Discussion » Health & Fitness » Let us talk about sex

  • Olive Zhu
    Olive Zhu wrote:

    I put a thread yesterday about cycling, but only 3 people were interested in this topic, how about we talk about sex, where do you want to have sex?in the kitchen,in the sofe, or on the ground,on the back seat of the car?have you tried?

  • Undermoonlight

    In bed, for God's sake...what's wrong with you people?

  • Winnie
    Winnie wrote:

    hmmm, only in bed?

    you know those kind of toliet that in public where you can not see into from outside but from inside you can see the outside? ;)

    i wish there are houses like that in the forest:D

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Bed, sofa, the floor in the lounge room (with carpet), the back of the car, shower, bath, toilet in a coffee shop, toilet in the airport ... probably too mild compared to most of you?

  • Jem Lim
    Jem Lim wrote:

    do you have gloryholes in beijing too? ahahaha...

    *for those who don't know what it is : http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Glory_hole_(sexual_slang)

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Oh, oh, I have seen a Japanese porn about this ... the bike was installed with an extra "joystick" ...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    My mother had been a teacher for 30+ years, and I have grown up to agree that some form of discipline or punishment help bringing up kids ... just compare the kids from Japan against the kids in China ... who has better manners and shows more respect?

     

  • Peter Baird
    Peter Baird wrote:

    2003 on a Greyhound bus bound from Tijiuana to San Diego. A few hours in Tijiuana will inspire you to try all kinds of crazy things.

  • Pete DeMola
    Pete DeMola wrote:

    Alex
    Japanese kids imprision themselves in suburban basements for years.

    Hikikomori

    Peter Baird
    Hope a donkey wasn't involved.

  • Creatstar
    Creatstar wrote:

    I think I can understand you. every body who thinks before talks, will agree with you. We Chinese still have a long way to go to catch up with the developed countries in many aspects. If we cannot face the gap, we would never rebuild the great honor of the race again.

  • MoMo
    MoMo wrote:

    olive,this time u win~~~

    btw,i saw your thread yesterday~~~I think...maybe many people saw..just didnt say anything~~~even they felt that thread was nice~~~

  • NN
    NN wrote:

    very funny reason to make up this even,Olive   ^^

  • Webslave
    Webslave wrote:

    Under the moon light would the best, haha. i mean why not off the bed? sometimes you cant affort the luxury of a proper clean and intimated bedroom but life still going on right?

    - starry starry night at a open fire place somewher in nowhere

    - on the back seat, parked in a dark corner on the stree at 3am (a granny went by while car windows were all fogged up)

    - in the trunk with back seats lay down, parked where ever there is nobody expected to stop by (got caught by a foster though before the actual action, but thought one was looking for a spot to dump garbage LOL)

    - in the spare room of a friend where one had to go through the friends bedroom (you'd stay the whole night there cause you didnt want to disturb the friend and his girlfriend, even if you had to pee very badly)

    - in the hunter's cabin, you know those wobbly wooden things build high up at the edge of the woods where you fear to fall down anytime (those places are designed for gun men with voyeur glasses to enjoy their lonesome Jaeggermeister mix with the scent of fire powder LOL)

    - on the grass within a tiny public park at 4am surounded by bushes and trees, one can only do this when drunk, i guess

    - more mellow variations would be in the office, in the bath tub, under shower, on the floor carpet, sofas are also nice

    if one cant land in a proper bed but still want things to get done, one has to count on the creative mind :)

    @ Älëx
    LOL bro!

    @ 叮噹 about jap kids
    you properly overlooked the fact that they dont tread their kids like little emperors or emperesses just because of the family planing policy.

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    No, I have not ...

    I dont think the one-child policy is the "real" cause, however, it did bring forth many one-child families ... the current generation of little kings and queens (and the future ones) are the results of lacking discipline at home and parents not setting up the proper examples ... I doubt any parents in their right mind would tell their kid(s) it is OK to spit, but the kid(s) look up to them as example and learnt from their behaviour.

