Discussion » Dating & Romance » Older men and younger women

  • Terry Sachetti
    Terry Sachetti wrote:
    Been to Asia, will be moving there and will want an Asian woman for wife or serious relationship. How do Asian women feel about older western men. will be living in Beijing and or Koh Samui Thailand.
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    SB 有很多 今天特别多
  • wrote:
    我觉得这样回答Terry有些不合理。
    他可以找他可以找到的亚洲女性了。

    Terry, you can expect to meet a woman matching you.
  • Amber
    Amber wrote:
    a older man is my favorite,

    my advice...........figurer it out by your self.......... discover by ur own observation, like a adventure. well just hope u could survive ,it could not be possible though , haaa
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    去吧去吧@ serious relationship !!!
    @Terry : good luck to you !
  • Maiken Larsen
    Maiken Larsen wrote:
    SB 有很多 今天特别多
    There are so many jerks,especially today!!!

    严重赞同!!!
    Absolutely agree!
  • Amber
    Amber wrote:
    remember what i told u..............ha ,suit ur self buddy
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Terry ... make sure you get Amber's number ...
  • Amber
    Amber wrote:
    yeah, get those girls emailed u privately, phew......god with u..........believe me or not, when time changed,u would see where i am coming from.
  • SaSa♣Yi
    SaSa♣Yi wrote:
    Age is not a problem and I'm convinced of it.
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    @sasa: yes u r right Age is not a big problem!
    but how many years
    or thegeneration gap
    you should be mark it within the confines of our chinese culture (i mean parents or relatives advice )

    btw i didn't think i'm auspice depend on men for a life. just can do independent urself.
    hey gals how can you fall in love with a man that the age like your father or your grandpa ? except economic or sth....but that is not real love ...right ? oh god ..lets talk abt what is love again... i remember someone refered to a link abt what is love in a thread on this forum ..but i forgot whichone ! perhaps need someone reference &for help 。。。。。。
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    haha thx thorstan
  • SaSa♣Yi
    SaSa♣Yi wrote:
    杨振宁和翁红!!!
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    im just telling the truth !!!! sry !!! damn ! i should avoid writing truth .... really sry ! !!!!
    have fun you guys ! lol
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    haha am i a coward ???


    btw news share
    http://news.qq.com/a/20100310/003325.htm?qq=0&ADUIN=362631031&ADSESSION=1268197738&ADTAG=CLIENT.QQ.2269_.0
  • Erik Aleksander Aas
    With an American passport as your primary weapon I can confidently say that you'll have no problem whatsoever finding a young, beautiful wive in Asia!
    (Man, I'm gonna be crucified...)
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    hha 以前我的名字!blair of crucifix
    okay Mr. crucify
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    Why not just go to Vietnam and import a lady back to wherever you want to settle? I heard you can straight up just buy a wife there and just do all the price negotiations upfront instead of going through the whole courtship/mistress dance. *roll eyes*
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahahaha ... Fries, didnt you just say "always speak your mind", what Vincent had said, actually had certain truth in it ...
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    I'm with you on this one, Thor. Why the hell is everyone else here being so polite?

    Thailand is far more hospitable for sexpats.

    There. That's sincerely helpful advice. Now kindly go piss up a rope, you sleazy wanker.
  • Sara Elise Fladmark Seland
    Please, if you want to crucify my father, just tell me before, ok? And tell me the truth! Haha
  • Alicia WANG
    Alicia WANG wrote:
    一脸的老年斑和松弛的皮肤,全身散发着土埋半截子的气息,啃嫩草的老男人恶心,专门来亚洲啃嫩草的老男人更恶心
  • wrote:
    楼上说的好可怕
    我换等着有钱了也啃嫩草呢
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
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    老孙...你有"老年斑"了?呵呵...
  • wrote:
    我估计老了也不会有,不知道多老算老男人?哈哈
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
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    哈哈...估计我应该算是比较年轻的老男人了?
  • Aurélien
    Aurélien wrote:
    And this is why I hate expats.
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahahaha ... that would include me, yes?
  • Pete DeMola
    Pete DeMola wrote:
    Move to Thailand, you sleazy, pestilent Jingoist.

