Discussion » Dating & Romance » 谈恋爱的条件 the condition of love/relationship

  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    刚看到一句话,觉得很对--
    谈恋爱的条件,就是让自己从精神到物质,从灵魂到肉体,因为有了对方都比从前的状态更好。否则何必呢? ---否则何必呢?? 何必啊

    the condition of love relationship, is that with your lover, u would feel better than before in such ways: from the spirit to the material(?), from the soul to the body...if not, why do we need it? ---bad translation...haha
  • wrote:
    i think if people really love each others,dont need any conditons.
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    MM 我认为那话很有道理, 如果互相很爱对方,必然是从灵魂到精神都有更好的状态,那就谈恋爱,如果是互相折磨,何必呢?
  • wrote:
    我现在觉得那些东西太虚幻了,是我太实际了,那样的,太少了!
  • Annie Ann
    Annie Ann wrote:
    本来还有点想法的,都被蜗居给打击了,真是的!!
  • wrote:
    哈哈 蜗居比我还现实,哈哈
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    蜗居已经上升到了结婚的层次了吧...我没看,大概也了解一些

    不过我觉得如果两个人在一起, 在精神上至少应该状态比以前好,比如说每天都高兴, 物质上,不说好一些,至少也不要坏, 否则真是何必呢

    比如现在单身,想出去玩就出去玩, 想不吃饭就不吃饭,如果找了一个人, 不但每天心情不好,还老吵架,或者增加很多负担, 何必谈恋爱呢?还不如一个人 ,所以说何必呢!
  • Annie Ann
    Annie Ann wrote:
    理解理解,我也是这么想的。
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    :)
    理解归理解,大家还是做不到 ...哈哈
    警醒警醒.... :P
  • kö
    wrote:
    说道这个我就会 一头空啊···杯具····
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    最近杯具流行啊....

    看来这话起不到作用 不过能对已经分开的人做一点心理安慰
  • wrote:
    一个人挺好的,哈哈
  • Xx
    Xx wrote:
    毛主席说,不以结婚为目的的恋爱就是耍流氓
    lily说,以结婚为目的的恋爱就是搞阴谋。
    姐不想耍流氓,也不愿意搞阴谋
    just joking around~~
  • MiLo
    MiLo wrote:
    应楼上,进来参观学习。
  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    顶楼上~

  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    First of all , he must have good personality even if not perfect. :P that's all.
    (no more second).................lol
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    哈哈 lily说得好 。。。。搞阴谋。。哈哈哈
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    @Blair i dont think its important that he must have good personality..becuase different people have differnet definition of "good personality"....different people fit different personality....the piont is when you come together, you both feel better than when you were single.
  • Renée Lok
    Renée Lok wrote:
    我看过一段话,它说:"不要说你爱他/她不需要任何条件,那你当然会希望他/她能一直在你身边,不离开你.(这就是条件)。不要说父母爱你没条件,假设你不是他们的儿子或是女儿,看他们会不会还像现在一样对你好。"所以每个人爱别人都是有条件的。
  • Mathew Abisai
    Mathew Abisai wrote:
    the girl must be flexible to all different kind of situations and she must be forgiving so that i give time to myself and blame myself if i do something wrong.....most important she must be appreciative cos i am sure i will be working so hard for her happiness in every kind of way
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    Renee 我觉得你说的条件 也不是什么真正意义的条件..... 你爱他/她,未必需要他/她一直在你身边, 即使他/她不在身边,爱他的人还是在他

    爱情和亲情再不一样,有一点也是一样,它带来的感觉是相互的, 必然应该互相得到美好的感觉..

    我怎么觉得偏题了呢
    帖子发的时候只想说在一起如果不好何必呢? 不是想说条件...
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    @ FMS : if you think its so hard to make her happy, and she is your burden, why not to be single again?
    the love is: when you make her happy, you feel more happy!
  • wrote:
    Its easy to say these things but its hard to do these things i think.
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    if not, then no need to come together.
  • Mathew Abisai
    Mathew Abisai wrote:
    @Min I dont think it's hard...that's just how it should be
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    hmmmmmm
    ok
  • NN
    NN wrote:
    能讓彼此都感覺到真實
    我想這應該就是拍拖的條件了
  • Winnie
    Winnie wrote:
    我不耍流氓也不搞阴谋,政府能给点单身补助不?
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    @Nina: 感应到了真实是一回事, 相处以后在一起又是另一回事了
    :P
  • 爱谁谁
    爱谁谁 wrote:
    通知Winnie 补助已经发给搞阴谋的了 ...
  • Zoé
    Zoé wrote:
    真正的喜欢对方,可以为他放弃一切

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