     

  • Webslave
    Webslave wrote:

    well, i see the problem rather in their grand parents than the parents themselves. I know many of the thos one kid families and when ever the parents want to teach their kid a lession some elder come along and make things to be done differently, the other reason is that those parents mostly dont have enough time to spend with their kids but those grand parents have more than time. Plus most elder ppl in China are not well educated, they have been strict with their kids back then and dont want to do that to their grand kids and also dont have better knowledge about education for modern age kids. So all in all it is still a one kid family policy problem, of course i m not against family policy, what i am saying is, there is a lack of understanding how to educate a child by the elders.

    my grand ma has been a kinder gardener, so she knew well how to tread us kids at situations and she was even more strict to us then our parents, in the end that was a good thing and i m thankful for that.

    well, i guess this is a huge topic to be deepened into, above is just one sufacial opionon of mine on this, of course there are a lot other factors playing a role why it has become this way. Let's maybe continue in another thread.

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    打在儿身,痛在老人家的心, or something like that anyway ... I know exactly what you mean ...

    When I was a kid, we had an old servant in the family, she had been there before I was born and she looked after me and my sister ... whenever I did something wrong and my mother wanted to discipline me, she would be on my side, sometimes even cried ... both my grandmothers have lots of kids and grandkids, so she was like the grandmother that I never got close to ...

    I agree that this is a big topic ... I just hope that someone will wake up to the problem, and China will see a more mature and smarter generation in future ...

     

  • Webslave
    Webslave wrote:

    well, now the first one-kid-generation (post 80's) will soon be facing all those problems as they will play the main carring role of the working society when they turn to mid 30 which means 上有老下有小, let's see how competitive and competent they act by then. anyway, maybe it is never too late to wake up and pull oneself together. good luck, kings and queens!

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    I keep my fingers crossed ... and I will also keep praying, but God does not listen to me much, hahaha

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    "sb"? "respection"? *sigh* ... my apology for being poorly educated, Shino, but could anyone tell me what is "respection"? ... 

    About two or three months ago, the direct flight between China and Taiwan started doing business, and lots of Chinese tourists had gone to visit the little brotherly island for the first time ... one particular idiot decided that it was a memorable event and so marked his name on one of the tourist spots, and then took a photo or something like that ... that little incident had certainly made him very famous ...

    People, regardless of race, color and education etc, tend to only see the faults in others who are different ... e.g. Chinese would see faults in other race and countries and vice versa, and if we cut it even finer, different province/city within China has some stereotype against people of other province/city ... e.g. it is a well known fact that Beijing people (or general northern folks) dont like Shanghai, because they think SH are more cunning and hence untrustworthy, so when I told me friend that my origin is (supposedly?) Shanghai, they just said that I am not the typical Shanghai ... I can only "haha" to that ...

    So, while no one can stop pointing fingers at others, we could perhaps make this a better world if we all look into the mirror ... I myself would be a cheerful little idiot if no one in China carelessly throws rubbish (onto the subway rail, out the bus window etc) as well as spits on the ground, oh oh oh, and smoking in non-smoking area ... my fingers are still crossed ...

  • Shania
    Shania wrote:

    三人行,必有我师。择其善者而从之,其不善者而改之。

    叮噹 , seems like you know more chinese. If you don't know what these chinese meaning please tell me. I will translate for you.

    So i think we will be appreciate that you can tell more and correct "respection" if you KNOW. I think it is a polite way. As, yes, i am chinese. So english is not my mother tongue. Sorry about that.

    If you are living in BJ too. oh yes. you are. So you are luck. This is a good and interesting city. I love there, through i come from samll town of other province. I had to say you are gentleman. Aren't you? You are pointing finger that sides China still need to improve and correct. We all thank you for talking about this.

    Yes. I know these many bad quality and habits still in China. I also hate that. But i can do that is at least, i do my right way. If i have that big influence to other people, i would be hahahahaha happy for a long time. I believe many chinese friends in here will do that.

