Come on guys... everyone loves a cougar!
Why I prefer Cougars:
1) more experience, They know how to treat men
2) Maturity level, generally more wise and realistic about life and love
3) Beauty, I am not one for the bony-assed malnourished chinese model-type.
4) financial stability, If people my age have enough money to do the things that I like to do they are typically either 1) Workaholic 2) From a rich family (and generally spoiled) or 3) 被保养
5) Studying Chinese, Call me selfish, thats fine. But its damn-hard to find a girl who can like a white guy without having motivation. I like smart and motivated women. But these women my age are typically hell-bent on studying English. And if they don't want
to study english, then they typically are rich, or dumb.
I have always been one to hang out with people older and more intelligent then myself, unfortunately we are tied by biologic clocks and societal norms so a long-term relationship with older women is pretty much unobtainable.
PS: I know this post seems to have a lot of generalizations, but its hard to sum up almost 3 years of experience in China into a post this short. I really enjoy China and the Chinese people.