    As others have commented, Thailand is better for your sexpat lifestyle.
  • Undermoonlight
    From a slut's point of view, older men usually are more experienced in bed...and as you know, there are many women who like to be fucked as long as possible...teenagers or younger energetic lads usually cannot hold that long...they are often "conquered" by women before their sex partners "Coming"...
  • Fernand
    Fernand wrote:
    ········o(╯□╰)o
  • Hanna Eriksen
    Hanna Eriksen wrote:
    shability
  • Hanna Eriksen
    Hanna Eriksen wrote:
    ask Japanese/korean/Singaporean/Indonesian /Indian/Philippine/Vietnamese/ Nepalese/Laotian/ Burmese/Pakistanis/Arabic....then you'll get a perfect answer

  • Undermoonlight
    Thanks, my heroic friend Fries, but I've been in Thailand for many times...nice place!~~and I'd like to lend this opporunity to you, if the old man is really generous enough to offer you an air-ticket~~it's good for you to leave your filthy den and get some fresh air under the clear sky of Thailand (don't go there in the rainy season)--a really good cure for your psycho problem(s)...
  • Undermoonlight
    To Saibo: So, according to someone's categorization of women(bitches, sluts and whores) in this forum, 2/3 of female population in the world want to marry older men~~~very impressive coclusion!!!
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    If you are just looking for a bunch of easy ass or a woman to become your servant then stay home. However, if you are looking for a genuine loving relationship with a woman who is mature, respectful, hardworking, educated, and tender then there are many many women like that in China. After they are a certain age it gets harder and harder for them to find husbands here, but perhaps one of these types of women would fit you better.

    @everyone: not everyone who wants a Chinese wife is just looking for sex or to fulfill a sick Asian fetish lol. I know American women do not do it for me, but since I am younger does that make me different? Perhaps there are American girls who would be fit for me, but damn I sure am tired of looking for those. It seems too far and few between.

    You do not have to be so negative about this topic. Older men are more stable, understand what they want better than younger guys, have more experience at pleasing women, are less likely than a young buck to cheat, and perhaps have enough wisdom to avoid many conflicts that may be confronted with a woman. I am just saying that for every old guy that wants a Chinese woman there is definitely one here for him and it's not like he will have to force the girls to want him either. I see young girls with old guys all the time here. And here is a hint: The guys are more often Chinese than Western men.
  • Patrick Coleman
    just for once i agreee with french fries, CRUCIFY the TERRIER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Nadia Scheie
    Nadia Scheie wrote:
    sounds like~~a dad and a daughter's relationship~but disgasting
  • Peter Baird
    Peter Baird wrote:
    I spent last summer in Thailand, and I found a really nice beach city called Hua Hin. Beautiful. The only downside is that everywhere you looked there were these fat, grey haired, greasy, balding guys in the their fifties and sixties with 20 something Thai chicks crawling all over them.

    I guess what I'm saying to ya Terry, is that being that you are a fat, grey haired, greasy (you don't appear to be balding) guy in the later stages of your life, Hua Hin would be perfect for you. Just be sure to keep your wallet full.
  • Daniel
    Daniel wrote:
    Ouch! So many people woke up this morning and had the same tingling Spider-sense :"Someone on the internet said something immoral? Fetch me my keyboard of rage! We'll see about this..."
  • kö
    wrote:
    据人种来说 老年斑这个问题解决的方法就是留络腮胡子 可以这该部分,当然不要太长 否则像猴子,为了美观起见如果毛发是白的那就不要留了,留了也是白留,个人觉得褐色为佳,以上仅供参考···
  • Åse Marie Strand
    @ Dando. I just got out of a truck blaring Ween's "Piss On A Rope." I am with you and Thorstan on this one and am extremely offended by this poster's intentions. Also, I loved your coining of the term "sexpat." Brilliant.

