Discussion » Nonsense » 了解中国人的婚姻观,你应该看什么书?

  • Stephen Zhao
    Stephen Zhao wrote:

    通过阅读,你通常可以了解一个民族的特性。对于异国,并不是简单知道她的国土面积有多大、人口有多少或者其他一些经济指标就算是了解她了。更重要的是,你需要深入她的城市的市井街头,倾听她的人民的谈话,了解他们的困惑,把握他们的情感。

    阅读这个国家具有典型性和代表性的小说往往可以帮助你更多的了解这个民族的个性。针对中国人看待爱情、婚姻的观点,我觉得可以阅读张爱玲的小说集,例如《红玫瑰与白玫瑰》什么的。

    当代的作品,我知道《中国式离婚》不错,王海的小说作品。

    大家还有别的推荐么?比如反映80后人群的婚姻观念的小说?

  • Jenny Cai
    Jenny Cai wrote:

    那你就看奋斗好了

  • Stephen Zhao
    Stephen Zhao wrote:

    嗯,《奋斗》,电视剧和书都有,对吧?

  • Anne Xu
    Anne Xu wrote:

    奋斗讲的不现实。

  • 罗罗
    罗罗 wrote:

    结婚十年,靠近你温暖我,都是现在婚姻中存在的普遍现象!

  • Monicayale
    Monicayale wrote:

    金婚,将的特生活化

  • Monicayale
    Monicayale wrote:

    金婚,讲的特生活化

  • Shane
    Shane wrote:

    这个“奋斗”是什么东西?电视剧好看吗?

  • Colin L
    Colin L wrote:

    奋斗是YY电视剧,你看点别的吧

  • Tammy
    Tammy wrote:

    奋斗是电视剧,很现实的故事情节!。。

  • 夏天
    夏天 wrote:

    奋斗比较真实的刻画了80后的婚姻状态,看看中国小说50强吧,了解婚姻先要了解社会背景

  • Shane
    Shane wrote:

    不要听本公司的,我想知道本人怎么这么笨放广告在论坛上。真丢人。

  • 廖婷婷
    廖婷婷 wrote:

    那未婚要看什么书呀?

  • Carissa
    Carissa wrote:

    关于美国婚姻观,又要看什么书呢?

  • Stephen Zhao
    Stephen Zhao wrote:

    哈哈,那请美国的朋友们给我们推荐一些反映美国人婚姻生活问题与状况的小说吧,呵呵

  • Yukhing Wong
    Yukhing Wong wrote:

    奋斗,貌似有点不切实际;

    金婚我还没看过!

  • Junyi
    Junyi wrote:

    奋斗是YY电视剧

    =========

    强烈赞同,貌似小女孩都喜欢看

  • Junyi
    Junyi wrote:

    廖婷婷

    2 days ago

    那未婚要看什么书呀

    ============

    看海绵宝宝

  • Fubin Wang
    Fubin Wang wrote:

    金婚吧,演的太好了

  • Alex
    Alex wrote:

    You know wut, rather than watching TV dramas, we need practical experiences ; )

  • Joligne
    Joligne wrote:

    there is no difference between chinese marriage and foreign marriage. totally practical responsibility and duties ! nothing fun , nothing special. find the right person with proper social position , stable incomes. someone loyal to you but maybe not have to be the one you love. lol

    just bullshit, don't listen to me ! hahaha

  • Checkered
    Checkered wrote:

    身边难道没有那么多现成的例子么?

  • Shane
    Shane wrote:

    Joligne, what the hell are you talking about?

    错了错了错了错了

  • Che Obama-Guevara (洋雷锋)

    Joligne, wait till you witness how the equalization of property works in a N. American divorce case.

  • Addy
    Addy wrote:

    joligne is right !chinese marriage means i want u stay with me forever and give u all money to me,that it. 

    or the young pussiss need the feelings of love that they do not even know what is it. it just like the movie <Vicky Cristina Barcelona> says they don't know what they want ,they just know what they don't want . 

    中国女人的婚姻观是要所有的承诺和帮助。两个人要相互扶持到永远。

    后来收到西方思想影响,看了诸多言情小说以后,年轻人寻找一种爱的感觉。但实际上是全凭各种可笑概念的灌输。比如电视、广告、周围人的虚假幸福。

  • Checkered
    Checkered wrote:

    oh, the young chinese pussies you mentioned, know that they want: money, material obviously according to your logic, they dont know this is what they really dont want, coz yes, they dont know what love or a decent life is...

  • Checkered
    Checkered wrote:

    anyway this thing and such, really depends on INDIVIDUAL, not nationality..

  • Da Fan
    Da Fan wrote:

    任何有关当今“中国人的...”都可以写一本书了...嗯...或者说写一本书也说不清楚~

  • Yan Zi
    Yan Zi wrote:

    多生活两年 就有感觉了

  • Yan Zi
    Yan Zi wrote:

    《好想 好想谈恋爱》可以看看

  • Whynot
    Whynot wrote:

    每个人的观念也都不同吧?

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