Discussion » Dating & Romance » 你能不能快一点决定,对我说我爱你?

  • wrote:
    一个人静静的听着那首老歌《恋人未满》,不知不觉间眼眶就湿润了。

    以前年少轻狂的爱的如痴如醉,不顾老师家长的毅然反对。拿了家里几百块钱就敢和曾经以为要过一辈子的男朋友“私奔”,逃离这个容不得我们相爱的的世俗世界。那时的眼泪那时的拥抱那时的亲吻,一直以为是会陪伴我们到白发苍苍的时候。脑海里面浮现出每一个前任男友的脸庞和微笑,他们说年少不懂真爱。可是现在我看过去,谁能说我们的感情不是真真的呢?

    用整颗心去温暖对方,用最甜蜜的笑容去对方迎接,用最朴实的日记写下对彼此的思念。虽然喜欢的类型现在已经换了可能已经两三次。但是以前的他们/她们确是那么的独一无二.....伤害过我的被我伤害过的,爱的太深却因为现实无法在一起,性格没有办法融和的每一个他,再次相见会是怎么样?或许有的变成了混混,有的在职场打拼,有的和我一样还在高校不紧不慢的混着日子。不管怎么样,现在的我都好想念他们。曾经让我心神不宁的他,让我开怀大笑的他,让我心碎不已的他。我希望那个曾经属于我的肩膀和怀抱能再一次给我一个朋友的接纳,让我能再次重温下那无忧无虑的美好年华,能让我再次体验一下单纯无邪的恋爱回忆......


    为什么现在不能像当初那样说爱就爱?我要的只不过一份简简单单的感情,我不要婚姻我不要金钱我也不要浪漫不要车房。我只是想我累和感到孤单的时候那一刻,有一个人会抱抱我,让我知道某颗心有属于我的一个角落,让我的精神和心灵有归属的地方。可是为什么为什么?20岁的我要的和16岁要的可是一样的东西啊!是别人变了还是我变了?

    如果你爱我,请你快点告诉我。此刻我真的需要很多很多的爱......



    再向前一点点,我就会点头
    再冲动一点点,我就不闪躲
    你还等什么,时间已经不多
    再下去只好只做朋友








    ——————孤独作祟而已,小女去洗洗睡了,各位晚安好梦。
  • Miriam Pedersen
    I would never say "I love you" to a girl. Making such an empty statement only displays your naivety and dependency. And being dependent is a sign of weakness. As a man you should never let the woman you really love feel that you are weak. If you do so, you loose attraction and that is the first step to a failed relationship.

    So never say "I love you". Instead, show your love by direct action. That's the trick.

    Cheers.
  • .
    . wrote:
    一样的困惑。。。

    很想要简单的爱情,你爱我,就告诉我,不要技巧,不要游戏,不要试探,不要自保。如果不是爱,那也告诉我,让我知道该如何处理这段相处的时光。
  • .
    . wrote:
    @ HumphreY,

    I HATE those tricks! Yes, I do agree that tricks can make a relationship more interesting. But on the other hand, it is not a f**king game if you do love that person.

    If you cannot be honest and direct in front of the person you love, then when can you be? And if you cannot show that person who you really are, won't you be afraid that she/ he may not love the real you and may leave you someday after they find out the truth?

    I think people should be honest with each other if they really care about the relationship. I am not saying you should tell him/her everything. You always can keep your own privacy and sometimes white lie is the best solution. But telling him/her your real feeling, that is a very important step to let each other get closer.
  • G
    G wrote:
    那一刻的无忧无虑,那种单纯无邪的恋爱.....多美妙多美好多么的令人期待....或许会在心头闪现,但永远不要期待。期待越高,失望越大。曾经的肩膀和怀抱是不是旧梦的重温,不知道.......

    有些事情,一旦过去了,是永远回不去的。人永远不能踏进同一条河流.....

    或许,顺其自然是最好的方法。该来的会来,不该来的,应该也会离去。

    Let the nature run...ladies and gents, when you want to say I love you to some one who you are in love with, just do it...
  • Miriam Pedersen
    I do unstood your feeling and your posting. But like millions of chinese girls in similar situation, your thoughts are just wishful thinkings and far beyond what reality can offer. If the text truely describes how you feel and how you perceive life, then I already feel pity for any Mr. Niceguy who is going to voice "I love you" to you.

    Sorry, but a woman (or better girl) who expects to be told "I love you" the same way like when she was 16, has simply no idea about life and relationship. Such a woman only shows that she is afraid of taking responsibilities and has no love for herself or her present life (therefore seeking someone else for help). But how are you suppose to return love if you don't even love youself? Oh sorry, I see, you don't really intend to return love at all. You only want to consume love. But selfishness has never ever got anyone far, particularly not in a relationship as grown-ups, which is about mutual respect and less about unconditional love like in your teenager time.

    Cheers
  • wrote:
    看了你这个帖子,我直伤感。现在16岁的感情也不是那么纯粹了吧,不要伤心,不要难过,有我们来爱你,多听听孙燕姿的遇见,我遇见谁会有怎样的对白,我等的人还在多远的未来。我们现在所遇见的,是在错误的时间遇到可能是正确的人,当我们稳定下来,成熟起来,有了稳定的工作,走了稳定的生活,那时,离我门的幸福也不远了。(拿手机发的,可能语无伦次)
  • Yuki Inés
    Yuki Inés wrote:
    如果要说曾经,我只能想起一句话,按下删除键,一片空白。

    所以我现在繁复得,不知说什么是好。
  • SaSa♣Yi
    SaSa♣Yi wrote:
    well, you just need to look for three things.... in a man..

    1. How he takes care of himself, will be the same as you
    2. Does he love family, he will treasure you as a childrens mom
    3. Does he do good things in life, he will then make a good life

    but many grils can't ...they end up old, lonely, divorced
    someday, they will go extinct, lost the feeling of a woman
  • Gary Bao
    Gary Bao wrote:
    interesting....
  • Celine Dalen
    Celine Dalen wrote:
    我也是被标题吸引了~~
    也许女生们看到后都有同感!!~
  • Miriam Pedersen
    女人如做征爱方面的思考, 起点往往就是一时的感触. 从这点看来我并没有误会你.

    懒得在我公司笔记本上打中文. So that's why I type in english.

    By the way, 语言 is overrated :)
  • Nicky Wong
    Nicky Wong wrote:
    if he havnt made a decision means he already made one.
  • Matt
    Matt wrote:
    一个永恒的话题。。。
  • Olav andreas Larsen
    同意!现在很难找到一段类似于初恋时的那种怦然心动感觉了。不知道是因为很多东西都不单纯了,还是因为人不单纯了。。总是来去匆匆。。
  • Efaney Lee
    Efaney Lee wrote:
    阅!!!

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