Discussion » Dating & Romance » Dating Taiwanese vs Mainland/和台湾及大陆女孩谈恋爱

  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    I wanted to re-share this since I thought it was funny and I think any non-local who's dated a local before will appreciate it. Not my work, just my translation. Don't get too angry, it's all in good fun.

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    Part 1

    "Taiwanese man loves mainland woman"

    This already hasn't been news for a long time in modern 2009; why do Taiwanese men love mainland girls?

    No matter if they're single or married, out of 100 Taiwanese men who have a chance to come to the mainland, 101 will all fall in love with a mainland girl!


    In my own opinion...

    When I was in Taiwan, I had a few Taiwanese girlfriends... my feeling towards them... it made me feel like I wasn't a man.


    Because...

    1. Taiwanese girls apparently all think money is extremely important. (please, I'm just 20 something, how am I gonna have that much money).

    Mainland girls apparently won't see money as so important. (I don't know what it is that she likes about me either.)

    2. Taiwanese girls randomly carry brand-name designer bags all over ( one costs a few thousand or even 10-20k Taiwanese dollars).

    Mainland girls will even be happy to use a durable bag that they bought off a blanket on the street (maybe just 30 CNY)

    3. Taiwanese girls... if you're going out and don't have a car, no one's going to bother with you (Taiwanese girls will say it's best you [this part either says drive a 'Double B', or 'open double cunts', but I don't know what car a 'double B refers to...]

    Mainland girls... a bus and subway or train together. (Mainland girls will say taking a taxi is so expensive... if you can save some money then do it).



    4. Taiwanese girls. You take [her] to a 499/person buffet to eat seafood. (She'll think you don't have money)

    Mainland girls. You take her to "little tail sheep" hotpot, 150 RMB per table, two people still can't finish it. (She'll say we should save a bit).


    5. Taiwanese girls. When you have a vacation, she'll require you to take [her] shopping at a department store (tell you to buy things for her... because because the guys of the pretty little things next door are all buying).

    Mainland girl. When you have a vacation, she'll buy produce and take it home and cook for you. (tell you not to eat out much, restaurants are expensive and the food's not nutritious).


    6. Taiwanese girl wants to come [back] from her home [town]... she'll tell you what time to come to her house. (she'll say the train ticket is $350, so expensive, and she has so many clothes she can't carry them... (please, the gas money from Tapei to Taichung doesn't count as money?)

    Mainland girl wants to come back from her home town... She'll call you 3 days ahead of time from her home town's train station and tell you to to sleep early, because the train takes 3 days to get there, and in 3 days you'll see a girl carrying all kinds of bags. (They're all filled with the local specialties from her home town).

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    Part 2

    After the Taiwanese man and mainland girl are together for 1 year...

    1. Taiwanese women start busily making money to prepare for their marriage foundation... (she'll say to rely on the man's wages in marriage isn't sufficient).

    Mainland women start to give up their career, and prepare to be your full-time [house] wife and mother... (her [it says 'inertia', I guess it means 'inherent nature'] is starting to appear!



    2. Taiwanese women will start looking for the looking for the home that the two of you will buy together after you're married. (Struggle together to buy a home...)

    The mainland girl will start telling you that her parents house in their home town has a badly leaking roof.. (and tell you to to come up with money to build a new house in their outback hometown)



    3. During the Spri
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    3. During the Spring Festival

    Taiwanese girl will help you buy gifts to take home (a hint that you should take her home for your parents to see)

    Mainland girl will tell you to how many red envelopes to stuff to give to her parents and her [extended] family's kids (Because you're Taiwanese you can't break from tradition).



    4. After...

    When Taiwanese girl's on vacation, she'll go to the produce market with your mom. (starting to prepare for married life)

    Mainland girl will tell you her brother needs a registration fee to go to college, and wants you to help her out and pay tuition. (wow, that's not my kid).



    5. When you're getting married...

    The Taiwanese girl will say we should live at [your parent's] home first, and buy a home when we have enough money. (this is the right way too... your wife should learn the way of housekeeping from your mom).

    The mainland girl will say her parents want you to buy a home in Shanghai before you can get married... and when it comes time, bring her parents there to live together. (wow...I have to raise a whole pile of people if I'm marrying a wife).

