Okay, it's a kind & nice reminding to all the Chinese ladies (like me) - Do not sleep with foreigners. But who cares? Life is all about experience, and there is sadness & happiness in every life, so why limit ourselves. Just do whatever we what, enjoy that moment, find ourselves in our inner heart, then smart ladies will get an answer what they will do with their lives. A mature society is that people have the freedom to make their own choice, and decide their own value of life.
But I was thinking of something quite seriously, how do we (including myself) think out of the box, focus on something different. How can we challenge the traiditional thinking model? How can we be more innovative & creative with our life, instead of following the traiditional Chinese values?
I watched a TV program about a Germany guy who is teaching in a remote villege in China for 10 years without getting any income, as he believes his action is contributing to the change of the world. But what can we do? Do we care about the society? Then what is our action?
As a marketing person, I'm contacting different people everyday, but shamefully I see most of the Chinese are just following the traiditional values and thinking model, and I'd like to know more about something/someone different, that will bring a fresh air to this world.
I'm not encouraging people to challenge the tradition, but just hope we are brave and honest to think out of our normal box.