    Finally, thanks for you still fingers crossed. Wish you are happy in China.

     

     

     

     

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahaha ...

    Thank you Shania, both my Chinese and English are really not very good ... having said that ... most of us have been taught to learn from the "good guys", and do what the "good guys" do, but the evil half in me often led me to learn from the "bad guys" ... so, no, I am afraid I am hardly a gentleman ...

    I am sorry that I cannot tell you anything about "respection", since I dont know this word. However, I am glad to know that you are not one of those 13 (or 14?) billion ... let's hope there is more and more like you, my fingers are still crossed.

     

  • Shania
    Shania wrote:

    Hehehehehehehe...

    Ok. "Bad guy" gentleman. Somtimes, "Bad" is not bad. I think it is cute, changing, resisting... whatever. I am also have that "bad" girl quality. haha. But i am real. You too.  Maybe.

    "However, I am glad to know that you are not one of those 13 (or 14?) billion ... " -- i don't know why you say that. Maybe you don't finish my previous writing. I AM CHINESE. And i am proud of being chinese.

    Let's hope many people like you finger crossed to make a wish that China will be more  and more beautiful, cute, brave, strong...haha.

     

     

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    男人不坏,女人不爱 ... those were the words I have learnt from many Chinese ladies I have met ...

    When I wrote "I am glad to know that you are not one of those 13 (or 14?) billion" ... I meant that I was happy to know that you are not one of those 13 million who exhibits any of those bad habits ...

    I am Chinese by blood, and I am very proud of the history and heritage of our ancestors, but like many other great cultures and countries, we have our shares of ups and downs, and there are things that will forever be "black spots" in our history ...

     

  • Shania
    Shania wrote:

    Oh. I got it. You are right.

    古人云:“不打不相识”。呵呵。nice to meet your " with chinese blood".
     
    It seems that we didn't talk about this topic sex but for others. Haha. Sorry. Olive.
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    干嘛现在的女孩子都是"打打杀杀"的...呵呵...

     

  • Olive Zhu
    Olive Zhu wrote:

    Shania,

    It doesn matter,everybody is free to talk about anything they want. Actually i dont like the topic i raised.

  • Olive Zhu
    Olive Zhu wrote:

    Actually i was a little bit drunk when i post this thread.It is just very simple question but maybe it is too open to answer.I read the thread here from time to time, i am confused how sex relate to kids, or one kid policy?Anyway i would like to see where this topic going. Probablly BANANA will be the next after I started with APPLE, and we talked about ORANGES :))

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Apples? Bananas? Oranges? Let's talk fuit ... I love durian (榴莲) ...

  • Peter S 李贝勒

    hehe Olive, take one more glass and let s talk about dirty things and laugh hehe. and about the places, i had a GF who cannot do sex in bed, she always wanted outside, so for sure, we tried all the room of house, then stairs of building, street, hutongs, cars, parks, shop and... i always figured out the way from clubs to home, to find the place that she would like... hehe but sorry i don t do in toilette, i don t like chinese toilette, it s not really excited me, smell bad. It was a funny experience, but, for myself, i like the bed comfortable and big with clean sheet who smell good. Simple sober efficient hehe

    ah and durian is awfull...

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Durian is the king of fruits, whereas mangosteen is the queen ... so how can fruit of such imperial status be awful? Hahaha ...

    I dont like doing it in the Chinese toilet either ... I was seeing my girl off at the airport, and she was hot enough to become adventurous, so we sneaked into toilet in the empty new wing of the airport ...

  • Peter S 李贝勒
    cool hehe
  • Undermoonlight

    Animals~~

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    hey you men are all experts of straying from the point :)

    i've tried lots of places, like back seat, theater, public restroom, empty classroom, cropland... yeah it's fun and really exciting. but after all, bed is the most comfortable place for sure.

    now im interested in doing it at an private open air spa/hot spring, any recommendation?

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    common, open air hot spring is not a TUB~ maybe i've watched too much jap's porn...