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    After, this Taiwanese guy things, you can love a mainland girl, but you can't be infatuated with one [intended meaning is you can fuck a mainland girl, but can't love one], and definitely can't marry...

    Without saying two words, the Taiwanese guy takes advantage of the mainland girl being asleep [no, not for that... well, he probably does that first, if some guys I know from Taibei are any basis for stereotyping... hell who can blame them, I'd probably do it too if I was so small that I could rape a girl without her waking up]...

    And the very same night catches the last red eye back to Taiwan...

    On the airplane, in his heart he's thinking...

    That was close... I finally woke up...



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    Save Our Planet posted this a while ago in response to another post, but I thought I'd share it again since I translated it for a friend to read. Please excuse the quality of the translation, since I'm too lazy to proofread or correct pluralities and tenses. Also, my Chinese is terrible.
  • Judy
    Judy wrote:
    呵呵,看的我头晕!!!不过确实如此!!
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    I'll also include the original Chinese just for fun, now that I think about it:

    Part-1
    “台灣男人愛上大陸女人”
    這樣的情形在現今2009早不是新聞啦.為什麼台灣男人會愛上大陸女人?
    不管單身的台灣男人還是已婚的台灣男人,有機會來到中國大陸的台灣男人,100個台灣男人有101個都會愛上大陸女人!

    就我個人覺得...
    我以前在台灣也有交過幾個台灣女朋友.對台灣的女孩...總覺得自己沒有像男人的感覺.

    因為...

    1.台灣女孩好像都非常的看重金錢.(拜託我才20幾歲我哪來那麼多錢).
    大陸女孩好像並不會很看重金錢.(我也不知道她是看上我哪一點).

    2.台灣女孩隨便身上都提著名牌的包包.(一個幾千甚至1~2萬台幣ㄟ).
    大陸女孩隨便地攤買的包包耐用就好(好像一個才30元人民幣).

    3.
    台灣女孩...出去玩沒車沒人要理你(台灣女孩會說最好你要開雙B).
    大陸女孩...我們一起坐公交車和地鐵或火車.(大陸女孩會說”打的”<坐計程車>那麼貴...該省就要省).

    4.台灣女孩.你帶他去吃一人499的自助式餐廳都吃海鮮ㄟ.(她會嫌你沒行情)
    大陸女孩.你帶她去小尾羊火鍋一桌150元人民幣,2人都還吃不完.(她會說我們要省一點).

    5.台灣女孩.休假就要求你帶他去逛百貨公司(叫你買東西給她...因為隔壁的小美她男朋友都有買).
    大陸女孩.休假時會買菜來家裡煮東西給你吃.(叫你不要常吃外面的東西,外面的東西很貴又沒營養).

    6.台灣女孩從家裡要來...她會叫你幾點到她家載.(她會說坐火車車票要350元很貴而且衣服很多太重提不動...拜託台北-台中來回油錢不是錢嗎)
    大陸女孩從家裡要來...3天前就在家鄉火車站打電話叫你早點睡覺,因為火車要三天後才到.然後三天後你就會看到一位提著大包小包的小女孩.(包裡都裝著她在家鄉帶來的特產).

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    Part-2
    當台灣男人和大陸女人交往1年之後......

    1.台灣女人開始忙碌的準備賺錢為結婚基金做準備...(她會說結婚靠男人的薪水是不夠的).
    大陸女人開始放下自己的工作準備全心全意做你的賢妻良母...(人的惰性開始出現啦).

    2.台灣女人會開始要找你一起買以後2個人結婚後的房子.(一起奮鬥賺錢買房子喔...)
    大陸女人會開始跟你說她爸媽住在鄉下的房子漏水很嚴重...(叫你出錢在內地她家鄉建個新房子).

    3.過年時
    台灣女人會幫你買回家的禮物(暗示你該帶她回家給父母看啦)
    大陸女人會叫你要包多少紅包給她父母還有她家人的孩子(因為你是台灣人你不能失禮啊).

