Now most of you would say that this is simply how life works and that we have highs and lows and that we'll eventually find the right person. Although this may be true, one thing I have come to realize over time is that you CAN NOT be yourself and get the person you want and if you are that lucky, you MAY END UP not being good enough for them!
To make things worse, women follow and maintain tradition. Tradition is simply the popular belief system at any given time which actually changes constantly. Today's truth becomes outdated and useless at a much faster rate as we live in the information age where new ideas come quickly and tear away at whatever foundations we may have worked hard to build. This means that as a man no matter how hard you work, or how MAN you are, you are taking a HUGE GAMBLE even entertaining the idea of marriage which over time can be a huge mental, physical, financial and legal headache. All it takes is the "right person" to cause infidelity and you can be sure society will protect her arguments as women are seen to be the weaker sex. All it takes is the wrong chain of events to cause a woman to divorce and walk off with almost everything her man has. Now I do admit that there are women who have helped their men become strong over the years but people in such relationships RARELY feel the need to divorce. A huge majority of the men of today are taught to seek out the "trophy wife" instead of the woman who best meets his needs and current situation.
All that to say that although I love women, perhaps I don't love them enough to marry them. Let me know how you guys feel!