Discussion » Health & Fitness » Girls,pl come in, what would u do?

  • Man TianFei
    Man TianFei wrote:
    If you like a boy, you will directly express it : hi ,guy,date with me and be my love ? or imply indirect ,make him having chance to dream of u? wish here's babies have different views : )
  • Bobo
    Bobo wrote:

    sometimes just chat with him and know him more....and if there is a chance, i will ask a date.

  • Man TianFei
    Man TianFei wrote:
    有句话叫如果需要女孩子主动去争取的男人,其实是最不值得争取的。因为如果一个男人喜欢一个女人,他又怎么忍禁得住而不去有所行动呢? 对此,童鞋们怎么看呢?
  • MoMo
    MoMo wrote:

    同意

    不过我喜欢别人通常是暗恋。。哈哈。。。可能表白是在关心他好长时间后才表白的吧。。。反正我是这样的。。哈哈

  • Shane
    Shane wrote:

    问题在多需争取的很强的男人并不是好男人。。。而且中国和美国女孩性格的差别很大,外国女孩通常比较直接,不是说他们一定会开口说出心里话,但是她们一般会给我们任何“暗示”

    先说我来自美国,说实话,我对带来很多麻烦的女生一点都不感兴趣。在我们国家,男女关系之间两方的角色比较平衡,可能很多人不会接受这么认真的去争取女朋友。

  • Man TianFei
    Man TianFei wrote:
    楼上的先生,请解释一下:什么样的女生 叫“带来很多麻烦的女生”。 还有,为什么说“可能很多人不会接受这么认真的去争取女朋友。”这句话是什么意思呢?
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Thought this was supposed to be a girls only thread?

  • Tian 王倚天

    and miss out on this poorly orchestrated scheme attempting to appear thoughtful in front of bored Women?

    I think not!

  • &%$
    &%$ wrote:

    Passing by and will come back again!

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Yet another good question from Peter ... the title is "girls, please come in, what would you do", right?

  • Man TianFei
    Man TianFei wrote:
    I have question want to ask man too. Dose morden men need a noble, dignified and beautiful lady woman to give him up the scene and proud? or need a weird wizard, fun woman break them rule and boring life ? 啊,英文实在不是我说的 。。。。。来遍中文意思: 现代男人是需要一个大气、端庄、美丽的女子来给他撑场面?还是需要一个古怪精灵的女人来修理、捣乱他们的生活?
  • Man TianFei
    Man TianFei wrote:
    haha, P. u will have a dignified wife,and would have an affair with the girl who can break rules ^-^
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    Hahaha, as always, that was subject to interpretation, and I just happen to have my own unique one ... and thanks for taking your valuable time to calrify :)

    但既然问男生了,我就答一句吧...

    这里每位"现代男人",都会有不一样的答案,但古语有云,"贤内助",广东话也有一句"出得厅堂,入得厨房"...

    就凭我个人经验,以前有一个"烟不离手",说话也挺"慷慨激昂"的女友,外表也不失为漂亮,刚开始当然没什么问题,但久而久之,发现没办法跟她的朋友和家人沟通...话说回来...我跟我太太结婚六年了,如果你们那位有幸曾经碰见我们在王府井或西单出现,你多数会看见两个大小孩在街上吵吵闹闹,嘻嘻哈哈的(有时甚至吵的面红耳赤)...她平常在公司就是大气,端庄,但私人时间就表现得古怪精灵(但也不至于会捣乱)...

    你说的,只是其中两种女孩,还有其他不同类型,不同性格...每个男生的"需求"不会一样,其实很难妄下定论"现代男人"要些怎么样的女孩吧?

  • MoMo
    MoMo wrote:

    Little Slow可能两个都要哦。。。只不过,发挥在不同的时刻~哈哈。。最好发挥的恰到好处

  • MoMo
    MoMo wrote:

    I mean one woman who has both qualities Little Slow mentioned

  • Candy Q
    Candy Q wrote:

    很简单啊。。。

    如果你已经喜欢了,就说说明你对他有了解。

    投其所好喽。

    但是别去托着双方幻想什么如久生情。

    要是真的有缘,从一开始就感觉得到。

  • Lily Wang
    Lily Wang wrote:

    反正无论什么样的女生都有男生喜欢,所以没有好坏,只有合不合适自己。反正我是直接的,受不了搞暧昧的,当然也要看心情,但是如果是真的喜欢对方,就无法忍受长期的暧昧吧。

  • Şerife
    Şerife wrote:

    喜欢这个话题。在我看来女人先爱自己才会有男人爱她。暗恋我不喜欢,很痛苦。恋爱本身应该很美好,应该享受恋爱的过程比较好。我希望女人是独立的。中国女孩子比较含蓄,并不代表她们是麻烦。我同意楼上的说法,是个人都有人喜欢,只是如果要是聪明的女人,就会有更多的人喜欢。我希望所有的美女们都是聪明的,美丽的,幸福的!~

  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    哈哈...聪明,才值得别人尊重,我自知自己不聪明,所以没有人会尊重我...全世界最可爱的,最聪明的女人,就是那些懂得"装傻"的女人...

    独立能力强,事业心重的女人,当然也有她们的魅力,但那主要是从职业上来说,从男女关系的角度,她们没有那些"弱不经风"的女孩来得吸引,因为男人的天性就是保护女人...太强的女人不像需要别人保护,比较起来就没有那么有吸引力...但,事实就是这样好玩,这样荒唐...再强,再能干,再聪明的女人,也只是一个女人,她们都有脆弱的一面,都需要男人去保护...

     

  • Jem Lim
    Jem Lim wrote:

    your line 'hi ,guy,date with me and be my love ?"

    reminded me of christopher marlowe's famous poem:

    "come live with and be my love" lol...

    breaking the status quo (you know, of girls being more conservative and reserved) can be cool for some guys. but i still think that regardless on how you approach the opposite sex, always deem yourself of value and never look cheap.

    AND, there's always this thing called patience. if you can practice it in your life and take a bit easy especially on matters of the heart, who knows, what tomorrow's gonna be like :)

  • Chapious
    Chapious wrote:
    表面和内心很多时候是不一致的,很难同时达成一致 这就是为什么人是有肉体和灵魂~~~
  • 叮噹叔叔 (令狐叮噹)

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    If you feel "cheap" about yourself, it actually shows ... and then people will treat you accordingly ...

    A better way to say this "if you dont respect yourself, as well, if you dont respect others, you will not get the respect that you want" ... also, people who are two-faced dont deserve any respect, no matter how beautiful they might be on the outside, because they are ugly inside...

     

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