    @ Undermoonlight - everything that you have posted to date has offended me in some way, shape or form. Also, it doesn't take a statistician to tell you that your logic is flawed. You can't possibly believe that the sample of females responding to this post is representative of an entire population. I would like to shove your head into a dunce cap at this point.

    I apologize for not being nice but for serious.

    @ the poster, would you truly be satisfied with a love so superficial? F***
  • Saint - Spartacus
    啃嫩草的男人已经不流行了 现在流行啃嫩草的女人们
    So you should get a lady around 120 years old ...good luck ...
  • kö
    wrote:
    控女人··
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Good morning all ... 6:30am Beijing local time ... just one Q: where on earth is Steven Ritter? He might have something to say here ...
  • kö
    wrote:
    ····say what ? say Good morning Leslie Zhang ?```
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahahaha ... just a photo ... and it should be Cheung ...
  • kö
    wrote:
    i like him just form 1 year ago and listen to his songs every day still make mewant go togther with him```lol nice guy
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahahaha ... I am glad ... in his memory, I will be playing his songs on my profile everyday, you and everyone else are welcome to have a listen ...
  • A豆腐
    A豆腐 wrote:
    why we don´t change the name of this website for wefuckinbeijing?
  • kö
    wrote:
    ````no i dont want listen anymore ``sometimes somethings just once is enough``always make me abit sad```and thinking life is so short and Pain
    PS: 两个会说中文的问什么要说英文····o(╯□╰)o
    新的一天又来了 大家吃好喝好侃好 我进被窝了···
  • Jochen
    Jochen wrote:
    多老的男人都喜欢年轻的女人,越漂亮的女人越喜欢成功的老男人,全世界都一样,最简单的例子PLAYBOYYYYYYY,
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    upstairs ur point of view a lots have all ur goods in the window.
  • Jochen
    Jochen wrote:
    楼上请讲中文,我一般情况下看不懂英文,不好意思
  • Saint - Spartacus
    Harold & Maude would be better in my view
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
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    哈哈...一般情况?...陈总说看不懂英文,但又可以明白这个帖是说什么...也太厉害了...
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
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    Hahahaha ... Fries, just wondering, have you visited Thailand or Philippines, or even the older Korea and Japan? ... You might not like it too much ...
  • Jochen
    Jochen wrote:
    叮当叔叔,娱乐第一,
  • Saint - Spartacus
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude
    Harold & Maude

    yes !!!
    yopi !!!
    ~ ~
    i always courage those who want to break the record
    terry , you'll be famous , man ! just break the record... ...come on
  • Saint - Spartacus
    which place for old women then ?
  • Saint - Spartacus
    specially the woman which hit 50 ,or over 55 , thanks ...
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahaha ... Fries, you really need to be more adventurous, try to live more dangeoursly ...

    Oh, and I'd just realised that I have not actually written any comment to Terry yet? So let me do just that ... everyone, dont shoot, hold your fire ...

    Terry, Terry, Terry ...

    Although yours is a fair and reasonable quest (not a request), doing it the way you do here is just like a project tender or bid in the newspaper (i.e. buying a relationship or wife), and such relationship usually ends up badly.

    Your info said you are 54, is that true? Well, we are both old enough to realise how much does a "serious relationship" (or marriage) cost, and I was not even thinking in the monetary sense.

    So ... choose the place you want to go, not because some girl (or woman) told you online that she would like to marry you or have sex with you (for your passport and/or money), but because you would really like to go there, and then meet people for real, and maybe, just maybe, you will find someone seriously interested in you as a person ... as slim a chance as it might be ...

    Or ... if your main reason for coming here is for "fun and conquer", then good luck to you, but be up-front about it and dont hide behind this "serious relationship" garbage ...
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    You don't know why? It's obvious why. Young Asian ladies are beautiful!

