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    @Sparky,
    The standard of knowing that you love some one is when you feel great emptiness without him, when you stand beside him and feel the hearts beat at the same time, when you are happy and at the same time cry when you see him, when you see the world in his eyes, when you feel great protection when he is around you, when your heart skips one beat when you see him, and finally, when you cut your finger, the blood that flows on the ground must automatically form his name on the ground. Try the last one. It is the best test you can ever make.
  • Synne Syverstad
    hmm...maybe just as there r so many different people, there r many different loves~ or maybe just everyone has his way to love~ in this case, love is not universal...
    I m the similar type as u~ always looking for longterm connection, can only love one person one time, exclusive~ really hard in this busy , moving and self-centre world...
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    @Sparky,
    I give you one of the poems i love most and i enjoyed most during my study of Shakespeare plays and sonnets. It sums up what love is.


    Let me not to the marriage of true minds

    Admit impediments. Love is not love

    Which alters when it alteration finds,

    Or bends with the remover to remove:

    O no! it is an ever-fixed mark

    That looks on tempests and is never shaken;

    It is the star to every wandering bark,

    Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.

    Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks

    Within his bending sickle's compass come:

    Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,

    But bears it out even to the edge of doom.

    If this be error and upon me proved,

    I never writ, nor no man ever loved.



    William Shakespeare

    (1564 - 1616)
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    Hope you can make out the Victorian English.
  • Synne Syverstad
    I guess I should open another discussion about what is love~ haha~
  • Rebecca Arnesen
    what is love?
    baby don't hurt me
    don't hurt me
    no more
  • Synne Syverstad
    ?puzzle
  • Petter Meisfjordskar
    @Jarg
    Surprise, i thought i am the only person in China who knows such songs. It was a hit by Haddaway man. I still love that music.

    What is love
    Baby don't hurt me
    Don't hurt me
    no more
    Baby don't hurt me
    Don't hurt me
    no more
    What is love
    Yeah
    Oh I don't know
    why you're not fair
    I give you my love
    but you don't care
    So what is right
    and what is wrong
    gimme a sign
    (chorus x2)
    uoh oh...
    Oh I don't know
    what can I do
    what else can I say
    it's up to you
    I know we're one
    just me and you
    I can't go on
    (chorus x2)
    uoh oh..
    What is love
    What is love
    What is love
    Baby don't hurt me
    Don't hurt me
    no more
    Don't hurt me
    Don't hurt me
    I want no other
    No other love
    This is your life
    our time
    When we are together
    I need you forever
    Is it love
    (chorus x2)
    uoh oh..
    (chorus x2)
    Baby don't hurt me
    Don't hurt me
    no more
    Baby don't hurt me
    Don't hurt me
    no more
    Baby don't hurt me
    Don't hurt me
    no more
    Baby don't hurt me
    Don't hurt me
    no more
    what is love?!...
  • Synne Syverstad
    hmm~ I see~

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