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    got it! the tv series is called   宋飞传 in China~

  • Chiyenga Ronald

    On the plane in the toilet is the best

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    The "mile high club" huh?

     

  • Olive Zhu
    Olive Zhu wrote:

    Chiyenga:did you try?was there any snake inside :)

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    My sweet Olive, is that a trick question? hahahaha

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    Chiyenga: may the God provide some rhythmical turbulences when you're doing it~~

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    YEAH! a environment that can remove almost all element of sexual intercourse, left only love making:)

    But there isnt any in China as far as i know...maybe I had to pay a visit to the isle in the east some day

    on the plane in the toilet...maybe that of airbus A380 can work...

  • Olive Zhu
    Olive Zhu wrote:

    everybody seems very experienced

  • Fahad Hashmi
    Fahad Hashmi wrote:

    @ Shino

    u think that contraception is good for the female partner....??

    ya i ok for onec or twice... but it could b dangerous....

  • Fahad Hashmi
    Fahad Hashmi wrote:

    Shino

    m final year student of medicine so i think i can tell u the whole STORY...:p

    u think the only complication u get during sex is getting pergent... :O don't u think use of contraception can have some side effects.Like headaches, acne, increased blood pressure, breast tenderness, , weight gain and depression .N it also may shorten the number of days of bleeding during the menstrual period.

    n u think the only use of condoms is to prevent pergnancy.I think the main purpose is to prevent STD's which r quite common in China now.

    if u wanna prevent from getting u can use other methods like there r some hormones n other stuff.

    but in my opinion safe sex is best for both partners.

     

  • Ligang
    Ligang wrote:

    hmmm,...............

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    I am sure it is spread more than just this forum ...

     

  • Undermoonlight

    Actually, sex is the most boring thing to talk about--better resort to action~~~

  • Shin
    Shin wrote:

    sexual adventures, i had alot. Mainly in cars everywhere!

  • John
    John wrote:
    The floor, the stairway, her man's car, kitchen counter, etc....
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:

    If the feeling is right anywhere can be a good place to do the deed if your partner is special to you.  By far the most erotic place I ever experienced was in the rainforest under a water fall.    Nature is always a great audience!  I agree with the comment above, "Quality over quantity!" 

  • Sophie
    Sophie wrote:

    it doesn't matter where the place will be as far as we both are in the mood for making lovely beautiful babies:p

  • Winnie
    Winnie wrote:
    hey, Undermoonlight..maybe some of us that are talking about it do not have anyone to resort to action to
  • Kelsangmetok Wu

    it's been a long time since i last had sex in bed..

  • Danny
    Danny wrote:
    shower together then sex in the bathroom~~~
  • Daniel
    Daniel wrote:

    Bathroom sex is pretty funny: You spend the majority of the time trying to find a decent, comfortable position and then eventually go back to the bedroom after the novelty of uncomfortable sex wears off!

    I think at some point I'd like to have have sex on the top of a mountain, as I can imagine the air and the sensation would be fantastic and it'd also be quite secluded: the problem I have with outdoor sex(I experimented a lot when I was younger and trying new experiences) is I'd be paranoid about other people being around or stumbling across us. The threat of being found really doesn't do anything for me!  At least if you're on top of a mountain in the evening/night, it's unlikely there'll be any random mountain climbers disturbing you.

  • Mathew Abisai
    Mathew Abisai wrote:

    these are all a bunch on losers, mindloaded with crap and when reality comes there  they cant do shit.....stop wasting time....SEX is an ART  not your fingers and your keyboard with your low minded imaginations....dont make it look to be a very useless thing......you boring girls, better start from the drawing board to really understand what is sex....and guys dont hide your true color, its not about what is desirable in the eyes of the girls when u comment here...its about the reality of things.....so get out of DREAMLAND ALL OF YOU

  • Daniel
    Daniel wrote:
    Wow, dude, it's one thing to rag on sex cliches with 'SEX is an ART' wisdom, but to do the internet-troll, my-computer-screen-is-bigger-than-your-computer-screen thing whilst doing it...come on, really!?!