    Whatever you do, get a god damned pre-nup unless she's worth more than you! And if she says no, find someone who won't say no!
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    My reason? I'm not looking for a younger Asian wife... hahahaha
  • Xx
    Xx wrote:
    how about older women and young boys?
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    I'm not opposed to it. 35 or 40 is probably my max for a woman, but if someone interesting and attractive came along and she was 10 years older than me, I wouldn't immediately say no.
  • Xx
    Xx wrote:
    i was once attracted to an old man(not sure how old he was,maybe 50 )
    i found him really very cute

    but generally i think older men are terrible...i prefer young boys:)
  • Daniel
    Daniel wrote:
    Same as Jon. Generally most of the women I've been involved with have been older, some much older!

    To be serious about the post for a second, I think all the hate is a bit over-the-top! I realise there's a high probability that the OP is one of those sleazy older Western men, but there's not much in the original post to distinguish it from some old Western guy looking for one of those forty-something Chinese women(still 'younger woman' when taken against the age of the speaker') that put up ads on places like the beijinger that start with 'looking for a Western man for marriage and family'.


    I'm probably being naive or too hung up on the highlighting the use of the word 'younger' instead of what people assume was meant as 'young', but I like to give people the benefit of the doubt most of the time!
  • MiLo
    MiLo wrote:
    Pls buy youself a MIRROR
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    Laura: I didn't coin the term sexpat. I've seen it used elsewhere on this site.

    Daniel: You're a sweetheart. Really. Christ-like, even. Thanks for trying.

    But this guy has got a stated intention of marrying a younger ASIAN woman. And I doubt that he has a profound understanding and appreciation for Asian culture, as he's made no effort to distinguish between Thai women from Chinese women.

    He said race and age were his prime factors in choosing a significant other. I'm feeling pretty safe about condemning him.

    Maybe he's really got a heart of gold and there's something we're missing. I still don't give a shit. That would make him an idiot for not lurking this site (or others) to get an idea of how the expat and native communities would react to his poorly chosen words. Well-intentioned idiots are just as socially corrosive as assholes.

    For the record, I don't think he's really even a man. I don't think humans can so effortlessly bring racism, classism, sexism, and midwesternerism together in only a few words. He's clearly some hellspawn of elder elemental evil.

    Or he's a troll.
  • Daniel
    Daniel wrote:
    Man...why is it that, everywhere I go, people keep mistaking me for the second coming?

    Using the 'Asian' argument is pretty flimsy, though.

  • Amber
    Amber wrote:
    where is the thread starter?
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    Koh Samui probably...
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @Daniel: Your apologetics are flimsy. Young is one thing. Age differences are a small problem. Race is another thing. Cultural differences are a small problem. But put them together? What could this asshole possibly have in common with his theoretical bride?

    Point is, he's deviating from "normal" relationships without assuming an openly deviant identity. I think it's totally fair for us to fill in the blanks until he provides an explanation for this bullshit.
  • Albulena Imeri
    @terry: try girls who don't have any dignity.
  • TonyDice
    TonyDice wrote:
    The term 'sexpat' is as old as my gym towel

    Secondly, live and let live people. Commodification, as TF calls it, is a two-way thing. That girl may well see Terry as a big fat wallet, like he sees her as, well, a small slim piece of trim.

    Good for you and your feminist theory but for those guys who wear that "I'm a 21st century kind of guy and I'm offended by your attitude to women blah blah" ... a little wake-up call.

    Women aren't really interested in your noble defence of them. Sure they might say they admire you but deep down, think you're a bit of a PC wuss.

    Secondly, please don't throw terms like 'paedophile' it's such a lazy, incorrect insult.

    Terry did not show any interest in prepubescent children. He wanted a 'woman' more specifically an Asian woman and made no mention of age. He might have been searching for a woman his own age, who is Asian because he lives in Asia. Who the fuck knows? Not you.

    Use correct terminology when you libel someone at least. At worst, Terry is a ephebophile but is, as far as we know, more likely a teleiophile, while his intended beau will, it is hoped, have a predilection for the elderly, known as gerontophilia.

