hahahaah...girls with dreams, trying to make themselves feel good...and just displaying their weakness...its not working
then...what should we do if cannot fall in love with anyone *___*
Stay with pet ?
Hmmm... seems wouldnot better to say "L" lightly. So what's the good occasion to say it? Why donot we say it to our beloved in time? Life is too short. If you love him/her at this moment, then tell him/her. Tell him/her your true feeling.Why not? :)
Yes, I agree with you dingdang. you must say it and it's from your heart inside... But someone always says " I like you" not "I love you". I think it's sooo different. Your beloved expect you would say " L" to him/her, however you just say "I like you". Then you hurt him/her in some way...
Well How about we teke this dialogue away from the saying I love you on first, second, or third date and toward some funny things you really should not say on a date.
Like, " Damn I am exausted from that orgy I attended last night! Those brazillian guys are really aggresssive!" HAHA Do not say that whatever you do.
How about, "I am a serial manogomist." "I think i may have mental problems." "My ex this my ex that." "Lets finish these drinks so we can get this overwith!"
Ok your guys turn..... be creative..... lets make this one fun and make people smile!
"So, how do you feel about group-sex?"
"By the look of you, I think you should order a salad"
"So, shall we go back to your place? I'm currently homeless"
Oh, and the one that I've heard a few times and always puts me on guard in China:
"I want to get married soon"
i don't know , any way they say i love you and they still leave me at the end, what the hell am i care for ? what the hell "i love you" use for, for fun maybe ^^
Oh wow. They tell you they love you and then leave you without anykind of legitimate reasoning? Well that does not sound like love at all. What kind of guys are these? That sounds really painful and confusing.
Next time a guy tells you they love you, you should ask him what he loves about you, or, "Why do you love me?" How about, "What do you want from me?" You can also say, "You don't love me you just love the idea of having a cute lay whenever you want." If you say one of the above then you can watch his reaction and tell if he is for real or if he is a fake. If he is a fake he may just leave you alone and not mess with you anymore. A genuine love should stick around and be offended that you would think that of him. You should be able to tell for real after this. However, you should know that love is not necessarily forever all the time. It can be real and only last a year of two maybe even shorter. It is an emotion. However, if you can find someone who will accept your changes and you can accept theirs then you can be together in love for a long time. Good luck.
If you wish to learn something about love read some books by Eliane Hatfield. She is a pioneer on the topic of love in Psychology and also has some good publishings on the psychology of love and sexuality. This should help you become a super reader of men and their true intentions with you. You can read intent if you pay attention. Men are not as good as women are at this, so you should be able to read them without them noticing. Use your girl power!!!
Agree with Blair, this is one of the rules of the game in the seduction, at least in Spain.
In my country, the girls learn very fast that the words -I love you- in the first days are nothing, pure spam, if you are a smart girl in spain, then your attention is focus in actions, not in the words (there are many pretty words and sentences in spanish, they are like the songs of sirens).In Spain, We begin our relations young, between 14-16 the worlds of sex and love open for us, but the problem is that the girls have romantic movies in mind and the guys porn movies, the same words, the same languaje, but differents meanings. The guys learn that the magic words are -I love you-, if they can say them, then they obtain all that they want. In the end, the girls with the broken heart are immune to the words. There are many Don Juanes in Spain.
So, in adults relations, If one weekend you meet some person and three days later you are saying - I love you-, then your words don´t have much valour, because they are very easy of obtain, so maybe you are a ¨needed¨, a desperate of love or affections... This is the meaning in Spain, and in all countries where is to easy hear pretty things, when you live between love and sexual spam.
And like a proof, I have some friends (women and men) that they have used to say - I love you- for break a relation of some days, the other person run very fast.
Becareful: Te quiero, I love you is not 我爱你
“ make he feel confused about himself and he want start know you more”
I've heard that before, too. I guess it doesn't mean that he doesn't know u too much,instead it means he is still not sure about relationship with u, whether to start or not. But at the same time he want to keep you by his side.
What should I do is the most difficult question to answer in the world.
Since whether he is playing around, or the opposite he is quite responaible that he wanna think clearly about you two, the truth is something can only be observed and felt by yourself. Any suggestion is just based on other's experience then might be misleading.
So give him some space and time, let him think about clearly. but at the same time try to feel what he really want, playing around or sth else..then decide by urself.
Ok....my suggestion seems really nonsense but that's true.
I think what u need to do no matter u r in love or not is to be yourself. When u want to say I LOVE U, just say it. u may get hurt, but u experienced and u learned.
It's funny why women talk about love all the time when men talk about making love all the time.