  • Jasd Asd
    Jasd Asd wrote:
    I agree with Daniel - having tried it in a few places other than the bed, the novelty wears off and the most comfortable is having sex on the bed, but again sometimes comfort isn't what is sought when having sex.

    Isai - it's one thing to enjoy sex with all the action and quite another to discuss and share it. Sex can come in many forms - phone sex, cyber sex, reading & watching porn, reading/writing sex novels, etc etc ...everyone has the right to enjoy sex in their own way, even through their imaginations.

  • Pavoir Sponse
    Pavoir Sponse wrote:
    I'm still waiting to try it...
  • Kodi
    Kodi wrote:

    Sex is an Art?  Whoa thats deeeeeeep!  I know it is natural and raw, but can also be special.  It is much more than the physical contact between two people's sexual organs you know.  If thats all it is for you then you are missing the big picture.  Woman and men expereince it differently you know.  Different emotions and chemicals are at work here, so what may feel like physical sex art to you may be something else to her.  The physical is great, but there is much more happening than meets the eye.

  • Pavoir Sponse
    Pavoir Sponse wrote:
    ...any excuse to take a few nuggest from 'The Big Lebowski'

    MAUDE: Do you like sex, Mr. Lebowski?

    DUDE: Excuse me?

    MAUDE: Sex. The physical act of love. Coitus. Do you like it?

    DUDE: I was talking about my rug.

    MAUDE: You're not interested in sex?

    DUDE: You mean coitus?

    MAUDE: I like it too. It's a male myth about feminists that we hate sex. It can be a natural, zesty enterprise. But unfortunately there are some people--it is called satyriasis in men, nymphomania in women--who engage in it compulsively and without joy.

    DUDE: Oh, no.

    MAUDE: Yes Mr. Lebowski, these unfortunate souls cannot love in the true sense of the word. Our mutual acquaintance Bunny is one of these.
  • MiLo
    MiLo wrote:
    Read through all you guys wrote, i see a book called "Place where most sex happens" haha
  • Ms Bla
    Ms Bla wrote:
    chuck ?? what r u doing here ?
  • MiLo
    MiLo wrote:
    wandering,waiting for my beautiful,haha
  • Vicky
    Vicky wrote:
    on the bed .. ofcourse..
    love taking shower together .. and before the shower or after it .. both are cool for sex ..
    anybody tried in wangba ? haha..
  • Lucia
    Lucia wrote:
    wooow,It's sensitive topic ,isn't ? for me,i love all kinds of way to sex.it's the best interesing game in my life!
  • Xx
    Xx wrote:
    'SEX is an ART'
    i wish to do it wherever whenever i feel like to,ignoring all the nuts around,just him and me!
  • Stina Rytter Norheim
    well i think sex is the best thing that is in this life and the most exciting.its the one thing that can make u feel like u are afraid but excited at the same time.the one thing that can make u feel unsure of urself in different ways.u might feel like a king in the aspect of perfoming or having sex but there are some girls u meet and knowing what is coming next start too sweat and feel like "oh my god,this is really gonna happen now"lol.there is no guy in this world who can tell me he hasnt gotten this feeling before.i cant say about girls cos we guys really dont know how girls feel inside when the deed is about to happen.i dont think sex in the car would be comfortable.sex in the toilet would be great.sex in thathroom is fantastic unless u are in a hurry to get in if u know what i mean then u get tired.sex in anywhere with space and sometimes public is great .the public part is that the feeling of maybe getting caught increases the pleasure and excitement at the same time. thanks for raising the topic olive zhu. we are all thinking it but nobody wants to admit it.
  • Pomatree
    Pomatree wrote:
    too wild a topic for me
  • Stina Rytter Norheim
    how is too wild for u?u afraid u dont meet up?or afraid to think of the possibility that u just might trying new things?

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