    Get your facts straight, I implore you, before you clamber upon your moral high horses and cast prudish aspersions
  • Alicia WANG
    Alicia WANG wrote:
    楼主已经被砸的不出来了。。。
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahahaha ... or maybe Terry had been contacted by those who are interested, and hence he does not care what we are saying here?
  • Albulena Imeri
    Secondly, live and let live people. Commodification, as TF calls it, is a two-way thing. That girl may well see Terry as a big fat wallet, like he sees her as, well, a small slim piece of trim.
    **********
    That's called prositution. Some ppl don't like it and that's it.
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:
    Thorstan does have a point here. I am actually studying the commodification of women in my Womens Studies class now and sex trafficking is a 9 billion dollar industry. Sexual tourism and the likes is a pervasive problem in Asia. Coercing young women to be with you from a position of white privilege can be wrong given the intentions of the person doing the coercing.

    Personally I agree with Thorstan if the guy is intending to come to Asia only to find a wife and then wisk her away like a white knight to a life of happiness in America. It is as if he would think himself a hero or something if he is only coming to do this in Asia. I think intentions may matter in this situation.

  • Joakim Berg Solum
    No, I think that's just called marriage....
  • TonyDice
    TonyDice wrote:
    Dafei, no it's not. not quite. it's less literal than that, and it occurs every time a woman marries a man because of the need for financial security and not love. Shit, it happens all the time in China, it's institutionalized. No offence to China, it's a global thing

    that's the way of the world, old son. none of yo business, though, really is it?
  • Albulena Imeri
    Tony: I am a strong believer for gender-equality and I think women should and could be more independent financially. That's just what I believe. Again, no offense.
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    Let's ignore the "young" part here for just a second and focus on the other issue...

    People are jumping down this guys throat because he wants an "Asian" girlfriend, clearly not because he cares about the cultural background (he doesn't care if it's China or Thailand, so obviously any cute yellow skinned black haired girl will work). What if it's just an aesthetic thing? I mean... you can't really fault a guy who only likes blonds, or only likes brunettes, so why attack someone who likes "Asian" girls? Is it just because he's going to the source instead of trying to find an Asian woman back at wherever his hometown is located?

    It almost sounds like you guys think it is wrong for a white person to exclusively be interested in Asian girls. What about someone like me, Chinese, but raised overseas, pretty much as westernized as you can become, but who is really only interested in Asian women and don't really care if they are Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Viet, whatever.

    Is this a form of racism?
  • Erik Aleksander Aas
    Well said Mr Dick...I mean Dice.
  • Albulena Imeri
    @jon: kind of, more like racial stereotyping. Like what the US government is doing to muslims.
  • Shane
    Shane wrote:
    Do it Terry. Come here, spend your money, die happy.

    Its better than preaching morality on forums.

    I am sure you posters feel the same twinge of jealousy that I do when I see a girl that I couldn't pull at a bar with a guy 20 years older than her.

    I think of it as motivation to work harder and make some cash! And also something to look forward to when I get older :)

    I will marry a girl I love, but I will make damn sure to have as much fun as I can before then!
  • Pete DeMola
    Pete DeMola wrote:
    At everyone who is defending the OP:

    Frankly, I take offense at the assumption that an entire racial group's thinking can be neatly boiled down to "do they think this or that?"

    Nothing against the guy, per say. I often unload at full clip others who exhibit such black/white thinking, like "why do all Chinese people do this?" and "all [insert ethnicity here] are [insert attribute here]."

    To me it demonstrates a lack of sophistication and awareness.

    NEWSFLASH:

    People are people and cannot be lumped into one category. All Americans aren't fat. All Britons do not have bad teeth. And all Asian females don't necessary have a thing for Caucasians, particularly middle-aged suburbanites.

    To think otherwise is at best, ignorant and at worst, fucking Jingoistic.

