fucking quote you @Daniel
[So, does this mean I can't go on dates with girls or have sex with girls? I don't lie to people, I don't try to pretend that I'm here to stay and if things look like they're going towards being closer, I do say very clearly I have no intention of staying in
this country and therefore no intention of finding a girlfriend.
What's interesting about this topic is that according to the comments in this thread, this somehow makes me a bad man. ]
I usually make this clear during the date, with storys and that kind of stuff, but women tend to over hear that. Sometimes I say it clearly, and sometimes, yes I am not Confucius and not the best person, I dont tell it. Usually then it is either obvious that
its only fuck or I think I like the girl more and can imagine something like lover.
I mean c'mon, there is not only FB and BF/GF there are things in between as well.... for example the term Lover, friendly fuck, "not relationship (NR)", open relationship (OR)... are there more?
C'mon, if you cant make a man love you, Amy, than its not only his fault, maybe you need to change something in your life as well.
I say it again, dont lie to yourself. But who am I to give you advice.
really interesting views, I take that in my worldview. thanks
the "thing" started with cuddle-buddys in a camp, went to "make out"-buddy, then more and more there was a little connection, then FB
(and yes, I had an other girl back then as well - and no, this was not in China, it has nothing to do with china, but with modern society --> generation MTV )
went over to "FB with trust" (called "not relationship" or "lover"), went over to complete trust.
I loved her, she knew it, but I never told her, but SHE answered, when I aksed her to be together, that she doesnt feel ready yet, and when she asked me, I didnt felt ready either (anymore).
but I loved her because, I just was able to trust her and still I had eyes for other girls as well.
It wasnt the loveholic love it was the much deeper love, the trust love.
Haha soulstriptease in a public forum FTW.
Love=trust, that someone is here for you, even if he/she would have sex with an other person at this very moment when you call him/her and he/she would pick up the phone for you, if he/she knew, that it is because you have some kind of problem at the moment.
now you all can rip me to pieces and call me shabi