    4.之後...
    台灣女人放假有空就會陪你媽媽去逛菜市場.(開始為婚姻生活做準備囉)
    大陸女人會跟你說她弟弟讀大學要註冊費,要你幫忙繳學費.(哇...那又不是我兒子).

    5.要結婚時...
    台灣女人會說我們先住在家裡,等錢存夠再買房子.(這樣也對啦...媳婦還要跟婆婆學持家之道).
    大陸女人會說父母要我們在上海買間房子才可以結婚....到時候再把父母接來一起住.(哇…我娶一個老婆還要養一堆人喔).
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    之後這個台灣男人覺得,大陸女人只能愛上......卻不能迷戀…..更不能結婚...
    台灣男人二話不說趁著大陸女人還在睡覺...
    連夜搭最後一班的飛機回台灣...
    在飛機上心裡想...
    好險喔...我終於醒來啦...
  • Tonje Nygård
    Tonje Nygård wrote:
    这篇翻译麻烦你弄成简体字!我要给个还没醒的美国人看看!
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    ......
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    哈哈,我懒得弄……不过,你随便在谷歌输入"chinese simplified traditional converter"就找得到一些很方便的网上工具。
  • Alexander Myrstuen haukerud
    太深刻了。。。受教育受教育
  • Alexander Myrstuen haukerud
    申请转载了
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    哇,这个居然回来了。不是我写的,也不是原来在这里发表的人写的。我觉得中文版写得比我的烂翻译好一些。
  • Alexander Myrstuen haukerud
    关键,看完了,有冒冷汗的感觉。因为确实是这样的,相当附合实情。

    这让我想起了以前看过的,对上海女孩子的中肯评价,和台湾女生相近,一但组成家庭,她们也会成为支柱,而且不离不弃,非常可靠。
    这些特质,很值得珍惜。
  • 芝芝
    芝芝 wrote:
    and two of them both dumped the guy whoever wrote this
    that's the point
    taiwaness guys have no money, and no true love to offer
  • Yuki Inés
    Yuki Inés wrote:
    又见“女人”贴,总有热心人喜欢分析研究然后贴标签。不过这些选购女人的实用手册有时太靠不住,实战到头来要对付的是特例,人到头来就是人。
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    芝芝
    No, I don't think that actually is the point. Jojo has it right, that whether these are fair or not they're generally give a more accurate depiction than spending a year or two in Taiwan or PRC. At least, I think the mainland version is accurate, but the time I've spent in Taiwan is relatively short by comparison so I can't give an evaluation.

    As a correction and addition to your statement about Taiwanese guys:
    Some Taiwanese guys have a lot of money, the average Taiwanese guy has more money than the average mainland guy, and regardless of nationality, most guys? have no true love to offer. :-p
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    I have a ton of true love to offer to women who don't want it and very little to offer to women who do take it. I guess you can call it a limited and rarely replenishing resource.
  • 芝芝
    芝芝 wrote:
    I was just joking about Taiwanese guys, I only know one, he is not the kind of gentleman I like but I can't say he represents the whole taiwan island.

    Likewise, this post is not very correct and gives negative impression about mainland girls. I can't speak for others, but I will never ask my future husband to pay for my relatives' any big things, like entrance fee to college - unless he is a millionare, but in that case it is understandable, right?

    And most women I know won't do this to the men they love.

    so my point is , maybe there are such cases exist, that mainland women expect men to support them after marriage, but they can't represent all the mainland women. And I don't agree that mainland girls only good to be girlfriends instead of making good wives, this is dismeaning to us. I know some case that taiwanese girls dump their husband because they make less than wives, so they are considered to be useless.

    but again, this is just individual, not the whole case.
  • Joakim Berg Solum
    Refer to the case of some guy... I think his name was Ryan? A few months ago he posted here about trouble with his Chinese girlfriend. He wants to marry her but her parents will not allow it unless he buys them a house in their hometown first. Why should he have to buy his girlfriends parents a house??

    There is some seriously hard-core traditional womanizing thought going on here I believe for the parents to assume that the man is going to retire the woman from her job and support her family.
  • Minger
    Minger wrote:
    芝芝, fair enough. I wouldn't dream of saying that this should apply to everyone. Maybe 50% though, which makes it good enough to use as an entertaining generalization.

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