There are a lot of China/Asia specific dating websites out there. That's why I don't understand why so many come here looking for sex. On dating sites people are obviously looking for the same thing, so there is less chance of misunderstanding.
Some these sites include Asian Dating Mall, Date in Asia.com, Craigslist, Beijing Babblesex, and Date a Chinesegirl.com.
@dingdang, cause I wanted to build something serious with her, but after the first night she through me away like an old sock! My heart was broken, and I still spend all my nights crying because of that.
Hahahaha ... one thing I have learnt over the years ... "dont assume" ... or as X Files goes, "the truth is out there", so go do some discovery, I am sure she can assist you ... oh, by the way, Rita is coming back this week, I asked her to get a few people
together and we will pig out one night ... interested?
What's the fascination with one night stands? Maybe I'm just strange, but I never manage to get much of a rhythm going in just one night. Usually takes at least 3 or 4 nights for me to achieve harmony with someone... first night is just meh, 2nd is OK,
3rd is amazing.
I guess I am just strange like that... I also hate listening to new music until I hear something 20 times and know it really well.
creepy and fucking funny, that something like this, have one abbreviation, ONS
In spain is ¨Polvo de una noche¨ , the dust of one night,
maybe from Ashes to ashes dust to dust,
"In the sweat of thy face shalt thou eat bread, till thou return unto the ground; for out of it wast thou taken: for dust thou art, and unto dust shalt thou return."
Carpe diem, but with good fuckers and with codoms, for not be the MON
mistake of one night.
De joder venimos al mundo, jodiéndonos vivimos, y jodidos dejamos el mundo,
In the sexual relation, sex secure is the first.
the use of condoms, give protection against body illness
the use of ONS, give protection against mental illness (After break up with your bf/gf comes many bad things, that special hollow pain, depress, stress, lost the trust....loving in a surface way can avoid of these illness). In our societies charged of uncertainty,
the liquid love is the safe bet.
In other times........maybe was different, but now is the time of kisses with wine flavour, wake up in the bed with hangover and with a strange near of you. Brave drunkers believing be Casanova and princesses fucked.
I think all of us here need to know the causes and circumstances under which this happens. Among them is excitement, society in which you are at the moment it happens, your mood at the time, past and present experiences eg having been in a bad relationship
so you do not want to get committed any more, etc. If we get to know all this, all of us will agree that a one night stand is acceptable and inevitable at times.
It's interesting to see how fake theories are being created and it's even more interesting how they are being spread and how they find its stupid explanations (not to be offensive?! wow!).
The 'S' in ONS has never stood for sex. The meaning of it was and is 'stand'. Originally it referred to theater performance, which has usually taken place during night and the publicity was standing while watching it. Now the meaning has changed and it commonly
refers to what you - dirty folks - have in minds. ;-)
Except of that ONS can also stand for Office for National Statistics. Never thought about this, he? ;-)
Personally I'm not actively looking for a ONS in here, it's way more fun going out with your wingman and try to hook up with a girl you never met before.. and then you have a totally fresh starting point - lot to talk about etc.
But I think I can speak for every guy on the site who's straight and single (+ some others) that we wouldn't turn down a ONS from a girl on this website we find attractive.
But since every girl on this website probably get requests for guys daily, I strongly doubt that any girl are as direct as the guys and start off with a message "hey, wanna hook up and fuck the brains out of each other?" or something like that, haha ;)
And I agree that FF's are a better solution. You dont have to get drunk to loosen up, there's no awkwardness due to the fact that you never met the person before, and you probably know where you are the next morning :)
Haha, but DD, Chinese people don't have AIDS, so we can't get it from them!
...Since I know there are a large number of retarded people who don't know I only speak in sarcasms, and I don't want them all to get AIDS, I should probably note that due to a combination of the denial and under-reporting of the Chinese AIDS problem, the severe
lack of education on sex and diseases, and the general unwillingness of some guys to use rubbers and the unwillingness of some girls to require them to use rubbers, I must assume that 1 in 10 people have AIDS.
There's a very easy way to tell without a blood test though, that everyone should keep in mind. Girls: If she's willing to have sex without a condom, she has AIDS, because she was willing to have sex with another guy without a condom, and he had AIDS. Guys: If he tries to have sex without a condom, he has AIDS, because he did that with other girls too, and they had AIDS.
I hope everybody learned something today. Now go out and enjoy your (protected) one night stands!
hey, 莫明，lol, you are so good at classifying things! It's so interesting to see you do it again to explain things! what's your major in college? Anyway, again, I agree with what you have just said! hahaha
@runway and 莫奕迅
it depends means :
young and fabulous people will easily get ons on any website ; while the shameless will turn every website into his hunting field :)
nothing to do with early bird or stds
are you stalking me?
I don't debate with people who don't dare to show their face !
And don't try to provoke me to say some stupid thing about my chance to get ONS !
No No No! I won't let you! :)
"young and fabulous people will easily get ons on any website ; while the shameless will turn every website into his hunting field :)"
Maybe this is a language issue, but I have to disagree. While I am no longer young or fabulous, I still think I could probably pull a 1ns on this website (or a random bar) if I was so interested. However, although I am certainly shameless, I haven't yet created
any generated any hunting fields...
Aside: Tonight, while out with 小莫, we invented a new Chinese slang. The English "I'm gonna bang her" now translates to the Chinese "我要棒她". 大家记好！
first of all, never want to debate with you, afraid of you will make another categories here! and you know i never win categories! haha
second of all, how old are you? 26! wow! don't say that you are old already!
at last, you may not be shameless enough to turn it into hunting field! And when I say" the shameless will turn every website into his hunting field" , I mean in his own mind, the other people could regard the webstie as whatever they want! maybe really language
issue, i should use "regard as " rather than " turn into"!
Heh 3/4 of men that have sent me messages offered sex within the first three notes...I almost believed its a website for foreign trash to seek ons as someone told me before...but I did meet a few intersting ppl here who made me stay, and I agree with Minimy,
ons sucks: except with an extremely handsome and charming guy with superb flirting and bed skill, but still, I wish he could disappear the next morning before I wake up, even if he really exists anf visits this website.
Acquired immune deficiency syndrome isn't it?
Kidding,but I will agree with you Naughty Boy that people don't care about anything, I mean anything but only sex.For this generation ONS and stuff like that are more important then anything.
seriously,i think no one is mean to look for Ons
ONS sometimes just happened to some ppl
for example,we met each other this morning,and we are going to spend a hot night together tonight,but u gotta to leave to other planet the next day,we won't have a chance to see each other again,so this crazy night called ONS,but not boring
another example,we hanged out and slept together last night,but it was quite boring,so neither of us wanted to see each other again,then it was called ONS,too boring ya