    With that said, I still think that the idea of a pudgy middle-aged chap booking a ticket and jet-setting to exotic Asia to land himself a nubile young thing is both putrid and denigrating to women everywhere.

    Sure, maybe he's got a thing for Asian women. But to me, it's just pathetic that one is going about looking for a partner like selecting a vintage wine or an interior decorator.
  • Shane
    Shane wrote:
    @Pete

    Thanks for teaching me jingoist :)
  • Shane
    Shane wrote:
    Saying that Chinese women (haven't been to the rest of asia) women, on the whole, like older men is not in anyway stereotyping. It is also not

    Its a fact.
    the money, the maturity, more free-time due to erectile dysfunction, whatever the reason may be.

    Ask older men: They will tell you finding a wife is exactly the same as finding a vintage wine, you gotta see what the pluses and minuses are. I think compatibility is the sole determinate of a successful of a marriage.
  • Pete DeMola
    Pete DeMola wrote:
    Don't you know we love us some good ol' fashioned witch hunts? The Interwebs is chock full of hypocritical, backstabbing chaps who live double-standard lives and love to point out others who aren't astute enough to cover their asses.

    With that said, I can't speak for the other contributors, but I stand by my assertions:

    1.) Asking if [all of ethnicity A] does [insert behavior A] is at best, poor taste and deserving of a tongue lashing;

    and

    2.) It's creepy to book a ticket to another country to pick up a life partner.

    Perhaps those are my own prejudices shining though as a 27-year-old American guy living and working in China, but I still think it's creepy.

    And I think we're entitled to sound off on that.
  • Åse Marie Strand
    Holy cow, this has spiraled. @ Dando, Pete and Thorstan: thank you. I absolutely agree with you all.

    @ Jon, I think you are looking at the "racism" comment the wrong way. I would refer to Pete DeMola's post above mine.
  • Peter Baird
    Peter Baird wrote:
    I think the fact that the OP has said absolutely nothing in his defence pretty much says it all.
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)
    ...

    Hahahaha ... like I had said before (but most had chosen to ignore ... hahaha) ... he had probably got the "applications" that he needed and no one is the wiser ...

    So, just curious ... Pete, do you have record if Terry might have come back online to read this since he had posted?
  • Albulena Imeri
    As a feminist, I want to see girls being more independent, not financially depending on an older, stable man and that's what I think. None of my business, but I am entitled for an opinion.

    People have different moral standards.

    Also I think some ppl are getting too defensive abt race. And race is not my subject.
  • Mohammed Abdi
    Mohammed Abdi wrote:
    u guys have your field day...
    the way i see it, the poster just raised a common question and ended up totally toasted....
    stereotype and wild guess blow it out of proportion.....
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    @Peter: Normally, people don't have to consider age or race because they seek romantic relationships within their peer groups. Even when age and race are not homogenous within those groups, they've still got something in common. Again, I ask: what could this guy possibly have in common with his hypothetical significant other, without having any subjective understanding of Chinese or Thai culture?

    You ain't got shit but maybes.

    ...

    But hey thanks for sticking up for the little guy. Thanks to people like you, we're getting closer and closer, every day, to creating a world where middle aged white dudes can form domestic partnerships with Asian women half their age. Oh wait. Tomorrow is today. And yesterday. Victory!

    My beef with is that when a person can deviate from the norm without assuming an openly deviant identity (and the prejudice and discrimination that comes with it), THAT. IS. A. PRIVILEGE.

    The way I see it, I get ridiculed for being the token nominally straight white guy feminist, even though I don't recite poetry or play acoustic guitar. I'm a ridiculous caricature. Take your best shot, you dirty cunts. That's the price we pay for being weird.

    The taxman has yet to collect on Terry.
  • Nadia Scheie
    Nadia Scheie wrote:
    Sister Feng!!!!
  • Åse Marie Strand
    Sorry Peter, but your post makes me laugh. Dando is one of the most well-spoken posters on this website, and your attempt at dissecting his words to discredit him earns an F+. You have missed his point completely and are twisting his words.

    @ Dando - keep on keeping on :)
  • A豆腐
    A豆腐 wrote:
    ¨You reveal your ignorance (older men have been forming domestic partnerships with younger women for millions of years)¨

    Homo sapiens appeared around 150.000 years ago, not millions.
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    Have your hangovers inhibited your sarcasm detectors, gentlemen?
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    Yeah, Peter, I would say that having something in common would be a moral issue when you're talking about something as serious and life-altering as marriage.

    Prime means "one," or most important. Please refer to the topic starter.

    If Asian and young are a person's most important factors for choosing a significant other, then that person has got some pretty fucked up priorities. We're not talking about casual flings. We're talking about domestic partnerships.

    I think that when I started referring to Terry as "the little guy" it was pretty clear that I was being sarcastic.
  • 随便叫兽
    随便叫兽 wrote:
    Peter: I suppose they do deserve one another. They also deserve to be mocked for being materialistic pieces of shit. And that's what we're here for. Welcome to the Internet.

    There's nothing wrong with people dating outside of their age or ethnicity if they're making an effort to gain subjective understanding of other generations or other cultures.

    Terry didn't show any intention of doing so and asked a stupid question conflating Thai and Chinese culture. HE R DUM LOL GET IT? Now you're just being a goddamned buzzkill. You're even worse than all those spooky PC liberal cryptofascists because you're sticking up for this undeserving, ignorant goon.

    You know Chinese. You probably "get it", with regards to the local culture. You know that marrying a foreigner is going to have social repercussions for the girl involved. What gives? Why are you so painfully butthurt?
  • A豆腐
    A豆腐 wrote:
    @Peter 卫环琅

    Be ¨men¨is belong to the Hominoidea superfamily?? good, write your radical ideas in an antropological paper and be famous. But until your theory be accept, don´t go for the forums saying that other people is ignorant for not know your theories. Eso es pasarse de listo un poco, no?

    Now I will try to explain you, what I learnt in the classes of antropology (not in the classes of feminism). Our -old men-, how you say, lived in small groups, hunters and harvesters, male usually hunters, and female harvesters. For be a hunter with the primitive weapons, be young and strong were the important things. For the studies of fossils they deduce this, and observing the current tribes, but maybe you have others piece of information (maybe the books of Robert E. Howard, Conan always meets old kings with young women around, maybe is this)

    you said ¨25 million years of biological history has a much more profound effect on people than three credits of Feminist Studies¨ and is very funny, better you wanted to say this: ¨Around 7000 years since the appeared of money and the big states have more profound effect on people than three credits of Feminist Studies¨.

    My english sucks, but read the beatiful english of Shakespeare.

    Gold? yellow, glittering, precious gold? No, gods,
    27 I am no idle votarist: roots, you clear heavens!
    28 Thus much of this will make black white, foul fair,
    29 Wrong right, base noble, old young, coward valiant.
    30 Ha, you gods! why this? what this, you gods? Why, this
    31 Will lug your priests and servants from your sides,
    32 Pluck stout men's pillows from below their heads:
    33 This yellow slave
    34 Will knit and break religions, bless the accursed,
    35 Make the hoar leprosy adored, place thieves
    36 And give them title, knee and approbation
    37 With senators on the bench: this is it
    38 That makes the wappen'd widow wed again;
    39 She, whom the spital-house and ulcerous sores
    40 Would cast the gorge at, this embalms and spices
    41 To the April day again. Come, damned earth,
    42 Thou common whore of mankind, that put'st odds
    43 Among the route of nations, I will make thee
    44 Do thy right nature.

    The money can change the ¨instincts¨ and the nature.

    You want defend this guy, i don´t care, but don´t use biology, antropology and sociology as excuse. Don´t hidden behind them.

    Have a nice day.
  • Åse Marie Strand
    @ Peter - I don't put much intellectual stock into someone who quote Eric Cartman.

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